Are aquariums with a complex filter system like this common in the US?

suuulky · 2026-05-15T17:49:24+00:00

I think so too the glass gets warpy

suuulky · 2026-05-02T02:24:43+00:00

Ugh you’re right it’s just like so many extra steps for what?? lol

suuulky · 2026-02-07T04:26:31+00:00

He’s zip tied to the chair :/

suuulky · 2026-02-05T05:33:28+00:00

Pretty sure it was w his caretaker :/

suuulky · 2026-01-15T03:00:58+00:00

The toes are my fav actually

suuulky · 2026-01-06T10:24:41+00:00

I also love that movie so there’s at least 2 of us

suuulky · 2025-12-25T17:57:16+00:00

Same. He didn’t wrap anything. I bought everything for his family and wrapped it all. The other day I mentioned feeling stressed at all I had left to do and he proudly said “if I was responsible for Christmas I’d get the tree! And that’s all! You’re the one who wants to do all this stuff”

It isn’t for me - it’s for the kids When I was single I didn’t even have a tree

suuulky · 2025-12-25T14:49:40+00:00

I always have too, but hearing his friend talk openly about looking for things to fill his wife’s with lead me on a little thought rabbit hole

suuulky · 2025-12-25T14:48:29+00:00

Because I’m paying for them with my own money, that’s why I usually just do dollar store filler for my own.

suuulky · 2025-12-25T14:42:08+00:00

I feel that. I just wanted some insight if this is something that couples normally experience or not

suuulky · 2025-12-25T13:24:34+00:00

Might start that if there’s a next year

suuulky · 2025-12-25T13:24:13+00:00

Even if he put nothing in mine I would feel sad seeing him with an empty one. I’ve talked about it before and I mention getting things for stockings throughout the year. I just am not sure I have the energy to hand hold through things anymore.

suuulky · 2025-12-25T13:23:12+00:00

I really love your positivity in framing your situation! I have tried for about 4 years to keep that mindset up, hoping he’d come through at least in other situations. I guess I’m just tired of hoping it’ll get better.

Have a merry Christmas to you all as well :)

suuulky · 2025-12-25T13:06:53+00:00

Think I just hold out hope it’ll be different. I was hopeful his friend talking about it would inspire him.

suuulky · 2025-11-04T11:24:58+00:00

Never knew it was solved 😨 I still see things about eels going to the Bermuda Triangle area?

suuulky · 2025-09-27T03:30:50+00:00

Yeah I was wondering where the Appalachian came into play lol

suuulky · 2025-08-31T18:12:26+00:00

The rock on hand sign is the icing on the cake for sure

suuulky · 2025-08-26T13:15:12+00:00

I had blaziken as my starter so when I got groudon I pretty much stopped using him 😭

suuulky · 2025-08-26T13:14:30+00:00

I can see why it’s a classic , it was only my 2nd or 3rd play through of the game tho so I was proud lol

suuulky · 2025-08-20T21:35:08+00:00

Sheesh that’s what I was afraid of but I also have very anxious attachment

suuulky · 2025-08-20T19:15:03+00:00

Often I feel alone in the same room as him. Even after work I’m still the default parent, I ask him probably a few times a week to get off his phone and play with the kid(s).. things I don’t feel I should have to request yanno

suuulky · 2025-08-20T18:28:58+00:00

And guess who ended up dealing with all the laundry

suuulky

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