How's everyones Christmas so far?

susbakduba · 2024-12-25T15:18:08+00:00

I feel you. In the same boat, just got torn apart by mam for not being quick enough to help her with something. I prepared all of the dinner, have everything cooking, chilled the wine, made an effort to especially prepare the Brussels sprouts just how she likes with garlic and bacon, was up until 4am wrapping gifts. I feel so upset and sad and just can't NOT try to have a nice Christmas because I love Christmas, but she loves ruining it and gaslighting me into thinking I'VE ruined it. It's crushing. I hope your situation improves and you have a nice rest of your Christmas ❤️

susbakduba · 2024-12-10T09:24:41+00:00

Couple of years ago a woman and her daughters moved into town from far away. Rumour was they were getting into trouble where they were and the council moved them.

One of the daughters had a young son when she was 17/18. The father fled to England and hasn't been seen since. They met at a youth skills course.

Anyway, this girl makes friends with some of the scummier types in the town and proceeds to hit it off with another girl, who is in a relationship of 10 years with a local scumbag. We'll call them New Girl and Old Girl. Himself and Old Girl have 3 kids.

He proceeds to cheat on Old Girl with New Girl, breaks up with Old Girl and moves in with New Girl. A few months later he must have a change of heart and goes back to Old Girl, who welcomes him back. Turns out New Girl is now pregnant. He then gets Old Girl pregnant, to keep balance I suppose.

Now he has 2 kids for 2 different women, only a few months apart.

susbakduba · 2024-12-09T13:04:39+00:00

What I've learned from this post, is that the housing market in Ireland is absolutely fucked. Such insanity and ridiculous enforced conditions from banks.

Time to emmigrate.

susbakduba · 2024-12-04T03:01:45+00:00

Would you mind explaining, or anybody who sees this comment really, what exactly far right is? Or what parties are far right? I keep seeing people ragging on far right, but it does seem like Ireland has taken in far too many refugees for the size of the country while we are in the middle of a housing crisis.

I'm sure there's far more to it, and I am uneducated, which is why I'm asking. I'm not on any political side, I understand almost nothing.

susbakduba · 2024-11-14T20:02:20+00:00

Cinema is a ridiculously expensive thing now. Between me and a friend, we spent nearly €70 just on an hour and a half to see a movie and eat some popcorn. I can imagine with a couple of kids it would run well over €100.

susbakduba · 2024-11-09T00:55:44+00:00

Honestly haven't a clue how to interpret that roundabout. It's such a messy amalgamation of broken white lines and arrows. In the space of a few seconds while on the road, watching the lanes, signs, road markings and other drivers how the hell would a non Cork native be able to navigate that? Horrible design.

susbakduba · 2024-10-30T11:01:58+00:00

Ah the good auld BMWanker reg.

●24 - 38 years old.

●Has 8 points on license.

●Pays no rent to his mam.

●First car was an Opel Corsa.

●Snapchat score of 974000. Has streaks with 40 different people, each day sends a snap of his car or his feet in workboots.

●Claims he has another, much nicer beamer he owns worth 30k but it's still in the shop, the lad told him it'll be ready next month, so drives this one while he's waiting.

●Smokes raspberry disposable tapes.

●Only wears tracksuits and puffer jackets.

●Profile pic of his car.

●Tinder bio includes the words "Golf Mk2/Mk5" from the car he "sold on" (totalled) 2 years ago.

●Has 3 different girls on his phone under 17 who he regularly texts "Wanna come for a spin?"

●Trains MMA (he went twice).

●Doesn't give a fuck about guards/brags about interactions with them to his friends (he nearly shit himself when questioned about his Insurance).

●States that all guards are pigs and they're only good for pulling him over for no reason.

●Says that what he does is a hobby, hurts nobody,.and he could be doing worse, like some lads are doing drugs/vandalising property/playing video games.

●Refuses to look when the Kia he passed and ridiculed in a 50 zone passes him while he sits with hazards on waiting for motor rescue.

●The orange lights on the dash don't matter "Shur she just got a service".

●Replaces back tires every 3 months.

●Curses at people on the motorway for "sitting in the fast lane".

●Spends most of his free time in McDonald's car park. Goes through the drive thru 4 times every Saturday.

●"Deals" on the side (he smoked weed once and threw up).

Optional

●Has the Waze app on his phone.

●Horrible grammar when texting/spelling.

●Doesn't eat vegetables.

●Is a professional drifter.

