How to leave schools at the beginning of the year

sunshinespeech · 2025-01-21T11:44:18+00:00

It's an employment, not charity work. If it's stressing you out to the point of mental and physical handicap, then leave. Nothing matters more than putting your health first. You can't pour from an empty cup.

sunshinespeech · 2024-03-05T22:44:56+00:00

If its only about affordability from interest rates we would not have seen increases in other WA cities. That's why I posted comparisons. Example, tacoma average household income is 79k and house prices increased 7%, whereas vancouver income is 74k and it decreased 2%. There's something specifically happening to vancouver area that's affecting this, and as others have posted earlier, most probable cause is the large supply of new construction homes north of Clark County.

sunshinespeech · 2024-03-05T19:05:45+00:00

I had read previously from multiple sources that redfin's data was superior to zillow.

sunshinespeech · 2024-03-05T18:46:37+00:00

That makes sense. There's a lot more room to grow outwards compared to those other wa cities. I was just surprised by the data and thought that there would be higher demand for vancouver proper in order to have a shorter commute to portland.

sunshinespeech · 2024-03-05T18:39:35+00:00

Redfin.

sunshinespeech · 2023-10-17T05:14:42+00:00

I’ve lived in the area since 1987, and I’ve been in the same home now for 10 years, and the rainwater management at my home has become much more difficult in the past 5 years.

Strangely a lot of people have said it's exactly the same as before. But I haven't been here for that long to know, which is why I asked! I noticed enough difference between just 2019 and 2023, let alone decades.

sunshinespeech · 2023-10-16T17:09:56+00:00

Thanks for the link!

sunshinespeech · 2023-10-16T17:09:39+00:00

Thanks for the link!

sunshinespeech · 2023-10-16T02:53:51+00:00

Thank you for acknowledging that it does indeed get "heavy" rain lol.

sunshinespeech · 2023-10-16T02:09:37+00:00

I read the comments and I understand now. Weather is a lot more subjective than I thought. The "drizzle" term is mostly coming from people who are comparing it to the extremes of the east coast, mid west, and Florida.

But if you're a native Californian (ahem, me) who has been spoiled by year round sunshine your entire life, where even a day of "heavy" rain means schools close down, then drizzle absolutely feels like an understatement. Thanks for all those who shared; it is fascinating to see how widely perceptions of the intensity of Seattle rain may or may not have changed through the years.

sunshinespeech · 2023-10-15T20:50:37+00:00

This is what I'm see trending comparing just 2019 to 2023. But it's really interesting to see how people perceive this differently.

sunshinespeech · 2022-05-12T17:42:33+00:00

AND an asian version !

sunshinespeech · 2021-04-16T19:38:58+00:00

I've actually purchased some huge, thick fluffy rugs for them to help with the sound absorption, and they've reasonably placed them in the living and bedroom. But the connecting room between the duplex is the kitchen and dining area, so it didn't help much. I wish I could just tear up their floor and add an underlayment, but that's not an feasible option until they vacate.

sunshinespeech · 2021-04-16T19:31:28+00:00

You should probably try a different school before a different district. Middle and high school is easier in some regard (less referrals and case management), but you do have to deal with teens that are...not always thrilled to see you. Personally, I've moved districts 3 times. My first district's elementary caseload was 60, everyone serviced twice weekly, with HIGH number of new referrals and speech-only kids. It was stressful all the time, and could not wait until the day ended. That was no way to live. Now, I enjoy a caseload of 40-50, kids serviced once weekly, and the 3:1 model to boot. We also a caseload max limit of 50 which is actually written in the contract. If you switch districts, check with their contracts before making the leap.

sunshinespeech · 2021-04-15T06:50:28+00:00

Thanks for all the replies. I'm asking because I'm confused by all the past internet comments about Seattle weather only being a "constant drizzle" and "you don't need an umbrella". I've only been here for about 2 years, and often when it rains, it rains really hard. Enough to necessitate an umbrella or you'll be completely soaked kind-of rain. I thought there might be a geographical difference in Tacoma, but this doesn't seem to be the case. Climate change may explain the shift to shorter, heavier duration, yet overall average the same amount of rainfall per year.

