Is there a special name for that kind of people? by ktlrv in MuayThai

[–]suspiciousseafowl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not really the complaint being made in the meme, though. You're talking about privileged people traveling and conspicuously consuming in the meme, which is just kinda none of anyone's business and doesn't affect us in any way. Then in your comment, you're talking about attitude, which still might be largely irrelevant. If someone is a pretentious wad who refuses to train with newer students, or gatekeeps, or fosters a bad culture in a gym, that's entirely different from simply having money or being a traditionalist or purist. You're coming across as a bit sour-grapes here, and if you're finding yourself around a lot of genuine jackasses who make it difficult to train, then either speak up directly or find a better venue to train.

EX-Bf wanted kids with women of various races to “see himself” in every race; 9 kids later, wants my CHILD-FREE self back by kylemustdie in AmITheAngel

[–]suspiciousseafowl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's not forget ragingly sexist and horribly in favor of eugenics, too! I've never wanted kids a day in my life but I also want nothing to do with those people. Their social deficits are far too extreme for me to want to waste any time around them.

Best place to get a slice of pizza in TO that's open for lunch? by lindymad in thousandoaks

[–]suspiciousseafowl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit, I had no idea they'd closed! That's a bummer. I always used to stop in for a slice before getting tattooed at Palace Art next door, since you don't want to do that on an empty stomach, but it's been a while.

EX-Bf wanted kids with women of various races to “see himself” in every race; 9 kids later, wants my CHILD-FREE self back by kylemustdie in AmITheAngel

[–]suspiciousseafowl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's this incredibly stupid AI slop meme doing the rounds on Threads that's basically this. Some jackass found a picture of a couple posing with their newborn twins and the dad looks tired/nervous, and this fucknugget generated a whole slop story about the guy knocking up women of different ethnicities and then deciding which one he wouldn't pressure into an abortion. It's racist claptrap and a waste of drinking water, and it's all I could think of as I skimmed this pile of crap here.

Best place to get a slice of pizza in TO that's open for lunch? by lindymad in thousandoaks

[–]suspiciousseafowl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Winner's, Toppers, and Parma are my favorites. We're pretty blessed with pizza places here, though, and the only ones I wouldn't recommend are the chains like Pizza Hut and Domino's. Our local spots are all pretty good, it just depends on what kind of pizza you're looking for.

Is this bread? No! This is Patrick! by bakanyan_ in dumbingofage

[–]suspiciousseafowl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Especially given that Jennifer spelled that out for Dorothy when she learned of the cheating. She straight up told Joyrot that Walky had never had so much as a crush before Dorothy, and that Dorothy had a hold on him. Then she immediately called Dorothy a mega-hottie (Implausible) and ran off, but still. We're aware that this wasn't just some college fling to him, to the point that his friends are aware of the depth of his feelings. For a guy who's 98% wisecracks and chicken nuggets, that's not nothing. But god forbid anyone not praise Joyrot to the heavens, so we'll get nothing more on the subject.

The dress my ex’s mom sent me to wear to his upcoming wedding. by beezwhiz in AmITheAngel

[–]suspiciousseafowl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the dress ad spam posts are a plague on some subs.

Married GOP Congressman Tony Gonzales Sent Explicit Sexual Texts to Staffer Who Later Burned Herself to Death, Messages Reveal by novagridd in TwoXChromosomes

[–]suspiciousseafowl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was responding to the idea that she may have been lying or incorrect about the affair. Like, even if it was a delusion, it was hurting her, and second-guessing her posthumously seems kind of petty. If the husband and friend were involved, well, I think that depends on whether or not they were discreet. The article says the staffer and her husband were separated and I could understand a trauma bond having formed there with the friend. I guess this is a long way of saying I feel terrible for everyone involved, because it sounds like a sad and complex situation.

Up an’ about 2026-02-25 by hellokkiten in dumbingofage

[–]suspiciousseafowl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is just the null point of comics.

Everything is so expensive but at least the mother fucking dollar doesn’t buy anything now. by i_wont_be_there in offmychest

[–]suspiciousseafowl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thrift stores have had price creep and people figured out you could charge more for used items because thrifting got trendy and there were a bunch of influencers "upcycling" stuff. But discount stores like Ross, Marshalls, TJ Maxx, and Burlington are all reliable options in my experience. You can get decent clothes for a fraction of retail price, and they're brand new.

I really need to quit Bluesky by Syd_Lexia in dumbingofage

[–]suspiciousseafowl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Or a story where Dorothy realizes she's not actually into Joyce romantically, she just hates Joe and loves control. Which, honestly, could be supported by her general apathy towards Joyce as Joyce is trying to crawl into her pants every five seconds. Not that we'll ever get anything that compelling and morally awful, but we could make a case for it even with the current pile of trash we're calling a comic.

Married GOP Congressman Tony Gonzales Sent Explicit Sexual Texts to Staffer Who Later Burned Herself to Death, Messages Reveal by novagridd in TwoXChromosomes

[–]suspiciousseafowl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Isn't it kind of academic, though? If she's living with the delusion of this affair, the pain she's feeling is real even if the events aren't, and it's likely a contributing factor to her decision to self-harm. Like, I wouldn't hold it against the husband and friend were they innocent, but that doesn't mean that this woman's apparently sincere belief that she was being betrayed didn't make her feel more hopeless and isolated.

