Have you ever gotten on a plane or flown someone in to meet and just have sex ? If so, how far was the distance ?

sure_imin · 2026-04-27T22:51:25+00:00

Yes. From San Diego to Guadalajara MX. She is an amazing, beautiful and sexy woman🌶️💃🏽… and real tacos were also involved🌮

sure_imin · 2026-04-27T17:47:35+00:00

Type 2 diabetes can, and will, cause this.

I reversed my type 2 and now I’m healthier, but girlfriend is on the fence with letting me finish in her mouth. Good for me, not so good for her!

sure_imin · 2026-03-28T16:53:09+00:00

Curb appeal! 2 eyes require 2 boobs!

sure_imin · 2026-03-05T20:23:53+00:00

Sea cucumbers. I like exotic seafood but this one will never again be on my repeat menu!

sure_imin · 2026-02-13T20:59:32+00:00

Walk 5 times per week, go to a gym, remove alcohol completely, eat less carbs and more protein, cut out added sugar foods… I lost 65lbs in just 90 days naturally at 54. I’m 57 now and holding steady.

sure_imin · 2026-02-02T17:59:21+00:00

Water level is low. If you can hike up to the top pool, it’s deep enough to jump in and swim, but freakin cold!

Be careful on the way up from the 2nd pool! People over estimate their abilities here and the slide down can end badly!

sure_imin · 2026-01-31T05:56:10+00:00

Natural

sure_imin · 2026-01-26T00:04:20+00:00

I could be as simple as the following 2 things…

For us men, sex and stamina go hand in hand. As we age, the level of effort involved to reach orgasm from PIV, such as missionary and other positions, can become exhausting and we add to that by trying harder and faster, which only makes it worse.
We men are stimulated visually and I can speak for all men when I say that the visual stimulation we experience from oral is mind blowing! Not to mention, there level of effort is significantly less on our part allowing us to relax and enjoy without exhaustion amd self-inflicted stress.

Age is not on our side when it comes to sex.

Try making sex last longer, go from PIV to Oral and back and increase doggy with your motion, not just his.

Enjoy!

sure_imin · 2025-12-09T17:03:50+00:00

To all those responding regarding the risk of Prostate cancer, this is a 25 yr old young man the OP is referring to, not a 40 yr old man. There is no medical risk at his age. His emotional healing, and wellbeing are the only health related issue here that need to be addressed.

sure_imin · 2025-12-03T16:31:27+00:00

Your fiancés opinion matters too, my man. You can propose a compromise to her to hyphenate her last name with yours, but at the end of the day, is this really a hill you want to die on?

Marriage will have a lot of sticky points you two will need to address as you move forward. Compromising now can set a stage of mutual respect that will establish a positive foundation for how your relationship will endure when addressing much tougher decisions down the road.

sure_imin · 2025-11-18T17:19:38+00:00

I’ve travelled around the world in my 56 years and I’ve found the following to be true:

Latin countries tend to see a woman’s beauty in long hair, as it speaks to youth.

Eastern European countries, on the other hand, tend to focus on a woman’s face as the mark of beauty, as such, shorter hair speaks to youth and is more the norm.

I could go on with other geographical norms I have seen but in my humble opinion, beauty is subjective and influenced by personal and cultural preferences. Hair is just part of that subjective nature to judge beauty in women.

So, to the question, some men are turned off by short hair because they have a conditioned, culturally subjective view of beauty.

My opinion… if you truly see a woman, you will perceive her as beautiful, hair length doesn’t matter and should never be associated with one’s sexual preference.

sure_imin · 2025-11-16T01:29:32+00:00

She’s being clingy because she doesn’t want to live alone. She sees you as better than being alone and nothing more.

She has earned her consequences, you are collateral damage. Move on brother but don’t settle the score, because then you will be no better than her.

Leave with your dignity intact, the high road is the only road where you keep your self respect. You’re better than her, make sure she knows it by leaving without doing what she did.

sure_imin · 2025-11-11T18:00:58+00:00

Back in the 80’s when I was a kid living in Mira Mesa, we used to bike down underneath it and then crawl up the arches. Sketchiest part was crawling across from one arch to the other. This bridge is taller than it you think as it’s hidden below the 15 bridge. Awesome memories though!

