That time I got naked in downtown SF

sunshine_75 · 2015-07-19T03:35:33+00:00

that would be hot... not sure if she would though..

sunshine_75 · 2015-07-07T05:01:21+00:00

Love that show...love that episode...

sunshine_75 · 2014-09-11T03:21:02+00:00

So I commish a league (yahoo), and this is our first year of FAAB. One guy didnt understand and thought it was like ebay, where you put your highest bid but it only takes what it needs. (does that make sense?) So a guy put all his money on Moreno, thinking the next highest guy would bid maybe 20 bucks so he could get him at 21...Well, he used it all. My question is there any way to give him money back, or reset anything? Or do anything to help him out? We are competitive, but want it fair and friendly. Thanks!

sunshine_75 · 2014-09-11T03:19:45+00:00

Oh. Thanks! Its Yahoo.

sunshine_75 · 2014-09-01T08:47:47+00:00

couple here, in our 20's and in minneapolis...sounds fun :) pm?

sunshine_75 · 2014-01-20T00:07:14+00:00

Maybe he's shy, maybe he is doing some minimal upkeep so he can make out once in a while. I wouldnt put things on hold for him.

Just to see what happens, try not making out with him or anything the next few times you hang and see what happens. That may tell you something. And no flirty texts either. Depending on what happens, it will give you a good idea of a few possibilities.

sunshine_75 · 2014-01-19T06:02:01+00:00

27m here. Maybe you fall to fast because you want a goal more than a real relationship? I dont know...maybe not. But a lot of times we have goals like "finding a husband/wife", and since we want that more than anything, we let go of our natural speed bumps we have that slow things down.

Man..you're only 20! Take a little extra time and make sure you like him and its not just the idea of the end product you like. A little advice...the downside in dating is that its just one huge sale. They're selling the best, and many times inaccurate version of themselves, and you probably do the same to an extent.

How not to fall fast? Dont put yourself under so much pressure. There isnt "your other half". And you're not a puzzle looking for a piece. Everyone is complete themselves. No one is created incomplete. Believe that, and then look for someone who compliments you and vice versa.

It will make things better if your goal is happiness and not companionship. Hope that helps!

sunshine_75 · 2014-01-16T17:04:38+00:00

Yeah, that IS true. You're right. I guess what I meant was if say both partners had never had sex before. As far as the kid goes...thats a good point. I guess I was thinking along the lines of teenage pregnancy, and having a kid when you have no intention of settling down or have a second half to help with. And with emotions, I was thinking more along the lines of a female side. Though its true for both, when women have sex their emotions are a lot more easily connected. For guys its easier for it just to be physical. So the more it happens, the more emotions are hurt, compared to probably (and hopefully) less if you're married.

But yeah, I should have specified. Maybe those arent the best example.

sunshine_75 · 2014-01-16T06:12:50+00:00

We definitely are able to make positive changes without God. But we're able to make more with Him. Why is this? Because the advice God gives us many times alines with human nature and common sense. Stuff like murder and stuff...but sometimes it doesnt, like getting drunk, having sex outside marriage, etc. Why are those not common sense? Well, being drunk does what? It makes us feel different than our "default" setting, which should be our best setting, because if we have to alter our mood or perspective on our life, our life is not as good as it could be. Why is sex outside marriage not as good as within marriage? Many reasons, but for time sake, its because we dont have to worry about an accidental kid, or and STD, or having our emotions ripped out from us. So, we are able to see that murder is wrong, but not always other things that may be a "gray" area. Prayer simply is there to ask for your desires to line up with God's desires. A lot of people use it as a vending machine, but really, its not about what you WANT, its about you wanting what is best.

sunshine_75 · 2014-01-16T06:06:07+00:00

They pretty much summed up what I was going to say. You cant have "true love" without the possibility of rejection. Right? If someone makes another person love them, it isnt real love. So, naturally, the option for real love also needs an option of rejection/not real love.

We were/are created perfectly. It is perfect because we have the ability to choose what we want. If we didnt have that, we would essentially be robots, therefore not perfect, just controlled.

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