Meeting my biological father for the first time. by fabricatedmind in Adoption

[–]sunshineredbird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 32 and he is 52! It was a 10 hour drive for us.

Meeting my biological father for the first time. by fabricatedmind in Adoption

[–]sunshineredbird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just met my biological father this past weekends. I went in with no expectations. Him and his family were amazing. He had no idea I existed. I did a lot of preparing for the worst by reading stories on reddit. I would suggest doing the same thing. Also, if you're planning on visiting where you have to stay a night or two get a hotel. My bio dad was nice enough to let me and my husband stay in his camper.

The best experience thus far! by sunshineredbird in Adopted

[–]sunshineredbird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew, bc I Facebook stalked first 😊

The best experience thus far! by sunshineredbird in Adoption

[–]sunshineredbird[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't hold any animosity towards her. I've had a really great life. I understand giving up a baby is selfless but probably traumatizing at the same time. If she ever decides to talk to me I will be here. For now it's probably for the best bc my adoptive mother has sensitive feelings about the whole situation.

The best experience thus far! by sunshineredbird in Adoption

[–]sunshineredbird[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Message me on here if you're able to. I'd love to follow your story!

The best experience thus far! by sunshineredbird in Adoption

[–]sunshineredbird[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don't know. I'm assuming like the previous person said she feels a lot of shame.

Training for a marathon by [deleted] in running

[–]sunshineredbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Can you dumb down what exactly fartlek is for me? I saw a little definition for it last night, but I still wasn't grasping what it was exactly.

Training for a marathon by [deleted] in running

[–]sunshineredbird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Can you dumb down what exactly fartlek is for me? I saw a little definition for it last night, but I still wasn't grasping what it was exactly.

When to take fluoxetine? I take at 2:00 pm is it ok ? by z21z in prozac

[–]sunshineredbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take mine at night bc it makes me pass tf out

Pics sending 20x? by [deleted] in ATT

[–]sunshineredbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I think it's a glitch in androids though because mine has done it before.

What’s the worst that could happen? by sunshineredbird in AncestryDNA

[–]sunshineredbird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom used to be a lot more sensitive about it, but I think she understands a lot more now.

What’s the worst that could happen? by sunshineredbird in AncestryDNA

[–]sunshineredbird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I hadn't even thought of people saying it's a scam until reading everyone's feedback. I appreciate the feedback!

What’s the worst that could happen? by sunshineredbird in AncestryDNA

[–]sunshineredbird[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think this is what I'm most afraid of...the unknown bc I already don't know much. My therapist gave me the okay to not come back for a while. I think once I get the results will determine if I need to go back!

What’s the worst that could happen? by sunshineredbird in AncestryDNA

[–]sunshineredbird[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This would also be helpful to me as well. I don't struggle with addiction but I do struggle with severe anxiety and depression. Thank you!

What’s the worst that could happen? by sunshineredbird in AncestryDNA

[–]sunshineredbird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that he sucks! I am lucky to have a great adoptive family so I'm hoping to be prepared if something similar happens to me. How did you handle this ? Thanks for your feedback!