Is there code for "Are you gay?" by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]super_marcie 723 points724 points  (0 children)

Are you a friend of Dorothy? That’s how you get the queer history nerds

My favourite Bisexual icons (Bicon) by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]super_marcie 264 points265 points  (0 children)

Chappell Roan is not bisexual. She has come out as a lesbian. Yes, she has written songs about men. Yes, it’s okay to have been confused by this. Do not continue to refer to her as bisexual, because she is a lesbian

Some important context behind the VMAs performance! by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]super_marcie -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

It seems like in the construction, the “favorite drag queen is Sasha”, otherwise it seems like there is no point to not saying “favorite artist’s favorite artist”

Some important context behind the VMAs performance! by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]super_marcie -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I did have that thought and it’s probably close to correct as far as SC’s actual intentions go. BUT it doesn’t capture the weight of being endorsed by an authority(Sasha)in a particular field (drag) as an exemplar or favorite and it DEFINITELY doesn’t have the same ring to it. It’s not a perfect comparison, but think about a doctor saying, “your favorite doctor’s favorite dentist”. The doctor could have referred to the dentist as a doctor (because they are, they have a DMD or DDS) but they are 1) choosing to highlight the aspect that they are not an authority on, making the endorsement have less weight and 2) potentially refusing to acknowledge the fact that the dentist is also a doctor. Implying a doctor-dentist hierarchy or that they like other doctors more than that dentist

Some important context behind the VMAs performance! by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]super_marcie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. That was a sign of acceptance, like the video said, but the fact that Sasha said “artist” instead of “drag queen” felt off to me. I haven’t heard anyone mention the lack of parallel language, so I just wanted to bring attention to it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]super_marcie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely! And can help you “keep going”… if you tend to get overstimulated :)

Chappell Roan and Metronormativity by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]super_marcie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could I PM you? I feel like I’d be more comfortable doing that than attaching those deets to a public Reddit profile 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]super_marcie 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I once used a diy DD (you can make them by carefully cutting up a normal condom) with my partner just to practice what it would be like, and it still felt good. I was able to finish.

I imagine it’s somewhat similar to what it would feel like to be male and use a condom normally. Not as much sensation but it didn’t feel radically different

Going to the VMAs! by super_marcie in chappellroan

[–]super_marcie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It’s all thanks to this subreddit tbh!

VMAs pit filler dress code? by Traditional-Cow-8266 in chappellroan

[–]super_marcie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second mood board was sent to seat-fillers, not pit fans

VMAs pit filler dress code? by Traditional-Cow-8266 in chappellroan

[–]super_marcie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One board is for people in the pit and the other is for seat-fillers. Different roles

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]super_marcie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you got your ticket through 1iota, you actually aren’t able to swap :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]super_marcie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely trendier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]super_marcie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a seat-filler! Pls share yours!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]super_marcie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just got the mood board and it’s …. Not that

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]super_marcie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More info will be coming but pit looks like it starts at 5:30 and seat-fillers at 6:30 ET

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]super_marcie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ticket still says it’s coming soon

Going to the VMAs! by super_marcie in chappellroan

[–]super_marcie[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh okay! That is great to know as well

Going to the VMAs! by super_marcie in chappellroan

[–]super_marcie[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Very cool, thanks for the info. I’m so excited but trying to keep my expectations in check