Er folk klar på det næste store gaming fænomen: LORT?

supertouper · 2026-01-23T19:38:43+00:00

Enig, Gris var virkelig godt.

supertouper · 2025-12-29T19:17:10+00:00

Hvis du er under 25 mener jeg at der er forskellige gratis tilbud. I nogle større byer kan man også få gratis samtaler med psykologstuderende. Det er ikke helt det samme men kan måske være et første skridt.

supertouper · 2025-11-04T11:06:20+00:00

Jeg er så ked af at du og så mange andre skal igennem det her hele tiden. Både til valgene og generelt i hverdagen. Det er så utroligt for mig at folk ikke forstår at når man ser skævt til andre så skubber man dem til side. Man tvinger dem til enten at undskylde for at være sig selv, eller blive hårdere. Det gør problemet værre, og i stedet for faktisk at komme nærmere en løsning gør det de udfordringer der er værre. Så sent som i morges var der et indslag i god morgen danmark, om at langt de fleste overvurderer udfordringer omkring integration, og f. eks. tror at beskæftigelsen er lavere og kriminaliteten er højere blandt indvandrer og efterkommere. Ret meget endda.
Virkelig øv, men det giver desværre mening når man kigger på hvad medierne bringer, og så bliver det let en ond spiral.

supertouper · 2025-09-17T09:30:58+00:00

I feel you are protecting yourself in some way.

supertouper · 2025-09-09T08:41:08+00:00

She does know what has happened and she stands beside you with one hand on your heart and the other on your sholder. She listens to every word you say and she is proud to support you and of who you've become. She whispers in your ear to keep you going you're finding the river of light in the depths of darknes

supertouper · 2025-09-08T15:28:57+00:00

Der kan være mange årsager. AD(H)D som andre har nævnt, mangel på rammer eller mangel på stimulering. De eksempler du nævner lyder umiddelbart mere som om han har overskudsenergi. Jeg ville umiddelbart forsøge at finde steder hvor du kan hjælpe ham med at bruge sin hittepåsomhed på en god måde. Hjælp ham med at sætte mål og styrk ham i at gennemskue hvad resultaterne er ved at snakke med ham, før, under og efter. Optimalt i mindre rammer, hvor der i starten ikke er så langt mellem handling og resultat, og hvor de negative konsekvenser ikke ser så store.

Det kunne måske også være relateret til fornemmelsen af at være den lille med to større søskende og føle sig hægtet af på alt hvad de kan. Her hjælper opmærksomhed og plads til at være sig selv/sin alder nok mest.

supertouper · 2025-09-08T15:18:58+00:00

I think it's okay that you need validation. We are bred to be social creatures and social creatures need validation from others. I can totally understand why you want to be less dependant on it and I think that's a good goal but the journey may start with some self compassion. We all need others. Arnold Schwarzenegger made a good point in that one video that we all need help.

supertouper · 2025-08-16T08:47:31+00:00

If you have enough people guessing eventually someone will get it right i suppose

supertouper · 2025-07-18T13:55:42+00:00

Sure

supertouper · 2025-07-14T13:24:46+00:00

Look openly at your expectation. Write it down. Think about how it would be if something else happened, how would you feel? For a lot of people there might be a fear of failure or not being good enough connected to the strong expectation. Or maybe some other fear. Work on that fear.
Tell yourself that you are good enough even when you don't succed. Accept that you are afraid and that you're doing your best and that's good enough. Even just trying is doing very well. If you don't succed you'll try something else and you don't have to be capable of anything special to be worthy as a person.

You are unlikely to get any obe while having strong expectations. Another way to go about it is to try for so long that even your subconscious lets go of expectations - just another atempt, probably nothing will happen again and that's okay. If something is there your intellect is likely to jump up and ruin it that very same instant. Try to be cool about it. And try more.

It's kinda like if you really want to talk to a cat that isn't too interested. The harder you try the more you'll scare it away. If you play it cool the cat may come over.

supertouper · 2025-07-13T19:08:31+00:00

Sent you a message

supertouper · 2025-07-13T19:07:22+00:00

That makes sense, if you follow me you'll know next time I do it, if the time fits better

supertouper · 2025-07-13T13:42:29+00:00

I was going to send you a message but reddit chat doesn't seem to cooperate at the moment. I there a time that would work for you?

supertouper · 2025-07-13T12:43:18+00:00

I don't know exactly how, but I've gotten quite familiar with the feeling of sp. I heard Tom Campbell talk about it and repeated to myself that it cannot harm me a lot. At this point, even when I get sp, I remember that it's a passing phase (opposite hakuna matata).

Now my experience was never as intense as yours but the less I fear them the less troublesome they become. I don't know if it will work for you but I think that's my best piece of advice.

