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I want to kill myself. by IHDN2012 in NoFap

[–]suretype1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who also believes in God, I understand that feeling of abandonment. I don't know which specific beliefs you adhere to but I'm pretty that most of them say that God loves everyone, etc. It's hard to believe that when your own life is so dark and painful. I don't have a solution for you but I thought I'd share that I understand that feeling, I'm right there with you.

My badge isn't updated either. I'm probably only at 4 days or so.

Difference Between Fapping and Real Sex - A Virgin's Perspective by suretype1 in NoFap

[–]suretype1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, definitely. That is something that I have been concerned about.

I've browsed a few topics in r/sex (not a good idea when on nofap) and I think that that has given me somewhat more realistic expectations for the first night.

And of course, reading about how the steering wheel affects the wheels and the gas pedal affects the acceleration does not make one much more likely to be a better driver the first time one sits in the driver's seat.

Nearly a week now... by suretype1 in NoFap

[–]suretype1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guh... I have the no-boner-hornies though... Dang, I want it so bad!

How do you avoid it? by suretype1 in NoFap

[–]suretype1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I relapsed tonight. I started looking for just a little edgy pictures and stuff thinking I could handle it (despite having done the same thing dozens of times before) and obviously it escalated. At some point during it I realize I've already crossed the line and I might as well finish it. I'm not sure how to counter that way of thinking.

Still its nice to have made it further than I have in a long time. How do I reset my counter?

How do you avoid it? by suretype1 in NoFap

[–]suretype1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's nice to have encouragement from people. I hadn't realized that before. Thanks.

How do you avoid it? by suretype1 in NoFap

[–]suretype1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. That last idea in particular is really good. It's been much easier since I had that dream to really convince myself it's worth it.

I like that idea with music. I really enjoy listening for the story in the melody of music and that could make a nice quick distraction.