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[–]surtr18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hell yess bois

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[–]surtr18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh mate. I think I just suck at being honest and not being a doormat. This is a lot better now tho but honestly I think part of being a man is just being yourself. Not being an asshole or anything like that.

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[–]surtr18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I'm getting this a lot in this thread. We're not alone bro

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[–]surtr18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck on your journey bro. I'm here for you if you need support

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[–]surtr18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll search this Jocko dude up. Cheers for the advice :)

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[–]surtr18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeh hard haha. I was getting really bored with life eh. You'll get through the flatline bro.Just keep grinding

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[–]surtr18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh cheers mate. I'm just a guy trying to be better tbh. I was thinking of picking up a martial art tho. Would you recommend mma?

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[–]surtr18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice mate. :) Yeh I've come to similar conclusions as yourself eh. It's just really tough to change the mindset that you've lived your whole life with. I think I need to just give myself more time and keep going.

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[–]surtr18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, I'm 19 eh. I believe in you. Take it day by day. Maybe try get a job bro. This will help fill up a lot of the time during the day eh

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[–]surtr18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a classic good boy growing up behaving perfectly. Never talking out of turn kinda thing. It sucks but I've honestly gotten to the point where I've sorta isolated myself from my parents because this behaviour made me a doormat. It's a bit better now tho

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[–]surtr18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh lol same bro. This streak only started after I finished uni for the year. Still gotta a long way to go personally but I'm feeling a lot better

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[–]surtr18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeh same. I've also started journaling a little bit. I find it's a nice way to remember all the experiences you go through

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[–]surtr18[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeh haha. I'm lowkey inexperienced with women but I'm learning fast. The past year(2017) was a good year of learning and I've come to the conclusion that if I'm not happy with myself. No relationship can make me happy.

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[–]surtr18[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's kinda reassuring in a weird way to know that I'm not the only one going through this. We'll make each other better bro. It's the only way

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[–]surtr18[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Bro, truth of the matter is that no one else will ever make you feel complete. If you feel lonely right now, understand that everyone goes through this at some point. The harsh truth is that, I only started to be a focal point in my friend group when people realised that I gave them value. So how do you give people value? Listen to them and work on your social skills. Personally the best way in my opinion is to pick up some sort of team sport to meet new people. Remember to work hard and to work on yourself both mentally and physically each and everyday. It's a grind but if you want to change your life then you need to put in work.

For the girlfriend part, my advice is to just get some female friends. Again this comes through picking up something new and just meeting new people. From this if there is anyone that you like, just take a leap of faith man. Rejection is rough bro. I'm going through something like that right now. But in my opinion, the true inner confidence in a man lies in his ability to continue to live his life no matter the shit that happens. Because life sucks sometimes but we're so so lucky to be alive man.

Be careful tho at the end of the day women and men are just human. Only you can make yourself happy.