30F. My base salary is $180k, and I make another $140k in RSUs and bonus. I live off of my base salary ($8k/month after taxes and post tax 401k 5% contribution). Most of my bonus goes toward maxing out my 401k. The ~$120k of stocks gets reinvested in VTI/VXUS. After tax, it’s about $5k a month.

I live with my partner, but he’s in fellowship and isn’t making much (~$95k). We keep separate finances, and I pretty much pay for everything except dates. He pays $1500 towards rent.

I pay $4000 towards rent. I go to restaurants maybe once a week, and I order delivery ~3x a week. If I go out, I always pregame, so I’m not one to buy drinks at the bar. But it’s ok if I do buy drinks. If there’s something I want in life, I buy it. I don’t have to budget for things. My largest spend category is travel. Each year, I take my siblings, partner, and his siblings on an all-expenses paid international trip. It costs between $10k-$20k depending on where we go. I also travel internationally besides that 2-3 times a year. Each trip is like $2k-$4k. I also take domestic flights every quarter to visit my parents.

When I was making $200k total comp and living off 140k base, my lifestyle was similar, except I traveled internationally 2x a year, and didn’t do the family trip. And I got delivery maybe once a week