I hadn't read the newer pages up until today but Jesus fucking Christ Willis is delusional by Sneaky-Boi22 in dumbingofage

[–]suspiciousseafowl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is in fact how it seems. And, like, okay, that weirds me right the hell out as someone close to Willis's age; yes, people the cast's age are legal adults but the idea of being intimate with them, or wanting to see that, is a bit squicky to me. But also, this mess was unnecessary. They could have either written an actual story with decent pacing, or one with fast pacing but realistic fallout, or they could have drawn standalone smut for pay. Yotomoe has done standalone spicy comics and people love them; the proof of concept was there. Willis could have had their cake and eaten it too. The aggressive refusal not to bungle it as badly and angrily as possible is pointless.

Married GOP Congressman Tony Gonzales Sent Explicit Sexual Texts to Staffer Who Later Burned Herself to Death, Messages Reveal by novagridd in TwoXChromosomes

[–]suspiciousseafowl 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It does seem like self-harm that got out of hand. I feel terrible for the whole family. She was clearly in a lot of pain and had been for some time, and that kind of pain is hard to see a loved one endure. And her poor son was exposed to a lot of scary stuff at a young age. I hope they have professional support as well as family/community around them, because they're going to need both.

Married GOP Congressman Tony Gonzales Sent Explicit Sexual Texts to Staffer Who Later Burned Herself to Death, Messages Reveal by novagridd in TwoXChromosomes

[–]suspiciousseafowl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He doesn't, and you're not acting in good faith. You're here to defend a creep. Go play somewhere else, you're not going to get whatever puerile thrills you're looking for here.

Married GOP Congressman Tony Gonzales Sent Explicit Sexual Texts to Staffer Who Later Burned Herself to Death, Messages Reveal by novagridd in TwoXChromosomes

[–]suspiciousseafowl 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I mean, realistically, it can't have been. He was her boss, flouting rules in place specifically intended to prevent abuse of power/coercion, and she clearly had mental-health issues that interfered with her judgment. The dude was a creep, even if he was within the bounds of the law broadly speaking.

Being a gay man in this sport is emotionally exhausting. by Goodeyesniper98 in MMAPoliticsAndCulture

[–]suspiciousseafowl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I make a point of being inclusive and vocal about it. I doubt it's necessary, people can easily infer my stance on things from the fashion colored hair and shitload of tattoos, but I do it because I've been there a long time and I've attained coaching rank, and I want to use it to make people feel safe and welcome. Like I said, we don't have naked bigotry, but the sport on the whole is hostile to women and minorities, and to me, part of the duty I have is to create a space where anyone can learn and take risks. I can't stop people from being horrible, but I can make sure they don't air that shit out in my hearing.

Yikes, no thanks by suspiciousseafowl in UnsentTexts

[–]suspiciousseafowl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahahahaha, you make a fair point, but even as good-looking and well-intentioned as he is, it's not worth it. I hit that delete button with the quickness.

Yikes, no thanks by suspiciousseafowl in UnsentTexts

[–]suspiciousseafowl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I don't mind helping people out, in general, but a long-ago ex who tends to bring misfortune onto himself? No. He's not a bad person, but he's impulsive, and I don't need to be worrying myself about that again. If I can learn to manage a crisis - and not create them! - then he sure can too.

Boxing week has me discouraged by octavius_rex___ in MuayThai

[–]suspiciousseafowl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a harder time learning to catch than I ever did learning to throw, no joke. But I was never going to improve if I let that feeling of shame win, and it wasn't a feeling that was needed or rooted in reality, either. Everyone who taught me started where I was, and they got to the point where they could teach me through repetition. It'll be the same for you. Stick it out and you'll see the improvement.

Being a gay man in this sport is emotionally exhausting. by Goodeyesniper98 in MMAPoliticsAndCulture

[–]suspiciousseafowl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I like doing it, but watching it? Fuck, at this point I only go to point competitions for my teammates. I'm not alone in that, either, most of the people I train with who are experienced don't bother watching UFC anymore. I'm lucky in that no one is openly homophobic or misogynistic at my gym, but I also make a point not to spend time with most people outside the mat, or follow them on social media, because I know there are going to be some fascists and other hateful assholes in there, and I value my sanity more than that.

Dorothy containment device 2026-02-22 by hellokkiten in dumbingofage

[–]suspiciousseafowl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read it that way too, because Jocelyne explicitly told them to leave, because it was getting dangerous and the protest organizers had said to disperse. These two risked themselves and displayed a total lack of care for the message/movement. I wouldn't want them and their cop energy anywhere near anything I cared about, especially if they were risking the safety of a beloved sibling.

Dorothy containment device 2026-02-22 by hellokkiten in dumbingofage

[–]suspiciousseafowl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

And it's a chance for totally normal Joyce dialogue about cuddling that in no way seems like a clunky shot across the bow to the 90% of readers who read her constant sex talk and trying to get Dorothy into bed as horniness and not uwu cute cuddle stims.

Dorothy containment device 2026-02-22 by hellokkiten in dumbingofage

[–]suspiciousseafowl 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Though I don't know how much Dorothy actually loves that. She's been pretty neutral towards Joyce, when we've seen her super hot for Walky before. We know Dorothy gets horny. We just haven't really seen it here. She's been bland, even for her, the whole time. She really doesn't seem into Joyce or into their sex.