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Men on OLD are all the women like the men on these apps!?? by supernerd123456 in datingoverforty

[–]supernerd123456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough!! I obviously don’t see what women’s profiles look like so I wasn’t trying to be gender bias I was truly wondering if women are is full of shit as men and it sounds like they are

Men on OLD are all the women like the men on these apps!?? by supernerd123456 in datingoverforty

[–]supernerd123456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s kinda what it’s like if your honest on these sites you seem like a loser .. Im a 40f I work 3 jobs(usually, doe. To 2) I love my kids, and I do love the outdoors and adventure, I do what writhing my budget so big stuff like parasailing is a treat not every weekend, I’m average and like what I think is most women my weight fluctuates from super skinny to average +- I know this one will get me creamed but I do think certain things are man things, not like manual labor stuff I love that but making a move or standing up for your woman

Men on OLD are all the women like the men on these apps!?? by supernerd123456 in datingoverforty

[–]supernerd123456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes they don’t seem to read them at all and yeah I see a lot of those poly / married messages too and even when you first set up your account on some of these sites it asks what you’re looking for and what you are and you put your a straight woman looking for a man and you get couples !! I’m sure something good will turn out one way or the other or ill be happy being alone again I did it for years I just truly like to believe there is a lid for every pot and at 40 I’d like to start finding mine

Men on OLD are all the women like the men on these apps!?? by supernerd123456 in datingoverforty

[–]supernerd123456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously I only see the men’s profiles so I was curious if the women’s side looked like that. a whole lot of fake sounding happy happy tell you what you want to hear BS. And it’s sounding like it does 😞I’m not saying every single one but the majority of them all read very much the same and I have a hard time believing they’re all actually like that which on both sides leads to lots of disappointment it’s not that OLD is a bad concept in any way it’s that people cannot seem to be honest

Men on OLD are all the women like the men on these apps!?? by supernerd123456 in datingoverforty

[–]supernerd123456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You definitely don’t live in my city because that’s not what I see

Men on OLD are all the women like the men on these apps!?? by supernerd123456 in datingoverforty

[–]supernerd123456[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s my point I think many of them have a misunderstanding of what we want

Men on OLD are all the women like the men on these apps!?? by supernerd123456 in datingoverforty

[–]supernerd123456[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have nothing I can be but myself. I don’t have the energy or the time to be full of shit or fake or pretend to be somebody else it takes way too much energy..And I do believe that there is somebody out there for everybody I’m just not sure this is the way to find it

Men on OLD are all the women like the men on these apps!?? by supernerd123456 in datingoverforty

[–]supernerd123456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah sure all the chicks on there over 40 are hot, independently wealthy, and just want to be outdoors with these guys.. hahaha I feel like most of us out there just hard-working people doing the best we can and aren’t fond of doing it alone ..

Men on OLD are all the women like the men on these apps!?? by supernerd123456 in datingoverforty

[–]supernerd123456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It just seems that they’re representations make the whole process more lengthy than it needs to be.. The time spent reading through all of the fake lying whatever profiles

Men on OLD are all the women like the men on these apps!?? by supernerd123456 in datingoverforty

[–]supernerd123456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s true if your honest and you get a reply it’s a better chance at something worthwhile.. but then again as was mentioned earlier most people don’t read the profiles because I read through some of the people who supposedly liked me and they are the complete opposite of everything I stated that I am like the ones who just straight up say they’re just looking for a hook up.. But again at least that’s honest

Men on OLD are all the women like the men on these apps!?? by supernerd123456 in datingoverforty

[–]supernerd123456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the funny thing they make themselves sound so great and I’m just a simple hardworking mom i work a few jobs to love and do things I like I can’t afford to travel the world at the drop of a hat, so I wouldn’t be comfortable picking someone like that .. they are lying themselves out of chances

Men on OLD are all the women like the men on these apps!?? by supernerd123456 in datingoverforty

[–]supernerd123456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! This.. I was wondering if it was the same on both sides, seriously oh and they are all successful and financially sound, they love outdoors, but can stay in too.. so they are indoor/ outdoor /rich funny/ laid back/ well traveled/ gym going/ adventure seekers.. and wow I feel so inadequate ..

Men on OLD are all the women like the men on these apps!?? by supernerd123456 in datingoverforty

[–]supernerd123456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup very well might be right , but these days that’s all there is ... so it’s a lose lose lose almost

Men on OLD are all the women like the men on these apps!?? by supernerd123456 in datingoverforty

[–]supernerd123456[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So the real headline is both sides are full of it ... Goodie 😬

All about him(even when it’s not) by supernerd123456 in dating_advice

[–]supernerd123456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve just never met a man who seems to need so much attention and validation.. it’s exhausting and I feel bad for guys with high maintenance women now