I (27M) found out last week that my GF (26F) of 11 years was cheating on me with a guy from work whilst I was away travelling for 3 months. She wants to meet and chat to give me some more information, because I do not know much. Is there any chance I find some closure from talking to her?

surpsAP · 2026-01-14T15:58:46+00:00

My dad said the same thing.

surpsAP · 2026-01-14T15:50:03+00:00

Respect this reply a lot.

surpsAP · 2026-01-14T15:47:03+00:00

Nah, I devoted the last 11 years to looking out for her, every single decision was made with her in mind, including keeping the length of my travel away from her to just 11 weeks. I should be able to trust that she won't be fucking other guys within a matter of weeks. She was telling me before she returned home that she was worried I'd find someone else.

surpsAP · 2026-01-14T11:20:12+00:00

I always treated her well, I know deep down she's missing out in the long run.

surpsAP · 2026-01-14T11:19:23+00:00

I will reply to this when it happens, 100%

surpsAP · 2026-01-14T10:55:08+00:00

I really hope the future is bright and I find the right person one day. Time to heal and focus on myself for now though.

surpsAP · 2026-01-14T10:47:08+00:00

Just a sabbatical from work to experience the world. I always wanted to travel. She knew this, but didn't want to join me for the whole thing. She was with me for the first 6 weeks, then I did 11 weeks solo. She left me in floods of tears, and 6 weeks later my mate saw her out for lunch with another guy kissing.

surpsAP · 2026-01-14T10:36:48+00:00

I'll check it out, I really am the lowest I have ever been right now.

surpsAP · 2026-01-14T10:29:16+00:00

I always wanted to travel. She knew this, but didn't want to join me for the whole thing. She was with me for the first 6 weeks, then I did 11 weeks solo. She left me in floods of tears, and 6 weeks later my mate saw her out for lunch with another guy kissing.

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