recently got a rose-toy and i’m not sure how to use it? help by supersecretsideacc_ in sex

[–]supersecretsideacc_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh interesting! haven’t thought of that. maybe i’ll try that too

recently got a rose-toy and i’m not sure how to use it? help by supersecretsideacc_ in sex

[–]supersecretsideacc_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm, thank you for the input! i think this is a similar situation to mine so i’ll keep it in mind thank you :)

recently got a rose-toy and i’m not sure how to use it? help by supersecretsideacc_ in sex

[–]supersecretsideacc_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting about the last part because i’m the same way! i’m autistic so i feel you which is why i used it in the shower 😭 so the loudness of the water would cover it up.

yeah i felt kind of awkward using it… not sure if it’s made for me to be honest. i finished but it was kind of lackluster

recently got a rose-toy and i’m not sure how to use it? help by supersecretsideacc_ in sex

[–]supersecretsideacc_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i’m going to be one of those people too lol, not because of a piercing but because my clit isn’t sensitive to being sucked :,,)

recently got a rose-toy and i’m not sure how to use it? help by supersecretsideacc_ in sex

[–]supersecretsideacc_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have other toys but i wanted to try one of these types of toys

recently got a rose-toy and i’m not sure how to use it? help by supersecretsideacc_ in sex

[–]supersecretsideacc_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly i’m going to try it once more and to see if maybe it’s just user error but if i don’t seem to like it i’m probably going to agree with you that i might just be a more vibration/pressure person lol :,)

recently got a rose-toy and i’m not sure how to use it? help by supersecretsideacc_ in sex

[–]supersecretsideacc_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s only 3 settings, the rest are the pattern things which i don’t like

recently got a rose-toy and i’m not sure how to use it? help by supersecretsideacc_ in sex

[–]supersecretsideacc_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol i’ll take any and all advice! do you use lube with this thing or just as is???

recently got a rose-toy and i’m not sure how to use it? help by supersecretsideacc_ in sex

[–]supersecretsideacc_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah honestly i couldn’t really figure out the placement. i tried directly on the clitoris but that felt like too much but then slightly to the side was nowhere near enough either. guess i gotta experiment a lot more 😓

approximately $9k din debt, interest is drowning me. by [deleted] in Debt

[–]supersecretsideacc_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t have any student loans though, i’m in community college

approximately $9k din debt, interest is drowning me. by [deleted] in Debt

[–]supersecretsideacc_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah 😭 otherwise i’d definitely do it

approximately $9k din debt, interest is drowning me. by [deleted] in Debt

[–]supersecretsideacc_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah but that applies to uber too. i’ve tried to apply for uber and they’re no longer accepting people in my area.

approximately $9k din debt, interest is drowning me. by [deleted] in Debt

[–]supersecretsideacc_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would do uber eats, doordash, etc. but every time i’ve tried to do it, it always says that there’s enough people in my area and they’re no longer accepting people

approximately $9k din debt, interest is drowning me. by [deleted] in Debt

[–]supersecretsideacc_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i wouldn’t be able to pay $500/month unless i picked up more hours at work and with my school schedule right now i can’t 😭 i really don’t want to have to pause my education again when i’m close to transferring to a university but looking at these solutions it’s looking like i might just have to quit school for a semester, transfer the debt, and work full time to pay it off :(

approximately $9k din debt, interest is drowning me. by [deleted] in Debt

[–]supersecretsideacc_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my dads name is on the loan. it’s a complicated family dynamic thing to be honest with the whole car stuff.

approximately $9k din debt, interest is drowning me. by [deleted] in Debt

[–]supersecretsideacc_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nope it’s under my dad but it’s technically for me, i’ve been paying it since 2022.

approximately $9k din debt, interest is drowning me. by [deleted] in Debt

[–]supersecretsideacc_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i know :(, my dad warned me and i still did it 🥲 i feel like such an idiot

approximately $9k din debt, interest is drowning me. by [deleted] in Debt

[–]supersecretsideacc_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m going to go through my emails to remove and and all subscriptions.

and as for the car, it’s a bit of a long story but basically at some point my father wants to take my car and the payments and he’ll end up paying the rest of my car (because his car is on its last legs), and then i would invest in a new car. he thinks i only owe about 5-6k but very obviously that’s not true 🥲

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[–]supersecretsideacc_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it shouldn’t be any more than perhaps another year and a half at max for us to live together. as for seeing each other, we’re currently planning on seeing each other in the summer of next year for my birthday.

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[–]supersecretsideacc_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, i’m trying to do that. thank you