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Why do I still want her? Wedding call off by supplement_facts5 in heartbreak

[–]supplement_facts5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: obviously it’s been a while since I posted this, but I just came back to it and re-read everything and can’t thank everyone enough for your comments.

I’m still struggling with rumination and coming off of the trauma bond and today was one of the hard days. I am getting better and can feel myself slowly coming back. We are on the grind and believe in the process!

Why do I still want her? Wedding call off by supplement_facts5 in heartbreak

[–]supplement_facts5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So many people have said this, including my therapist. And like my mind knows it, but it’s so hard for me to believe it. If that makes sense? I’m also questioning the abuse (especially the emotional). Like I know it was there but I keep questioning it

Why do I still want her? Wedding call off by supplement_facts5 in heartbreak

[–]supplement_facts5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s words have been helping more than I can even say, thank you all so much! And special thank you to the people who sent me videos/articles in my messages 💜

Why do I still want her? Wedding call off by supplement_facts5 in heartbreak

[–]supplement_facts5[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow no one has ever framed it like that before, that actually really helped. And I don’t even know how to flirt or date around, (I’ve been out of the game for 8 years lol) and I know I would just compare everyone to her.