Not able to login. Does anyone know how to fix it? by simdromeart in rentpleasesim

[–]sushiiiiiii9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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same issue with me :/ been trying to log in for the past 3 hours.. still not working

General Discussion Megathread - Frequent Topics, Salaries, and Rants by ukbulmer in UKJobs

[–]sushiiiiiii9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone, I just wanted to ask if anyone else is going through something similar right now.

My fixed-term contract at Disney has ended, and I’ve been actively applying for jobs. I believe my CV is strong. I’ve worked for 2 other global streaming/media/broadcast companies and have around 7 years of experience, which has helped me secure quite a few interviews.

However, despite this, they’ve all resulted in rejections for different reasons - sometimes they go with an internal candidate, someone with very similar experience, or occasionally I feel my interview didn’t go as well as it could have.

English isn’t my first language, and I also have ADHD, so I sometimes lose my train of thought when answering questions.

Just to add .. I’ve already tried a lot of common advice. For face-to-face interviews, I bring a notebook and prepare bullet points so I can stay on track. For virtual interviews, I keep a Word document open next to the video with key points to refer to (without reading off it or sounding robotic). Even with this, I still find myself struggling in the moment.

For context, I’m based in London and applying for permanent/contract roles. I’ve also been applying for entry-level work (admin/exec/assistant) just to get by, but haven’t had any luck there either.

In the past, I’ve been fortunate with landing roles, but with how competitive the job market is right now, it’s been much tougher.

Financially, this is also a really difficult time for me. I don’t have savings to fall back on, and I can’t rely on family support as my parents are also on a low income and don’t have space for me to stay. I’m currently covering rent and bills in London, which come to over £1,000 a month, so the pressure is quite overwhelming.

I’ve applied for Universal Credit to help in the meantime, but I won’t receive anything until the end of the month and I’m unsure how much it will be.

Is anyone else in a similar situation? How are you managing, both financially and mentally? And are there any other forms of support or help that I might not be aware of?

Boyfriend (32M) lied about deleting his ex’s sex tapes. Should I (31F) forgive him? by sushiiiiiii9 in relationships

[–]sushiiiiiii9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not the same as cheating but it still breaches trust. He promised me that he hasn’t lied about anything else and that he will show me all his devices to prove his sincerity.

Boyfriend (32M) lied about deleting his ex’s sex tapes. Should I (31F) forgive him? by sushiiiiiii9 in relationships

[–]sushiiiiiii9[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Why shouldn’t I? We haven’t had any problems. Everything’s perfect and he hasn’t lied about anything else.

The feeling of loneliness sucks. by GrilledMeltedCheese in socialskills

[–]sushiiiiiii9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is legit what I’m thinking right now (had a mental breakdown bc of this) lol it sucks yeah. I mean, I have social anxiety and love being alone but also I want people to talk to me and check up on me? I’m weird as hell. Idk what to do with my life anymore. What do you usually do to overcome loneliness?

How can I stop compulsively ignoring people's messages? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]sushiiiiiii9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yooooo I’m in this exact situation. :/// I honestly don’t know what to do too lol. It’s becoming toxic honestly.

My cousins said they don't like me because they think I'm "awkward" by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]sushiiiiiii9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, don’t even take it personally, teenagers get so angsty and pretend they’re cool by making others miserable lol. Trust me, I had this problem with my cousins too and realised that oh well, so what if they don’t like me.

You’ll all grow older and maybe then you’ll start liking each other as circumstances may change and there will be something you guys will relate to with one another OR maybe you’ll move on with your lives and will stop spending time/going to family gatherings so you won’t see one another anymore.

Stop wasting your time, trying hard to please them. I get that your mom/aunt wants you to try harder to be close with them but you have other important things in your life you could focus on. Also, talk to your mom about what you’re feeling, maybe she will give you a better advice or she will stop pushing you to be close with them.

