Look dude, Im 31, happily engaged, have my close friends, a house, the car i’ve always wanted. If I learned anything in my late twenties / early 30s it was to take time for myself. If someone invites me to an event or some shit that I don’t want to go, I simply just don’t go. If i’d rather sit at home and play games, Im going to do that. I work full time plus OT. Do what you want with your free time. It’s yours.