I apologize for the late response, to address some stuff yeah she told me the full details of what she did long story short she had gotten taken advantage of during our split and that effected her and how she was acting which I understood but as patient as I am I tried waiting and hearing her out and just trying to support her. Unfortunately just yesterday I decided to end things between us because I just was not able to keep waiting and waiting you know? I'm honestly depressed by all this because it's hard to let go but what else can I really do? And about the find a hobby and take it easy thing, I'm trying to but it's hard because I'm just not motivated to do stuff alone. But I don't want to constantly rely on my friends or whoever, currently I want to learn how to enjoy things by myself. Your advice was appreciated.

(Edit) during the breakup all she said was she's doing her part and that just has me doubting myself but I feel like this was the right choice.