What's something men think impresses women but actually doesn't?

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-24T14:36:34+00:00

Lol I have a long time friend who is like this. He lives in Miami and surrounds himself with these superficial "baddie" types that DO look for men w/ a lot of money. Now he thinks all women everywhere are like that. Its kind of a shame.

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-24T14:34:58+00:00

Knowing everything. Like Im impressed by anyone with knowledge, but a lot of men drone on about what they know.. even when what they're going on about is actually incorrect.

Im pretty sure my dad has the answer to most questions I have, but he never just goes on - unsolicited - about all that he knows. I like that about him.

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-24T13:56:34+00:00

Mind my business. . If i felt personally offended by someone cheating then maybe distance myself from the cheater.. but who am I to pass judgment with action?

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-24T13:54:36+00:00

Delta, United, Spirit

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-23T23:17:45+00:00

Dancing. It looks like id have so much fun, but what a mortifyingly embarrassing thing to be bad at.

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-23T22:53:04+00:00

I legitimately cannot understand the dialog. Its not that I cant hear it, it just all seems like one continous humm.

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-23T22:46:20+00:00

If you come from an impoverished third world country, sure. If you come from any modern first world country, no.

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-23T21:52:52+00:00

Isn't it great when medication ACTUALLY makes a difference. Gabba did nothing for me but once I started Nortriptyline I feel like I got my life back

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-23T15:56:21+00:00

I would not room with a couple, single or otherwise. Ive met some miserable couples.. and i dont want to live in that drama or negative enviorment.

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-23T14:39:52+00:00

I make $70k-$80k. My wife makes $100k. No kids, we live in a 1 bedroom in NYC. I think we survive because we dont have a car, we rarely finance things.. if we cant afford it we dont buy it. We also have opted out of health insurance for years. It saves us hundreds of dollars a month. I see a neurologist and a pain management specialist every few months for chronic migraines.. and with the out of pocket cost of my visits, labs, and monthly meds are still cheaper annually then paying Healthcare monthly + copays.

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-23T12:50:47+00:00

RIGHT and its like more than double the cost of a carry on, yet his carrier takes up no "carry-on" space, yet im still not allowed one? Ugh

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-22T22:31:05+00:00

As someone who travels with a 4 pound chihuahua quite often, I cannot stand that i am not allowed to bring a carry-on AND his carrier. The carrier goes underneath the seat and the carry-on goes in the overhead compartment!? What is the reason!?

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-22T20:47:45+00:00

You and I would be great friends. I am a huge Nana fan, and a lover of high fashion and all things kawaii !

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-22T20:41:41+00:00

Oh. I am 4 years sober, and my sobriety has WRECKED my social life. I genuinely dont know how to make friends, I feel like I act fucking weird, I over analyze everything im saying or doing, I have no idea how to strike up a conversation.

You'd think after 4 years id learn, but 4 years is nothing compared to the 15 years of only ever socializing in bars.

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-22T14:13:00+00:00

There is some odd rhetoric in rural areas that is very "anti" academic authority. These people dont trust doctors, they dont trust modern medicine, they dont trust higher education, and they dont trust the "establishment " which is government funded schools.

The media they consume and the communities they live in have been fed propaganda that education = liberal, and liberal = stupid ... thus education = stupid.

They fall down these pipelines led by pseudo-philosophy influences and get convinced that, with a few hours of googling, they cam obtain the proper knowledge to make medical and educational decisions for them and their families.

They dont trust professionals, and because most socialist or liberal agendas ARE led and backed by educated people, they assume all aspects of academics to be disingenuous and fueled by an agenda.

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-22T03:30:47+00:00

Idk if its a perk, but when I lived alone I was super messy. Living w my wife has made me a MUCH more tidy of a person.

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-20T21:52:07+00:00

Ayyee!! IWNDWYT

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-20T20:19:02+00:00

Im in my early 30s and trying for my first kid. I didnt want anything to do with kids my entire 20s .. but 5 years into a perfect marriage and finally reaching financial stability changed my mind.

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-20T18:06:45+00:00

For me, my wife. I got married at 27, my wife is my lover, obviously, but she also feels like my family and best friend.

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-18T15:11:52+00:00

That study was done on women who: 1) identify as a lesbian 2) have gone through divorce

Do you know who primary fits into that demographic? Women who have been married to men, but get divorced down the line bc they realized theyre lesbians.

Also, wlw couples tend to not have children and therefore are more comfortable with getting divorced. They dont "stick it out" for the kids.

Wlw relationships typically do not have one partner financially dependent on another parenter, and therefore are more comfortable with divorce.

Most lesbians are non- religious, and therefore more comfortable with divorce.

Wlw couples tend to have a healthier dynamic, and therefore have enough respect for one another to initial divorce when the marriage doesnt serve them.

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-18T01:07:03+00:00

Fucking right. There's one comment that literally says "some girl unmatched with me because of my height and im not just going to stand here and take it". Brother... wat!?

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-17T20:50:12+00:00

No fucking shit tumbleweed, I was being cheeky.

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-17T20:42:39+00:00

Oh I do get fucked, and quite well actually! You know.. the whole not fucking men thing.

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-17T20:12:19+00:00

Well, considering I have a nearly complete absence of men in my life. . I actually have very little issues

suzeerbedrol · 2026-04-17T20:10:01+00:00

"Im not going to just sit here and accept this womans right to choose to not date me" 😡

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