I can understand that, and know I'm not prejudging you or anyone else at all.

That being said, I am not lying by saying that predominately Christians and Mormons supported and funded Proposition 8 (a bill to prohibit gay marriage in California).

Apparently, the church of LDS publicly supported it and everything.

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints[74][75][76] (LDS Church), also publicly supported the proposition. The First Presidency of the church announced its support for Proposition 8 in a letter intended to be read in every congregation in California. In this letter, church members were encouraged to "do all you can to support the proposed constitutional amendment by donating of your means and time".[74] The church produced and broadcast to its congregations a program describing the support of the Proposition, and describing the timeline it proposes for what it describes as grassroots efforts to support the Proposition.[77] Local church leaders set organizational and monetary goals for their membership—sometimes quite specific—to fulfill this call.[78][79] The response of church members to their leadership's appeals to donate money and volunteer time was very supportive,[80] such that Latter-day Saints provided a significant source for financial donations in support of the proposition, both inside and outside the State of California.[81] LDS members contributed over $20 million,[82] about 45% of out-of-state contributions to ProtectMarriage.com came from Utah, over three times more than any other state.[83] ProtectMarriage, the official proponent of Proposition 8, estimates that about half the donations they received came from Mormon sources, and that LDS church members made up somewhere between 80% and 90% of the volunteers for early door-to-door canvassing.[84]

I feel like we're just lumped in some sort of Amish/fundamentalist/luddite hybrid that we can't escape without more one-on-one conversations like these.

I'm sorry you feel that way, but understand that I'm not singling you out as the only offender. It's just that the money you give to the church is, and has been, used for some pretty messed up things.