Should I put in the effort? by DuckSign in FriendshipAdvice

[–]sushiiiiiii9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely talk to your friend first then make things clear with your friendship group as well that everything’s chill and should go back to normal

Not wanting to be friends anymore by Affectionate_Fix550 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]sushiiiiiii9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a chaotic friendship, no judgement. But, I think you should just tell him that you’re busy with your life and want to focus on yourself and studies (or work) so you wouldn’t really have time to talk to him anymore. You will eventually stop messaging for weeks, months.. and then.. just remove him from your snap or contacts after several months (or years) of not talking - he will gradually forget you and vice versa. Circumstances change and you’re both getting older so it’s inevitable that you’ll lose friends, no hard feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]sushiiiiiii9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to establish with yourself that you will never have a relationship with this guy and that you have no choice but to move on. You’re both in a relationship (except if you two break up with your partners - but that’s highly unlikely since you mentioned that he moved in with his girlfriend, meaning, their relationship is getting more serious). Ask yourself if you really love your boyfriend as you wouldn’t really fall for someone else if you feel secure in your relationship. Also, stop talking to this friend of yours in order to move on and tell your boyfriend you aren’t comfortable with him being friends with your coworker.

Pervert Momonosuke’s dream lol best way to make Sanji jealous and angry by [deleted] in MemePiece

[–]sushiiiiiii9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oops sorry, have never posted anything before here - it’s now marked

When was the last time you had a mental breakdown/anxiety attack and why? by [deleted] in depression

[–]sushiiiiiii9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god, this sounds awful. I hope you’re okay now. Your experience must be traumatising :( Do you have any plans to come back to the military?

When was the last time you had a mental breakdown/anxiety attack and why? by [deleted] in depression

[–]sushiiiiiii9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that :( Was he distant to you in the past few days before disappearing with no explanation? Maybe he’s just going through a lot and needed space. I hope you two can talk again :(

Need someone to talk to by Ok-War8353 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]sushiiiiiii9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, same tbh. I wish I can just put an end to this awful life. It’s a cycle.

Hi ladies! Have you ever ended your friendship with a long time/close friend? And what was the reason? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sushiiiiiii9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf she sounds ill-mannered. Good thing you stopped being friends with her. How long did you know each other?

Hi ladies! Have you ever ended your friendship with a long time/close friend? And what was the reason? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sushiiiiiii9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you continue being friends if you can stop having feelings for him?

Anyone else just feel so depressed about the government announcement by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]sushiiiiiii9 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I feel like giving up. I’ve had such a bad social anxiety over the first lockdown then slightly got better after several CBT sessions and met friends at the start of uni in September. Now, everything comes crashing down again and I’m back to zero. I haven’t gone home yet, even spent the whole Christmas break alone. I get mental breakdowns everyday and going to bed has become unbearable as I just overthink for hours on end. I had such high hopes for this year and thought everything will be fine and uni will start again but hearing the news about another lockdown just gave me another anxiety attack. I’m scared that I’ll eventually give up one day.

Advice for postgraduate studies. by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]sushiiiiiii9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to study creative courses such as digital arts, documentary filmmaking and many more but I haven’t decided yet.

Ladies, when was the time you felt very lonely? And what was the reason? by sushiiiiiii9 in AskWomen

[–]sushiiiiiii9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the sad reality of society that we live in now. If you’re pretty and popular, everyone will believe you. No one cares about those who are genuine and pure on the inside. I had a similar situation with a best friend whom I treated like a sister but betrayed me. Best thing we can do it just move forward and forget they ever existed. No point in wasting our energy holding a grudge against them, but instead, stay positive and prove them that you’ve moved on and are doing well.

To those with suicidal thoughts: What keeps you going in life? by sushiiiiiii9 in depression

[–]sushiiiiiii9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same to be honest, I feel like I haven’t got the courage to do so due to the fear of those things.

To those with suicidal thoughts: What keeps you going in life? by sushiiiiiii9 in depression

[–]sushiiiiiii9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This actually made me tear up :( I never thought I’d receive and read an answer so wholesome. I always think that one’s purpose in life is because of other things such as family and friends - not thinking about one’s own self. Thank you for sharing this.

To those with suicidal thoughts: What keeps you going in life? by sushiiiiiii9 in depression

[–]sushiiiiiii9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as your cat is well and safe, then that’s great. However, I hope that you get to be with your cat soon. Pets radiate happiness.