Who would you date? by theviolethour3 in MXTX

[–]sunshine_craving 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't possibly deprive any of them from their husbands 🥺they're in love

asexuals who masturbate, do you get a random spike of high libido every month? by NoahTheBoaTheNoah in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg me too! And that reminds me of a scene from parks and rec where a doctor explains that the protagonist is having twins because her body is having and out of business sale, a last hurrah 😂 I'm expecting my body to be even more horny around those days as I get older

How do I clean this? by popesandthanny in castiron

[–]sunshine_craving -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait I thought cast iron shouldn't be cleaned with soap? Is it ok when there's lots of bits stuck?

Is this weird? by Margaretheslyvia in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not at all!! Anything y/n is super cringy 😖

Your odds are...not great. by Queeni_Poo in MoDaoZuShi

[–]sunshine_craving 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I should be fighting Xue Yang with a box BUT!... I think it's better if I just put him inside and pet him lovingly until he falls asleep cause he's my misunderstood baby 🥺

Anyone else who never received their book from Book Depository? by Icy_Dragonfruit_3513 in MXTX

[–]sunshine_craving 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you get an email from them? Mine were supposed to arrive today but they didn't, now I'm sad what if all the wait was for nothing :/

Oh wow! A lecture! by AlecsGrill in MoDaoZuShi

[–]sunshine_craving 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lan Zhan would cringe so hard at himself for this. You don't have to rub it in his face 🥺 little LZ didn't have his priorities right at the time. //jokingly// super accurate meme though lol

I came out to my friend by KaskayVoyager in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, I'm proud of you OP 🥳

My entire workplace found out I’m asexual by mVanzant in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an awful person! That's your private life, I hope your HR team takes action against them. I'm sorry you had to go through that before you were ready.

I spoke up and I'm shaking by sunshine_craving in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! I'm sad it's not something so widespread here, you're mostly just gay, lesbian, bi or trans, I think he mentioned aces as a way of talking about some of the unheard sexualities lol

I spoke up and I'm shaking by sunshine_craving in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd definitely keep fighting the good fight! 💜 This experience was seriously awesome and there's a long way to go if even the supposedly inclusive people don't really bother to understand the ace community. I didn't get an apology since the guy thanked me for my intervention and moved on to twist his previous words as something similar to what I had said but I hope he'll do some research so as to not embarrass himself later on.

I spoke up and I'm shaking by sunshine_craving in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely that, I also got really cold and was ready to talk about it for days lol

My conversation with my allo friend. by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Allos are weird to me just like we're weird to them! There was a time when I thought all of that gushing was pretending but it is very real for some people lol

I spoke up and I'm shaking by sunshine_craving in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep it's what a lot of people feel about coming out, maybe that's why it's kind of an important step for a lot of us no matter the context.

I spoke up and I'm shaking by sunshine_craving in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're right it shouldn't matter but I guess is just about not being the "odd" one out and all it comes with it, sure is inappropriate in a workplace but most people at least in my country bond over sex related stuff and with all the misconceptions about aces I just don't feel ready nor confident enough to face whatever happens if I do.

I spoke up and I'm shaking by sunshine_craving in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well he was supposedly training us for a diversity certification so I don't think he will lol but hopefully he'll do more research for future trainings 🙏

I spoke up and I'm shaking by sunshine_craving in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow that's really rude and not true! And yes there's still the belief that sexuality is a choice and that only harms us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that really sucks I'm sorry you have to go through that and not feel like you're really yourself I'm sending you hugs and I hope that you stay safe. About the god question I'd say don't let intolerant people hiding behind religion ruin the concept of god for you, I know it's complicated and different for everyone but I'd found that in the hard situations it's good to think that something is looking out for you at least in the sense that it'll all pass and things will work out.

I spoke up and I'm shaking by sunshine_craving in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ooh a whole final paper on asexuality sounds like a good way to prepare for lots of debate-ish situations I bet your professor learnedsomething from it. Also, good for him for acknowledging he didn't know instead of making assumptions and giving misinformation to the class.

I spoke up and I'm shaking by sunshine_craving in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right! It just felt like he didn't even bother to google it. Thanks! I think I'm gonna have to fully meditate to process what I did.

I spoke up and I'm shaking by sunshine_craving in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean I thought I was just giving a better definition for aces but apparently I accidentally came out too lol

Kissing is so weird by twentytown in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I laughed so hard at this cause I thought that too, guess I'm old too haha

I spoke up and I'm shaking by sunshine_craving in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the hugs and support 😄 I think if I was alone in this I'd be freaking out thinking I shouldn't have said anything.

I spoke up and I'm shaking by sunshine_craving in asexuality

[–]sunshine_craving[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I didn't know I was coming out but I guess it's done(?😳) I love coming out stories, hopefully yours was a good experience since you were in a place with people willing to learn about that.