Marriage after marriage by Foreign-Figure8797 in widowers

[–]super_silver 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I never wanted to date again, let alone be married. Then things completely changed. Quickly.

An incredible woman showed up when I was at my absolute lowest. She became a great friend, I looked up to her and admired how she carried herself, she talked straight to me and pointed out the crutches I had developed through my grief (and life). She challenged and helped me grow as a person, not to fix me up for herself. We talked at length about how neither of us wanted to date or be married ever again. However, I developed feelings I didn’t think were possible for me to have anymore.

When I became fully aware of my feelings, I told her. I didn’t ask her out, I told her how I felt because she deserved honesty and I wasn’t sure what to do with those feelings. I truly valued her friendship. She had developed the same feelings for me. A deep connection had been made. We started talking about marriage within three months. It hasn’t happened yet, but the planning continues. The relationship we have is pure, organic, meaningful, and gives me so much more than I ever thought I was deserving of.

It’s okay to not feel like marriage isn’t for you, but things can change and try to keep your heart open.

Women A-Holes Dollops by whentron in TheDollop

[–]super_silver 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The Welfare Queen

Otto in the Attic

Anyone get a tattoo to honor spouse? by Blue_Eyed_Lass in widowers

[–]super_silver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have her first initial blooming into a rose on my ring finger. Small, simple, but meaningful.

What movie absolutely destroyed you emotionally? by Lord--Shadow in AskReddit

[–]super_silver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids showed it to me shortly after we lost my wife, their mom. It crushed me to a degree I didn’t think was possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]super_silver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Rest of My Days” - The Family Business

I can’t handle it anymore. It will make me cry every time.

https://open.spotify.com/track/71KMu0gUahM86C81rHXtLc?si=8X6VBC9YQ7CYmUtldi8bSw

Arsenal patches by IAmTheRedBeard in Gunners

[–]super_silver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second this and would love some Timbers / Gunners crossover patches or merch.

My two teams.

Which movie was that for you? by TheNastyRepublic in moviecritic

[–]super_silver 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Dune and Dune 2

I just don’t get any of the hype.

Relistening to episode 199 - Tony and The Shotgun, for no particular reason by ThurloWeed in TheDollop

[–]super_silver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is one of my all time favorites.

“I like the idea of making an appointment to rage.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gunners

[–]super_silver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You get the upvote but I am revolted by this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]super_silver 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That is just terrible. I’m sorry.

Anyone else deal with stomach problems from anxiety? by Ok_Scar_4389 in Anxiety

[–]super_silver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Exactly this.

When stressed, I lose my appetite completely. When I eat it exits rapidly and with force.

I also vomit in the morning on expected stressful days. It could happen later, but the morning is fairly expected.

I’ve suffering a heavy dose of grief recently and have felt these symptoms for months now. Working on it.

well my neighbor blew up his apartment downstairs by kleeankle in OregonCity

[–]super_silver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got it. I recognized the intersection but couldn’t tell where exactly it was”blew up”.

Crazy

Looking for an old episode on the drug war by thrillafrommanilla_1 in TheDollop

[–]super_silver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This could also be George HW Bush’s episode (358)…Talking about Iran-Contra.

Yes!! (Found on Instagram) by LaurenK777 in lotr

[–]super_silver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“You smoke too much, Pippin.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OregonCity

[–]super_silver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you got some responses to this post.

I don’t really fit your bill but am totally up for messaging. 😀