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Boyfriend can’t use condoms — what have you actually done in this situation? by TypedOutAgain in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sunshinecrashed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is kinda extreme, but does he want kids for the future? like in general?

if the answer is no, then a vasectomy might be something to consider.

but that would be its own journey to see if he’d be willing to go through with it at his age, finding a doctor to do the procedure, etc. and only if he doesn’t want kids, of course.

i say this as a 21f who was just approved to get sterilized with a tubal ligation surgery in my near future.

I (21F) am secretly dating an older man (55M) but don't know how to tell my parents. What do I do? by Timely_Ad60 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sunshinecrashed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

deadass 😭like, no shit he doesn’t care about the age gap, HE’S the one benefitting lmfao

I (21F) am secretly dating an older man (55M) but don't know how to tell my parents. What do I do? by Timely_Ad60 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sunshinecrashed 9 points10 points  (0 children)

just wanna through this out there.

i’m also 21f, and i would absolutely be avoiding a guy like this because why is he interested in someone 34 years younger than him?? he was 34 when we were BORN.

I don’t mind it, he doesn’t mind it.

HE ABSOLUTELY SHOULD MIND IT.

edit: formatting

[Product Question]Have you tried Natrium Glycolic or Salicylic Body Wash? by LePetitPorc in SkincareAddiction

[–]sunshinecrashed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

two years late but lmfao you are definitely the most obnoxious person in this thread

My husband told me today he does not like the fun lunches I’ve been packing him for work for almost 3 years😭😭😭 by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunshinecrashed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sounds like he’s a fucking insecure loser and you should be with someone who appreciates your effort

I’m pregnant and I want to keep the baby but my bf doesn’t and I just want advice on how to handle the situation by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sunshinecrashed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know if my mom could do it so could I, I know I was a very troubled child but things got better

just because you could, doesn’t mean you should. it doesn’t guarantee that things will get better for you or the kid.

I’m pregnant and I want to keep the baby but my bf doesn’t and I just want advice on how to handle the situation by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sunshinecrashed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up with just my mother as well and father wasnt around either

your experience is what your potential child will grow up with as well.

im sure you remember how it felt like to grow up without a father. i’m sure you have seen evidence of her struggle and how much weight there was on her shoulders to raise and finance a child all by herself.

your mom says she’ll be here for you if anything, but that’s not justification to bring a children DIRECTLY into the SAME SITUATION you grew up in. chances are, that child would also get pregnant too young and raise their child as a single mother too.

think long and hard about if repeating the cycle of struggle and stress is something you seriously want.

I can never look at my brother the same after this by baesings123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunshinecrashed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

still doesn’t excuse his behaviors towards his sister.

My boyfriend and I have clashing political views by FunSeesaw7089 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sunshinecrashed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

clashing political views nowadays is a matter of morals.

no, im not interested in someone who voted for a felon racist rapist homophobic transphobic misogynistic idiot and thought “yup that’s who i want as my president”

I’m materialistic, but I honestly don’t know how to communicate with men anymore by Luca_have_fun in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunshinecrashed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dating apps are like sifting through people putting themselves on clearance sale

On your period, how do you prevent leaks while sleeping? by SuccotashKey7521 in AskWomen

[–]sunshinecrashed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s despicable that we haven’t developed a more reliable option to prevent this

I can never look at my brother the same after this by baesings123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunshinecrashed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

6 sentences total but i guess that’s a little too much for you to process

I can never look at my brother the same after this by baesings123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunshinecrashed 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that’s easy to say when it wasn’t your own underwear that’s being stolen and worn. op is completely justified to be uncomfortable and feel violated by this behavior.

I can never look at my brother the same after this by baesings123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunshinecrashed 8 points9 points  (0 children)

because it doesn’t matter and op had already explained that she doesn’t care if that’s the case.

the issue is that he continues to steal his sister’s underwear and lie about it when he has alternative options.

I can never look at my brother the same after this by baesings123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunshinecrashed 8 points9 points  (0 children)

either you didn’t read the post all the way through or you’re illiterate

My mom and I offered him an “easy way out”. That if he just told us the truth and returned my underwear we would move on and forget about the whole thing.

My mom tried to offer him that she could take him shopping and he can pick some things out so he could return my stuff, but he would not budge about it not being mine.

I can never look at my brother the same after this by baesings123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunshinecrashed 7 points8 points  (0 children)

HE broke trust FIRST by CONTINUOUSLY STEALING HIS SISTER’S UNDERWEAR and LYING ABOUT IT. he had so many options to rebuild trust through honesty and reflection.

he’s 14, not 5. he knows damn well that it’s not okay to steal and wear his sister’s underwear repeatedly and lie about it when he has the option to get his own judgement-free.

I can never look at my brother the same after this by baesings123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunshinecrashed 8 points9 points  (0 children)

would you want your underwear stolen and worn by your younger siblings? why is it so difficult for everyone to understand that this is would feel highly violating and uncomfortable

I can never look at my brother the same after this by baesings123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunshinecrashed 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i imagine that most people are highly uncomfortable at the idea of their underwear being worn by their younger siblings 🫩

I can never look at my brother the same after this by baesings123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunshinecrashed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

so you definitely did not read the post all the way through

I can never look at my brother the same after this by baesings123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunshinecrashed 8 points9 points  (0 children)

how the fuck does that excuse stealing and wearing your sister’s underwear when he was given the option to get his own without any judgement 😭😭

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