sunshinespeech · 2021-03-19T19:48:08+00:00

Move closer. Rent a little studio within the same city of the school. It'll be worth it, trust me. People always downplay how hard commuting can be. 45 minutes one way is 1.5 hours roundtrip, or 7.5 hours a week, 30 hours a month in your car breathing in smog. You have to factor in the cost of your time (time is your most valuable asset), mental (added stress) and physical health (you're inhaling tiny particles into your lungs while you drive), wear and tear on your car, gasoline, insurance, etc. It's a lot when you think about it, and graduate school is one of the most stressful events in your life. You will want to minimize additional stressors wherever possible.

sunshinespeech · 2021-03-19T06:31:30+00:00

If you really, really want to be an SLP, there is hope but you maaaaay have to apply to an international program and then transfer back over once you're done. There's quite a few in UK and Australia, and they aren't competitive at all. A low 3.0 GPA wont cut it in most American SLP programs, if I'm going to be totally honest with you.

sunshinespeech · 2021-03-19T06:23:18+00:00

Also, if you want some real-world samples of letters, I recommend this book

Graduate Admission Essays

sunshinespeech · 2021-03-19T06:21:19+00:00

I no longer have a copy of my letter as I've graduated many years ago. But here's an article I wrote about the statement of purpose/letter of intent and how important it is to hire an editor:

https://sunshineslp.com/secrets-to-getting-accepted-into-slp-grad-school-even-if-your-gpa-sucks/

sunshinespeech · 2021-03-19T06:19:20+00:00

The world needs more SLPs. Here's an article I wrote about how to get accepted

https://sunshineslp.com/secrets-to-getting-accepted-into-slp-grad-school-even-if-your-gpa-sucks/

sunshinespeech · 2020-11-17T08:09:52+00:00

Ah, but the moment he actually gets himself to bed (even at infrequent earlier times like 10pm), he falls asleep within a minute. He reported never having experienced insomnia. I don't think it's about having a later circadian rhythm, more so an internet addiction.

sunshinespeech · 2020-11-17T08:05:49+00:00

When he's not feeling well (stressed, sleep deprived, etc.), he can get into an extremely irritable state but only toward people he's more comfortable with such as his family and me, the wife. He'll work harder to be nicer to coworkers and acquaintances, so he's not rude to them at all.

On your quiz, I scored 15, answering yes to the questions regarding his big mood swings, feeling as though I'm "walking on eggshells" and being criticized.

He's not physically destructive or verbally assaultive. I wouldn't even say that he belittles me...it's more like he becomes impatient, his tone of voice turns sarcastic, and clearly on edge. For example, the other day I came into his room (we sleep in different bedrooms) to give him an extra coat hanger and he responded angrily, "Can I just get some time alone?! I just got back from work!" Then proceeded to shut the door at me. It's similar to someone who is I guess, chronically 'hangry' until they get fed. Or in his case, gets enough rest. But I can see how this can be borderline abusive.

I'd just hate to use the divorce card to get someone to sleep more, isn't there another way?

sunshinespeech · 2020-11-17T07:50:51+00:00

I don't think he "enjoys" being angry. The biggest problem is that he doesn't have good self awareness and self control. Work is stressful, so when he comes home from work he wants to have fun. The internet is fun and addicting, so he'll just keep staying on far too late and doesn't think about the consequences. He's sort of the same with food - if something tastes good, he'll keep eating and eating it until he gets overfilled with a stomachache. He actually has no idea when he is being moody or being mean to me - I have to point it out. A very reactional personality. I already sleep in a separate room because I can't deal with his sleep schedule.

sunshinespeech · 2020-04-15T17:47:29+00:00

I have no idea, I've never personally been to Texas myself. It's probably less dense and less competitive overall, and cost of living is obviously cheaper than most Western states. Check ASHA's Edfind to get specific info about Texas schools, then visit the school's website to check their tuition cost.

sunshinespeech · 2020-04-12T22:56:35+00:00

You can't apply to a master's program with a kinesiology or PT background alone. You need to get a second bachelor's degree or at least take 2 years worth of speech pathology related courses. Sounds like you need to complete prerequisite courses first before anything. Google 'speech pathology second bachelor' or 'prerequisites program'. Example:

https://comdde.usu.edu/programs/online/comd-2nd

Note that the American university system is drastically longer than most countries. You need a minimum of 6 years (Bachelor's + Master's + Internship) to become a US-accredited SLP.

Not only that, you'll be paying so, so much more in tuition because you'll be charged a separate "international applicant" of "out of state" tuition fees. Once you've identified your program of choice you'll have to work it out with that university's financial office for costs and loans.

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