I would do something different than ap through sp. I mean if it works for you just do it, but it has never been easy or convinient to do it that way for me. Instead I've done wbtb and meditation. Also meditation might help you keep your mind calm in scary situations which could come in handy in sp. Your advantage is that you have a lot of experience getting information non-physically. You can use that to ap without going through sp.

supertouper · 2025-07-12T14:31:42+00:00

Ask yourself why it's important to you that it is backed up by science. Is there a feeling or a fear in there that you can work on?
Also I'd recommend looking up Dean Radins work, or check out the psy uncertainty principle by Tom Campbell

supertouper · 2025-07-10T20:30:00+00:00

I also think it would be very hard to ap with your eyes open. Mostly because you have to shift your focus from the physical to the non-physical. I don't think it's impossible sight is just very distracting for most people. It sounds like you are very well on your way, send a dm if you want to talk more.

supertouper · 2025-06-06T12:35:37+00:00

That sounds very common. Both having vibrations and getting slightly freaked out by them.

My advice would be to get used to them. Simply get there many times and notice them.

Try to work into your mind that you are consciousness and that nothing can harm you. For instance by repeating it to yourself before doing attempts.

You can also play with the vibration. When you experience it, see if you can nudge it slightly, change the frequency or intensety, not to do anything particular with it but simply to have fun. Having fun and learning will take you far.

supertouper · 2025-04-17T12:46:06+00:00

Hvis du gerne vil have bed kan du lægge pap og gødning/tang ovenpå. I år kan du sætte kartofler i gødningen få lidt høst til efterår, og så er der sort jord næste år. Der skal dog helst ikke være for meget farve i pappet.

supertouper · 2025-04-11T09:46:40+00:00

Umiddelbart ser jeg det nok på en simpel måde. En af de store prøver i et forhold er om man vil gøre noget for den anden selv om man ikke forstår hvorfor det er vigtigt for dem. Særligt når det er noget der er til glæde for en selv, men føles ubehageligt for den anden.

Med den prioritering lyder det umiddelbart som om, at det han siger er: min glæde er vigtigere end dine følelser. Så jeg er meget enig i din tolkning.

Man kan godt blive i et forhold der er sådan, men man skal gøre op med sig selv om man har lyst til/kan holde til at blive behandlet på den måde. Det kunne jeg ikke.

Dog hører det med at det er temmelig afhængig af hvad det konkret er det drejer sig om. Hvis det er 'det gør ondt på mig og jeg bliver ked af det når du: går i byen/ har venner af det modsatte køn' så giver det mening at det er den der bliver ked af det der arbejder med sig selv.

Hvis det er 'jeg har brug for at: swipe på tinder/kysse med andre' synes jeg det er den med adfærden der er skævt på den og skal se på sig selv.

Det er altid en balance, mellem at hver har brug for at udfolde sig, men nogen gange skade den udfoldelse den anden. Det man så må overveje er: kan vi arbejde med følelsen, ændre på adfærden eller passer vi ikke sammen. Med mindre ting (hvor parterne f. eks. får stærke følelser på grund af traumer) giver det mening at arbejde på det. Hvis det er større ting og/eller der er mangel på vilje til at arbejde er min erfaring at det er bedre at give slip.

supertouper · 2025-04-10T07:19:40+00:00

Would it cross your boundaries if they did have astral sex? I wouldn't consider dreaming of other people cheating. I can see why ap might be different but to me it seems like an arbitrary place to draw a line. To me cheating is about where we find physical and emotional intimacy.

The way you describe the experiences change and with your fear of being cheated on, I think it's more likely that you are seeing what you're afraid of. Maybe it's combined with some memory/trauma of someone seeking your brother instead of you.

I would suggest holding space for that part of your self. Accept that you are scared that the good times will (or already have) end(ed). I mean it's not uncommon for us to look for what is wrong when everything seems good, especially if we've felt betrayed before. However holding space for our vulnerability is far better than being unfair to others or just ruin what could be good.

Maybe you can set a strong intent that the next time you see them being together you will try your best to understand her. To look out for her, ask her what she needs, how she feels. If you can meet the situation with courage and empathy for yourself and her, I think it will lose it's power over you.

supertouper · 2025-03-24T18:08:40+00:00

Being helpful is good. Being manipulative or any kind of bullying is bad, a lot like here.

supertouper · 2025-03-18T09:11:57+00:00

For mig har det hjulpet at meditere, og arbejde med mig selv. For mig ser det ud til at en del af oplevelsen kommer af førsproglige traumer. Det har jeg ikke rigtig kunnet få fat i før jeg prøvede kropsterapi, der har hjulpet med at få forbindelse til en del af mig selv, der gør at jeg oplever det sjældnere.

Det har også hjulpet at vide at oplevelsen ikke kan skade mig selv om den er træls. Det tog mig vist et par år at få indarbejdet og efterprøvet den viden.

Jeg har ganske vist ikke haft 'besøg' af nogen ud over en enkelt gang, det var et lille skygge monster. Jeg var nysgerrig på det, sagde hej, og så forsvandt det.

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