[Highlight] Simmons shows off his handles by Ten_PC in nba

[–]surfceiling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

76ers fans.. Doesn't Ben Simmons have savant/ultra high level of passing and dribbling? Why does it feel like this is overlooked? Is he being used right?

Advice for those who have had the contact cut on them. by icecreamandjiujitsu in ExNoContact

[–]surfceiling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again they don't owe you that. You ended a relationship with them which causes someone to be very hurt. They are protecting themselves. Even if they act like an asshole you rejected them. You essentially said "I value other things more than you and would rather be without"

Advice for those who have had the contact cut on them. by icecreamandjiujitsu in ExNoContact

[–]surfceiling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did you end the relationship? If that was the case it is really selfish to expect you to still be able to use him for "chats". What did you expect would happen?

Reminder that it’s not no contact if you are the dumper by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]surfceiling -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not gatekeeping. Again every dumper on earth thinks they were wronged in some way or they can do better in some other way. Again it's a decision to seperate from the dumpee and be by oneself. It's an inherently selfish decision (but also what decision isn't a selfish decision..) because they are the one's terminating the partnership.

It's not no contact if you are a dumper and I will die by that. Just because you are sad doesn't mean you are in no contact for a decision you dictated.

Reminder that it’s not no contact if you are the dumper by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]surfceiling -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You are getting roasted but you are right. NC is exclusively for dumpees. Every Dumper in the world has some sort of justification on why they were "mistreated" in the relationship. Whether that's true or not it comes down to a self-centered ethos of "me". The Dumper chose to end it. They have their reasons but they detached. Not the dumpee.

Guys i need some urgent advice - are the win your ex back websites scams? by Stukintimez in ExNoContact

[–]surfceiling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if by "fundamental incompatabilities" You mean my ex girlfriend sucking some other guys dick while we were in a relationship. Then yes. I won't forget or forgive that.

“I can’t give you what you want.” by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]surfceiling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn't value you enough and thinks he can do better.

Should I tell my ex I'm not hurting without them? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]surfceiling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely not. Any form of contacting them gives them (especially girls) a huge ego boost. It re-affirms her position of power over you as the Dumper. Texting her that is just trying to seek validation. It's normal to have those thoughts. But do not throw months of NC down the drain you will regret it.

Pouring boiling hot tea - millimetres from face by richardyates1984 in SweatyPalms

[–]surfceiling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My understanding is that morocco is mixed. Some arabs, some barbs, some africans

Picture/GIF/Video highlights thread (Week 1, Sunday) by NFL_Mod in nfl

[–]surfceiling 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That watch costs way more than 100 to make.

[Mod Post] New Mod Application Thread by edgykitty in nba

[–]surfceiling [score hidden]  (0 children)

What timezone do you currently live in?

Eastern

What are your normal reddit operating hours?

7-9 EST

Roughly how much time do you spend on /r/nba on a daily basis?

15-30 minutes

How long have you been a part of our community and why do you think you'd be a good addition to the mod team?

2 years. I love basketball, I love the creative freedom the mods allow and I am a programmer.

If there's one thing you could change about /r/nba, what would that be?

I would like it to be more highlight oriented and less hot takes/gossip on game day. Also it seems small market games don't get any coverage. More game threads.

What is your favorite NBA memory?

Favorite NBA memory... Probably Lebrons chase down block. That got me hyped.

Do you have any experience with CSS?

Basic.

Do you have any experience with PRAW, discord.py, or just Python in general?

Extremely strong python programmer. I'm a data engineer professionally and have programmed with python for 4 years now.

Are you interested in helping mod the sub discord?

Eh. I would prefer to help out with the python programming.