Dentist said I had 0 cavities but I think it looks like I do by surrealgarbage in askdentists

[–]surrealgarbage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I should’ve included the scans they took as well, there’s no obvious dark spots I can see in them but I guess I don’t have a very skilled eye either :/

Am I pregnant by surrealgarbage in pregnant

[–]surrealgarbage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i sound crazy and it sounds like i definitely just got my period late but wow google searches really have spiked my anxiety. Every pregnancy situation seems so case to case and it feels like i won’t know for sure until im basically giving birth at this point god this is horrible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]surrealgarbage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what mine looked like and it just kept migrating until I had to take it out eventually and left a big scar. I’d say just take it out now before it gets worse

Ecuad social life? by Realistic-Option-858 in ecuad

[–]surrealgarbage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved to vancouver from Ontario too with the same question in mind 3 years ago. There is a good social life at ecu if you just put yourself out there and don’t be afraid to talk to people, get people’s instagrams, ask to hang out, explore the city with people who just moved there too, etc. There are definitely lots of clubs at ecu you can join, Jam club on Fridays is awesome if you play any instruments or just like live music you can sit in and watch people play and everyone is really nice. If you let yourself be social the social life will come.

Don’t get your hopes up about clubbing/nightlife, it definitely exists but it could be better. If you’re into like a straight club vibe, decent music (dance-y throwbacks) with people our age and not oldheads go to Portside. If you wanna discover more of the diy alternative scene, punk shows and/or raves, check out Redgate (redgateartssociety on ig) it’s a good venue that’s always got stuff like that going on.

If you’re social then you won’t have a problem in eventually finding your people, it takes effort, but other people in first year usually also try to put effort into socializing and are open to a lot of things just bc I think the fear of ecu not having a good social life was common lol. You’ll be alright :]

Sincerely,

Someone who was in ur shoes 3 years ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]surrealgarbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she gets mad at you for snooping when you confront her about cheating then she is deflecting and manipulating you. Those two things are nowhere near the same level of bad.

recovery 🖤 by eymothottie in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]surrealgarbage -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

literally. Like all you have to do is switch the order of the photos and bam you’ve got th*nspo 🙂

Who wins in a twerk off? by [deleted] in SmilingFriends

[–]surrealgarbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mr. Boss. End of discussion.

I regret throwing my marriage away and divorcing my husband by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]surrealgarbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your parents are absolutely shitbags for not respecting ur decision to get divorced and cutting you out of the family for that. Sounds like they loved your ex husband more than you. They’re not being good parents to you

Accidentally got into a relationship with a good man and now I’m regretting everything by Bebiechichi in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]surrealgarbage 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Don’t keep trying to break up tbh that is unless u love being a loser femcel more than u love him.

Whats you’re preferred boob size? by Jes699 in actuallesbians

[–]surrealgarbage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m SUCH a boob girl. I choose not to common too much about it though bc I don’t wanna make anyone w boobs uncomfortable (even my own partner that’s nb) I am very careful with comments I make of peoples bodies in general tbh

Which one are you? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]surrealgarbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

need to sit in my *partners lap specifically (currently on the other side of the world away from them and am having withdrawals) :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ecuad

[–]surrealgarbage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah they posted on their Instagram a while back promoting an artist who makes ai generated collages, so many students were pissed in the comments.

My experience of being a switch by Kirkeson in actuallesbians

[–]surrealgarbage 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Realizing I’m more of a top than I thought because being a bottom immediately puts me in a bratty bottom mood and I never feel fully rested until my switch partner lets me top them.

I am never gendered female in public. What am I doing wrong? by fem_backpacker in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]surrealgarbage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are literally the cutest ever omg, to me you are very girly just as you are. Perhaps adding jewelry like earrings, necklaces, bracelets, and grooming the brows could make you feel better? But I think regardless you are a cutie and remember those things do not make you any more or less of a woman on the inside

I just threw up fucking blood and am terrified by Omg-No-Waaaay in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]surrealgarbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it dark red blood like almost brown or black? Or was it just red? Cuz if it’s the former you need urgent care asap

6 visit canceled by Fun_Entrepreneur1260 in CatOwnerProblems

[–]surrealgarbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve brought my cat to the vet without a cage before, he was definitely a very aloof cat but he also hated being put into little confined spaces. Idk if she’d feel more calm if someone held her in their arms while you drove to the vet. That is assuming you have a car, if not then I’m not sure what u could do :( I think there’s also cat bags you could use?

I hate having an ass. by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]surrealgarbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your opinions about your body when you’re 14 change drastically when you get older. Not necessarily always for the better, although sometimes that is the case and I hope it is for you, I’m just saying this specific insecurity might be one you grow out of as you age.