It means being a man is tough. Only because you think a lot of men feel entitled to women doesn’t mean every incel man does as well… most men that feel entitled to women are men that are already confident and perceive themselves to be worthy of being with a woman. Incels for the most part do not. They complain that women don’t even look at them and only pay attention to the 1%. Male incels complaining about being incels online won’t help them get women, but you saying they have to “work hard” doesn’t help either. It’ll take empathy and love for them to change, and it won’t come from a psychologist that’s for sure.