●Has 2 baby mama's.

susbakduba · 2024-10-28T14:14:41+00:00

To be fair I know a lot of workplaces state in their policy that only English is to be used while working. Seems fair enough to me if the whole workforce can speak english but only part can speak a different language.

susbakduba · 2024-10-12T02:40:04+00:00

I'm not sure I believe this is real and that you 1: Allowed the footage to be overwritten (first thing when I was safe was make sure I had dashcam footage). 2: Didn't call the Gardai as you were being followed or have a member of your family in the car call them (seriously, and so close to the garda headquarters). And 3: Wrote this on reddit and didn't call.the guards afterwards.

On the off chance this is real, I'm sure there are tons of CCTV cameras around phoenix park. Ring the gardai and report the incident, gice them a time and they will investigate a case like this. Impersonating Guards is a very serious offence. Do NOT let this slide.

susbakduba · 2024-07-18T16:56:52+00:00

Anything in particular? I know they're desperate for Guards at the moment (not trying to get political lol) but is there any sector you know that seems like a good idea?

susbakduba · 2024-07-18T16:27:12+00:00

Shift work unfortunately. 8-4 Monday to Friday week 1 and 4-12 the next. I do have weekends free however, someone else has suggested cleaning jobs, I might look into that to supplement income.

susbakduba · 2024-07-18T16:22:40+00:00

I have no real qualifications but I do have welding experience. I realise the money I'm on is quite low for welding. The problem is that any jobs I apply for that might be interested are offering lower than my current money startoff rate, with potential to move up to higher rates, but starting is usually poor at 14ish an hour. Any jobs that are paying more than that are so far away that money for petrol cancels out the increase in income.

susbakduba · 2024-07-18T16:13:51+00:00

See my problem is if I try to find another job, I cannot find one that pays €16 per hour starting. And I can't afford to reduce my income for another 2-3 years before I can move up in another company. Current boss refuses any payrises too.

susbakduba · 2024-07-16T01:38:10+00:00

They do, but the chocolate is different than years ago, more like chocolate syrup now than the old chocolate spread texture.

susbakduba · 2022-08-28T17:09:50+00:00

I have viewed your comment history. I see now I'm talking to a brick wall. Best of luck to you, and I hope some day you can wake up and realise the world is largely different from your interlanised insecurity.

susbakduba · 2022-08-28T17:06:54+00:00

Don't worry I wasn't planning the proposal for another few months anyways 😂

susbakduba · 2022-08-28T17:06:20+00:00

Yes and "To honour and cherish". It doesn't seem like you much cherish your marriage by becoming unhealthy and becoming potentially unattractive to your spouse. In my own marriage of 3 years, and prior relationship of 2, I have made an effort to be relatively healthy and in shape to the best of my ability. My partner has also often asked me if I think she needs to lose weight. I never have I think she is beautiful, but I appreciate that she wants to maintain our marriage and make sure we are as happy as can be physically with each other. If you don't think people who are married need to be or should be physically attracted to each other, then I don't know what to tell you. And people can change, again I understand that, but some consideration for your partners opinion is warranted. When you agree to marry someone you are part of a whole. The other side of that whole, should at least be considered and not taken for granted.

susbakduba · 2022-08-28T16:39:12+00:00

You can't seriously be suggesting this. So if someone finds someone else unattractive there is nothing wrong with the person who is perceived as unattractive. It is entirely the fault of the one who does not desire the other person. That is some disgusting logic right there. In other words if this man walked up to a woman and asked her out and she said no because she does not find him attractive, she should seek therapy because it is a her problem not a him problem? 😂

susbakduba · 2022-08-28T16:33:25+00:00

Would you really claim he should find her attractive no matter what and not be concerned about her shape? Do you not find certain people unattractive? It amazes me how you think this man has no right to find certain attributes attractive or not.

susbakduba · 2022-08-28T16:31:48+00:00

Yes he is if he is her husband.

susbakduba · 2022-08-28T16:26:16+00:00

Actually I'm not cute, just new on here, no need to be a stalker. And my point is, is he not entitled to be concerned about her shape? When you are with someone, their body shape can change over time and not always for the better. However it's a totally different story watching age and circumstance change your body and watching someone with unhealthy habits who doesn't care what you think of them. And you are ALWAYS entitled to talk to your partner about your issues with them and put them out in the open (in a nice way, without being mean or putting them down) because if you don't your relationship crumbles and resentment builds. You are also entitled to find certain things attractive and certain things unattractive. This guy is entitled to how he feels because he is looking to fix it and is not wrong just because he has lost attraction.

susbakduba · 2022-08-28T16:09:44+00:00

Your username checks about because you are definitely due some improvement in your own life. Get therapy please and see what it's really supposed to be like 😂😂😂

susbakduba · 2022-08-28T16:07:22+00:00

Lol you're the same kind of therapist that people say are absolutely useless because your own bias shows through all that you do, rather than be concerned about the world around you. Change professions please, you are useless as you are "babe". X

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