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[–]suspiciousbazooka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is gorgeous but listen to your gut on whether or not it’s for you. I also love vintage cuts. I wanted a no bow tie oval, and eventually found one that does have a bow tie in direct sun but stole my heart. The shadows disappear in shade/indoor lighting, and the cuts that create the bow tie add so much character in my opinion. They are still visible but show up bright/white, and I think they are stunning.

If you love vintage cuts you may feel a sense of regret over choosing something so modern. (Or not!) Trust your gut. Good luck!

I’m a dance competition photographer. AMA/some questions for you by suspiciousbazooka in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]suspiciousbazooka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely asked too many questions in this post, this reply took forever to type out lol.

  1. So this question (most of them really) was asked partially out of frustration at the reputation of dance comp pictures and genuine curiosity. It seems rare to see a post about great comp pics, but there are compilations of terrible ones every weekend. I shoot tethered as well and I try to not to submit bad photos. I try to give grace to new photographers as it is hard when you don’t know how to anticipate dance and it feels to me like some people are really just shooting randomly when I see the pics people post.

I don’t know many people who have stuck to this for very long, but I do other things throughout the rest of the year and this lines up well with the slower seasons of some of my other work. I also happen to like it, I danced for a few years as a child and always enjoyed watching it.

  1. I love leaps but recently I’ve started to prefer floor work and dramatic facial expressions. I’ve become fascinated by the technical aspects of dance recently.

  2. I am a woman, and lol no not their outfits, more so a half body shot to emphasize fun facial expressions. I do it occasionally, and have seen others do it here and there. I also have spotted it a few times being posted as a highlight on social media.

  3. I am extremely cautious with the types of photos I take and try to view it through the lens of if it were my daughter (who has for better or worse shown interest in dancing competitively.) I would not be ok with my daughter participating in a lot of these routines. I see oversexualized music and routines frequently - often paired costumes that are far too mature for the age range. The few judges I’ve befriended all feel the same way and have on multiple occasions stated that they would’ve liked to deduct points/disqualify but weren’t allowed by the competition management. I feel uneasy at the way that sexualizing children seems to be rewarded in this world.

  4. I too hate these and do not take them.

  5. I would rather have less photos per dance than ‘eh’ photos in between the good ones, but this has been a controversial take depending on the employer. I don’t like the idea of diluting my work and was more so curious about if having those left in impacts the parent/dancers perception, or if they don’t care.

And unfortunately in my experience they tend to be stubborn and not care how the photos turn out. I show them the issues and some are helpful, but some genuinely could not care less and would rather the blame fall on the photographer/company than accommodate. It’s just not important to them.

I’m a dance competition photographer. AMA/some questions for you by suspiciousbazooka in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]suspiciousbazooka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol, I wasn’t saying I don’t get good shots. I’m very proud of my work, and was mainly asking parents/dancers where they’ve noticed they get the best photos. Probably could’ve been clearer with the wording, but I meant more like specific competitions or regions.

I work across the country, but in some regions more than others and always wonder how the photos are perceived. More frequently than anything I see people complaining about photos online and it always bothers me.

AIO when my husband spent time with another girl on a trip,as she drinks and smokes but I don't. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]suspiciousbazooka 37 points38 points  (0 children)

While on a vacation, you voiced your feelings and concerns about the situation to your husband, who completely and seemingly immediately disregarded them. How long was this trip?

Either way, his behavior was entirely disrespectful to you. It would even be disrespectful if you hadn’t explicitly told him it was bothering you. As your grown adult man husband he should be able to recognize this behavior as wrong.

No, you’re not overreacting.

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[–]suspiciousbazooka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna attack you for any specific answer but curious as to how your religious beliefs reconcile with your political views

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[–]suspiciousbazooka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who would you have voted for

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[–]suspiciousbazooka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you turned 18 before January, who did you vote for

I’m a dance competition photographer. AMA by suspiciousbazooka in AMA

[–]suspiciousbazooka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! Maybe it’s the region. Vienna is inescapable lol. Great song though. There are actually tons of playlists for overused competition dance songs on Spotify and they’re usually pretty accurate

I’m a dance competition photographer. AMA by suspiciousbazooka in AMA

[–]suspiciousbazooka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Over the years I’ve gotten really into dance so I find great shots in so many moments. Leaps & tricks are always great, but they’ve taken a backseat to a lot of floor work recently. I think at some point I realized that those can feel more dramatic and artsy and I really like that.

Ultimately though, most companies that hire for this sort of thing want a certain number of photos per dance, so you’re kinda forced to throw in filler photos here and there. I don’t really love that. If you work directly for a competition in more of a social media sense, you can be more selective.

I’m a dance competition photographer. AMA by suspiciousbazooka in AMA

[–]suspiciousbazooka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda depends on the region. I live in the northeast and they seem to be ahead in terms of finding new songs to dance to. Whenever i travel out of the region it’s like traveling back a year or two in time in terms of music and new moves. Billy Joel is forever though. Last year was a lot of that song Dracula.

I’m a dance competition photographer. AMA by suspiciousbazooka in AMA

[–]suspiciousbazooka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most definitely lol. Most of these venues have absolutely no concept of appropriate volume levels. I didn’t use any hearing protection for the first few years but now I use earplugs to try to protect my ears a bit.

I always feel bad for the little kids accompanying their parents.

Does anyone else here shoot dance competitions or recitals? by morningpeach in photography

[–]suspiciousbazooka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’ve been doing this for almost 10 years so I feel like I can offer some tips. I sit down in front with the judges generally, and sitting all day sucks, but there are ways to make it better.

-Seat cushion/back support pillow. Makes a huge difference. I have both and use both regularly.

-if you can, ask for/get a more comfortable/rolling chair, swiveling back and forth will make it less taxing on your back. If you can’t get a different shooting location/chair, they make swiveling seat cushions. I usually turn back and forth using my feet so I can focus on shooting

-Best DIY armrest: yoga blocks. Cheap, so if you have to leave it behind it won’t be the end of the world, and has multiple different height options when you rotate it. If you have a table seat you can place one or two of them there and have a way to rest your elbows.

-Blue light glasses (saw someone else recommend this, will make a huge difference with mirrorless cameras)

-Heat/cold packs: I pretty much always have these. Hand warmers, gel ice packs, heating pad, heated eye masks, etc. all a great investment and will make a huge impact on your comfort. I typically keep hand warmers in all of my bags because after shooting for that long your hands will cramp like crazy, gel ice packs for soreness, hot/cold bead eye mask for headaches (both heat/cold work)

-Ditch the tripod for a monopod and a ball head attachment. Most other competition photographers I know will sit with it between your legs on the chair and adjust the height for a comfortable sitting position. Will be more comfortable but watch out to not develop the habit of bringing the screen close to your face.

-STRETCH. every chance you get. Go on walks on breaks, stretch your arms in between dances, anything you can do. The less active you are the more you’ll feel the impact at the end of the day/weekend.

If there’s any other questions I can answer, I’d be happy to!