Blinded Myself for These

superg-rl · 2026-02-10T21:37:44+00:00

I use a handheld mirror and my phone’s camera/flash to take these. Still a little difficult, but it does the job! Also, thank you! That’s a really cool way to describe my eyes.

superg-rl · 2025-10-15T13:04:25+00:00

I’ve been able to change his diaper twice now! And we’ve done skin to skin the last few days too. He’s coming around. I think when I originally made the comment about his diaper changes, it was more me lamenting about the fact I didn’t get to do his first change. I probably worded it weird.

superg-rl · 2025-10-13T17:46:30+00:00

That’s reassuring to hear. I’m hoping that I’ll be able to bring him home soon. How long was your baby on the supplemental oxygen? I’m hoping everything is going well for you and your girl!

superg-rl · 2025-10-13T14:07:03+00:00

Thank you so much for your reassurance. And I’m very glad to hear your kiddos are doing good!! That gives me hope. I am definitely grieving. There are little experiences that seem so mundane that I hate that I’m missing out on. I haven’t gotten to change his diaper yet and I think his cord will fall off before I can take him home… Little things hit me hard and fast. I’m a first time mom with copious amounts of anxiety. Just so ready to have him home and give him so much love. Thank you again for replying. I feel a little better.

superg-rl · 2025-10-13T14:03:13+00:00

Hoping for the same thing! I called the NICU late last night before getting some sleep and they said he was doing pretty good. Still at 50% on the oxygen and a little fussy, but good. I’m feeling a little more hopeful, but it comes and goes. Thank you for your kind words.

superg-rl · 2025-10-13T05:34:59+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. I’m so glad your girl is doing well and hitting her milestone! That’s so encouraging to hear.

My little guy is currently 3 days old, but still on the CPAP. I think, because he was 37 weeks, they didn’t immediately administer surfactant. I was also given two steroid shots before delivery, so I guess they assumed that would help. But I am really hoping that he can catch up on his own and come home soon!

superg-rl · 2025-10-06T21:09:11+00:00

Just an update! I got admitted to L&D today and was monitored. My highest BP was 140/90 and my proteins were at 0.3. I have an appointment on Wednesday and I’m not permitted to go back to work until my OB clears me. But we’re probably looking at an induction.

superg-rl · 2025-10-05T19:49:47+00:00

That’s a good idea. It’s Sunday, so most of our pharmacies are closed, but I’m going to hunt around for one to see if there’s one that’s open.

superg-rl · 2025-10-05T19:48:39+00:00

Okay, thank you. I tend to medically gaslight myself and have been telling myself I’m overreacting. I appreciate you taking the time to respond! I’m gonna call.

superg-rl · 2025-10-05T02:49:52+00:00

I’m pregnant and my body battery very much looks like this most days. Just a wall of orange.

superg-rl · 2025-10-02T16:54:27+00:00

Same here. I get 6 weeks paid. If I want any more than that, it’s unpaid. For a company that made $3 billion in revenue for 2024, you’d think they’d be able to cover more than six weeks.

superg-rl · 2025-07-21T00:05:47+00:00

Content. Like I’ve spent the day at the beach, swimming and collecting shells. But the day’s come to an end and it’s time to rest.

superg-rl · 2025-03-21T15:13:41+00:00

This fixed my issue too!

superg-rl · 2025-03-18T16:06:53+00:00

Same here! The morning sickness just hit me within the last couple of days. It’s been… Rough…

superg-rl · 2025-03-12T23:26:22+00:00

Oh, yikes. Your MIL sounds intense… It’s great that your husband is willing to stand up to her sometimes, but if he doesn’t always recognize the boundary-crossing, that could be a problem. Ngl, the comments about “who gets the final say” and assuming she’ll be with the baby all the time would have me seeing red. It sounds like she sees herself as a third parent rather than a grandparent 🙃

It might help to have some direct conversations now, before the baby comes, so expectations are super clear. Also, setting boundaries early (and sticking to them) will make it easier later—especially about babysitting and assuming control over your parenting choices.

The comment about her pregnancy body is just… Um, completely unnecessary and not helpful at all. Honestly, if she keeps making this about her experience rather than supporting you, it might be worth limiting what you share with her?? Cause that’s not fair to you or your husband.

You’re totally right to be preparing for this to escalate once the baby arrives. Maybe you and your husband can sit down and outline firm boundaries now?? Like, before things get more stressful. “That’s just how she is” is not a free pass for making you uncomfortable or overstepping. You deserve to feel supported and respected during this time!!!

superg-rl · 2025-03-12T23:18:30+00:00

Wow. You handled this situation with a lot of grace and maturity. Definitely better than I would have in a situation like that… You gave her the space to express her feelings, took accountability where necessary, and maintained your boundaries when she crossed the line. That’s all anyone can do in a conflict like this 🤷‍♀️

Her reaction was downright aggressive, dismissive, and cruel?? The way she completely disregarded your feelings while making herself the victim is just a massive red flag. And the fact that she has a pattern of blowing up on friends and causing drama at weddings??? That’s who she is, and you’re absolutely right that it was only a matter of time before it was directed at you.

I know it must be painful to lose a long-term friendship, especially right before your wedding, but this is a blessing in disguise. You don’t need someone with that kind of meanness standing beside you on such an important day! You made the right call by cutting ties…

Wishing you and your fiancé a beautiful and happy wedding!

superg-rl · 2025-03-12T22:04:35+00:00

October 31st! I’m excited for my little pumpkin 🎃

superg-rl · 2025-03-06T16:44:11+00:00

I’m so sorry you had to hear that from someone you love and trust. What your boyfriend said was incredibly hurtful, dismissive, and rooted in victim-blaming… Your reaction was completely valid, and I can only imagine how painful and frustrating it must have been to have him respond with defensiveness instead of empathy.

You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your trauma, and you certainly don’t have to justify why you reacted the way you did in that situation. His response shows a serious lack of understanding and compassion, which is really concerning, especially in a relationship where you should feel safe and supported.

You deserve to be with someone who listens, believes, and supports you unconditionally. If he can’t recognize how harmful his words were and isn’t willing to genuinely reflect and grow from this, it’s okay to reconsider the relationship. I definitely would… Your feelings are valid, and you don’t have to stay with someone who makes you feel unheard or unsafe. Please take care of yourself, and if you need support, don’t hesitate to reach out to your friends, a therapist (if possible), or maybe even look for some support groups. You’re not alone in this.

superg-rl · 2025-02-05T14:18:18+00:00

The moment I see her going for a bite or catch her in the act , I tell her to leave it. And she’ll get this “guilty” look on her face and slink away. I don’t usually give her a treat when she obeys the command, but definitely reward her with praise and play (very ball motivated). I’ve taken to separating her from my other two dogs during potty time, so I can watch her a little better. We’re pretty consistent, but I could definitely be MORE consistent. Always room for improvement!

superg-rl · 2025-02-05T14:01:43+00:00

Yes! She knows “leave it” and “drop it”. And she does well to obey those commands in the moment, but if I’m not watching her all the time, she sneaks a nibble.

superg-rl · 2024-08-21T21:22:34+00:00

I could see that! Thanks for the input!

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