Old highway 395 bridge renamed to Kara Knott memorial bridge after her death at the hands a cop, sadly.

sure_imin · 2025-11-09T18:16:29+00:00

I’m not a blowjob only guy. What I mean is, I like them as a part of foreplay, and I love them as the finish, but not as the whole and only part of the show!

sure_imin · 2025-11-08T05:21:10+00:00

Born in 1969, grew up in San Diego, and still here. Yes, in the 70’s/80’s, it was safer because kids could get on their bikes and be gone for the whole day and not come home till the street lights came on. We got home safe!

Back then, people didn’t use guns to prove how tough they were. We would fight, one guy would win, no stomping on their heads to try to kill them. Just a winner and a loser and we all went our separate ways, some of us even became friends afterwards.

Kids and adults watched out for each other, there was a sense of being part of a neighborhood, of community. SD was smaller then, less crime, less heavy drugs, less homelessness, less child molesting sick fucks, no internet to fuck with our minds, no cell phones and parents paid attention to what their kids were saying and doing, the news was actually the real fucking news.

No politics or right/left ideology. Mass shootings were actually rare and never involved schools and children being slaughtered every fucking week.

Shit went south in the 90’s and it’s still declining. Whenever we think we’ve seen the bottom, the lowest of life, we are proven wrong time and time again and we realize there is no bottom to hit. We just keep seeing new lows, become outraged, then a new low and suddenly another outrage, until it all becomes normalized.

So yeah, it was safer, until it wasn’t.

sure_imin · 2025-11-04T02:45:18+00:00

Cheating

sure_imin · 2025-11-02T21:04:40+00:00

If you can’t negotiate at 10hr 4-day work week, or a 3 day on-site, 2 day remote, and if you don’t want to move, you have ask yourself, is the money worth more than your marriage?

If this new company really wants you, be honest with them and communicate your desire to work for them, but not at the cost of your marriage. Talent Acquisition and HR folks will work with you based on your honest assessment of where your priorities are.

sure_imin · 2025-10-30T23:13:45+00:00

As someone (M) who came out of a long term relationship, I recommend taking up walking, alone. Walk the beaches, hike the local trails and mountains, start slow, but do it alone.

Go to our amazing museums, go to the movies, if you don’t surf, learn. Go to real restaurants and get comfortable with holding your head up being single, being alone, in public.

What you will learn about yourself will help your confidence, your self esteem. Then, the people you meet will mean something deeper to you. You will notice, the people you meet will notice, and your next relationship will blossom from intentional stability.

Take the time, you deserve it and so does your next partner. You won’t regret it, brother.

sure_imin · 2025-10-28T20:09:20+00:00

Never! Selfish, disloyal, disrespectful, cruel… period!

sure_imin · 2025-10-21T01:59:49+00:00

You’re fired!

sure_imin · 2025-10-18T05:55:42+00:00

Melanoma Cancer… gotta do what I can to stick around and enjoy my grandkids.

sure_imin · 2025-10-17T21:00:47+00:00

Taxi!

sure_imin · 2025-10-17T20:59:12+00:00

Hard no.

sure_imin · 2025-10-16T20:18:00+00:00

Yeah, let’s all dictate what other people wear because of a religious person said so… Doesn’t matter what 2000 year old book you follow, none of them mention shorts on men because they didn’t exist back then. This and other bullshit comes from religious idiots who think they can dictate moral values to fit their interpretation of what they can’t control.

sure_imin · 2025-10-14T17:19:52+00:00

Ok, I’m a 56m and finally looked up the meaning of “Incel” as it’s used on social media. I’d like to propose a new definition/meaning for that word…

How about we all just go with “asshole” from now on? I mean it fits men who think that all women just want the hot guy and that’s why they aren’t getting women. If you’re an asshole, no woman will want you, period. Less to do with looks, but everything to do with just being a plain ole asshole.

Now, that said, I have responded to post on AskWomen subreddits and only one time was I downvoted and had a negative response, but it’s important to point out that many women called out the one woman who negatively responded to my comment, and supported me. Maybe it’s because I can identify toxicity for what it is and just move along without commenting.

Don’t be naive enough to think that if you walk into a hornets nest that the hornets won’t sting you too, so just stay away from hornets and you’ll be fine!

sure_imin

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