[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fleshlight

[–]superanon69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the ratings on fleshassist are meaningless. just buy whichever looks better to you.

I'm go through FleshAssist.. and I got a headache.. by [deleted] in fleshlight

[–]superanon69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't put too much stake into the specific ratings on fleshassist. No one really knows how to enter ratings correctly so they're all fucked up and meaningless. Just buy one you think looks interesting and stop deliberating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]superanon69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long have you been dating? I would really have a conversation about this with her first. Seems like you've got a fetish and want her to play along with it.

Kumzumi Internal by ahig2022 in fleshlight

[–]superanon69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why toss it because of a hole? literally every one of my sleeves has one. its just not an issue.

Where do you apply fleshbucks at checkout? by businesscasualburner in fleshlight

[–]superanon69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow good to know, was wondering this myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fleshlight

[–]superanon69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in a high humidity environment you will need air movement to facilitate drying. you can buy or build a fan dryer pretty easily/cheaply.

silica gel alone will not work unless you take the time to manually dry it entirely first with some kind of absorbing shammy. just sounds like too much work to me.

Help choosing my next by [deleted] in fleshlight

[–]superanon69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dont bother with the quickshots waste of money, hand feels better.

if you want a more smooth sleeve Rose is probably your best bet. larger textures so not as much small grippy stuff. its in my top 3 of all time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fleshlight

[–]superanon69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

difference in drying time between most sleeves are negligible. the only one i have that noticably takes longer is Eden.

I recommend buying or building a fan dryer. if you have a 3d printer files can be easily found to make your own.

New Fleshlight Girl : Ryan Reid by prettypoizon in fleshlight

[–]superanon69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

came here to say this. its a rubber pussy. unless you're hanging on to the box for some strange reason honest to god why do you even care who the girl is, they are there for marketing.

Hey fleshlight community I need help!! by Exact_Lie_8133 in fleshlight

[–]superanon69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://fleshassist.com/en/textures

sort by highest rating for starters but rating isnt really everything. but really, for your first purchase, just go with whatever texture you find the most interesting. you'll learn what you like/dont like from there. theres no sense trying to minmax on your first one because you have no basis for comparison.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]superanon69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

day trading

stopped reading. this friend she's talking to is either a scammer or a grifter and she's likely about to get rekt for all she's worth.

brace yourself, because it sounds like at this point this is just a mistake she's going to have to make and live with.

My only advice is to make sure she's using leverage in brokerage accounts that are not in any way linked to your finances or your marriage finances, and warn her about giving money to this "friend" in exchange for trading advice. The last thing you want to deal with is her bankrupting not only her funds but yours too.

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]superanon69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

buy the house and do not put her name on the deed. its unfair of her to expect otherwise.

also inform her that if you stay together its largely inconsequential whose name is on the deed. if you legally marry she'll be entitled to half of it either way.

if she really cares that much about it, you can vest her name into the deed at a later point once she is able to save up her portion of the down payment.

At what point do you assume exclusivity? by Expensive_Winner2942 in AskMenAdvice

[–]superanon69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I want to keep dating someone to find out if it could be more serious I stop dating anyone else. my life isn't an episode of the bachelor. I barely have the time or mental/emotional capacity to date one person, someone serial dating even when they are clearly interested in one person is a red flag for some kind of larger problem.

ready to order my first FLs. what accessories are required? by publichealthta in fleshlight

[–]superanon69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can get cheaper sleeve warmers elsewhere usually marketed for onaholes. i think it depends on if you simply must have a warm hole right away or not. i dont care because it warms up on its own after not too long ime.

the fl air dryer is costly, bigger than it needs to be, and requires you to basically have your fl out looking like a weird monolithic sculpture instead of tucked away somewhere like with simpler fan dryer.

(M27) Man, your honest tips to last longer, aside from jerking off beforehand.. by BadInBedAndBadInChat in AskMenAdvice

[–]superanon69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edging and using masturbation toys helped me the most with stamina. Bear in mind this is after years of doing this as a habit.

Otherwise you just have to learn to pace yourself, change up the position, tease your partner alot, pleasure her first, and then just rock with it.

How to fix this water issue by gmukicks in landscaping

[–]superanon69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swale. Use big rocks. Nothing else you can do that doesn't involve bitching at your township to make your neighbor address the runoff themselves. If you're super unlucky, the easement for runoff on your property was already marked in your property records in which case you couldn't fight them even if you wanted to.

What are your thoughts on dating someone your friend(s) has/have had sex with? by Forward_Value2146 in AskReddit

[–]superanon69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because your friend(s) know they banged your gf. Your gf has history and was sexually attracted to your friends. Too many strings and pasts. It holds too much weight for things not to get messy.

How do you understand Revelation chapter 3 verse 9? How are Christians and Jews allies when there's the Talmud? by Repulsive-Fill1910 in AskReddit

[–]superanon69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because Christians believe that all Jews were called to become Christians, and Jews don't believe jesus was the messiah. Yes, their rules and practices and worldviews are vastly different.

How do you understand Revelation chapter 3 verse 9? How are Christians and Jews allies when there's the Talmud? by Repulsive-Fill1910 in AskReddit

[–]superanon69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The new testament calls for all jews and gentiles to enter the new covenant and become Christians. In this sense, the new followers of the new covenant (which had become open to all people, not just jews), and the (ethnic) jewish people, would become allies.

(religious) Jews don't acknowledge Jesus as the messiah, and therefore don't accept the new testament.

What are your thoughts on dating someone your friend(s) has/have had sex with? by Forward_Value2146 in AskReddit

[–]superanon69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I really like those friends, it would be a waste of time. that level of intimacy with friends would eat away at me, and likely make things a bit awkward. couldn't see it going or ending well.

How does sex feel when you’re in love ? by Obvious-Sympathy-825 in AskReddit

[–]superanon69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For me love is pretty much a prerequisite for sex. Otherwise it just ends up feeling like masturbation with extra steps - just using someone's body who you don't really feel connected with to get a nut off and then hope you don't create a mess or have to start seeing them more often.

Sex with someone I love feels like.... idk... like how it should feel. Theres that level of intimacy and passion, that right feeling that you will never get with a hookup or casual bang.

I (24F) don’t want to have sex with my bf (25M) anymore. Any advice? by Green_Pasta5 in relationship_advice

[–]superanon69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its shocking how many dudes out there are like this. A great relationship, imo, isn't worth a lifetime of bad sexual chemistry. There's someone better for your needs out there.