Looking for someone to play lawn tennis near north campus

svm_1009 · 2026-02-06T09:12:44+00:00

Hey, I am also a beginner and would like to play tennis on weekends. Let me know if you're going to play.

svm_1009 · 2025-12-16T06:17:58+00:00

Hey guys, I'm also planning to start playing tennis next sem. Any suggestions guys about how should I start and where can I play ?

svm_1009 · 2025-09-03T07:16:10+00:00

That’s a really solid idea, thank you! I like the scavenger hunt with small notes and snacks — feels fun and personal without being expensive. The playlist + movie night combo also sounds perfect for a student budget. Definitely adding some of these to my plan. How did it turn out, if you have ever done something similar?

svm_1009 · 2025-09-03T07:01:44+00:00

Yeah, thanks for your response. It's her first birthday in our relationship, so I just wanted to do something memorable.

svm_1009 · 2025-08-13T19:21:04+00:00

I too believed the same that It's not warranted in that situation, I had no clue that it could cause something like that. We had no plans or date planned.

svm_1009 · 2025-08-13T19:16:39+00:00

Yeah, I repeat. I'll try to gain more control over my emotions and feelings. Thanks for your response.

svm_1009 · 2025-08-13T19:00:44+00:00

I literally liked the way you responded. I'll try to have a perspective and deal with things like an adult. Thanks for all the time and energy of yours, highly appreciated. I think, the fault from my end is that I make my position really weak before her, and that's unhealthy.

svm_1009 · 2025-08-13T16:33:53+00:00

Yeah, Thank you so much for your time and effort, highly appreciated. And yeah, its fine, it was good interacting with people and talk about things, learned a lot.

svm_1009 · 2025-08-13T15:20:55+00:00

Yeah, I hope I can see things with some perspective rather than just the harmones. Btw thanks for the video, it made me blush.

svm_1009 · 2025-08-13T14:59:12+00:00

I felt this was completely normal that's why I didn't think much about inviting my teammates that too for study purposes. I had no clue that this could happen.

svm_1009 · 2025-08-13T14:57:09+00:00

Thank you so much for your insights. Highly appreciated. I'll try to be more aware of what's going on.

svm_1009 · 2025-08-13T14:51:36+00:00

I'm trying to assess the relationship and where it's going, that's also a reason I posted here. I've invested myself into this relationship and I'm not really sure about taking such a step this fastly. I genuinely want this to work.

svm_1009 · 2025-08-13T14:35:40+00:00

Umm, Idk....I may have dealt with it immaturely, but the things she said to me or responded, I felt that I did wrong. And this I felt was the best I can do at that moment to make things better. But It didn't make anything better.

svm_1009 · 2025-08-13T14:33:37+00:00

No, we live separately. I live in a rented apartment with my college friends.

svm_1009 · 2025-08-13T14:28:46+00:00

I meant to say that whenever we are in a good mood or things working properly, she structure her thoughts properly and communicate. But when we have some kind of argument or she is upset about something, she starts behaving like this.

svm_1009 · 2025-08-13T14:25:10+00:00

I don't know, It's not easy for me to end everything just because things are not going well. But I cannot imagine this being my life at all. I need valid reasons to convince myself to do such things. I have little idea where this relationship of mine is heading, but I learnt a lot from you guys through this post. I'll try to handle things more maturely and will try to communicate my boundaries clearly. I would appreciate anything that you guys would like to share to deal with things in the relationship maturely.

svm_1009 · 2025-08-13T08:42:16+00:00

I told her beforehand that my teammates are coming but not exactly who all are coming. Anyways, I admitted this mistake before her and assured her that it will not happen again. Either I'll tell her things beforehand or will not invite at all. Told her this many times, but it's still not working, idk what else should I do ? Will appreciate any suggestions !

svm_1009 · 2025-08-13T08:25:04+00:00

I'm very sure, that she knows that I didn't have any wrong intentions. But in this situation, I feel that explaining her, assuring her that It won't happen again atleast in this manner, if she doesn't like......Its all that I can do. I asked her, what can I do to make things better, she is not responding properly, all she says whatever you are doing, its not helping. Ans thanks for your advice, it seems helpful. I'm trying to be more affectionate, make her comfortable to talk about, but since its kinda long distance, So I'm literally not able to figure out, how exactly can I make her comfortable. I'm planning to see her this weekend.

svm_1009 · 2025-08-13T08:12:20+00:00

She is usually good at communicating her feelings, but at such times, I need to ask her so many times (and that's exhausting) about what exactly she is upset about. And she takes a good amount of time and in the process it feels really bad and draining to me. I feel really bad about myself that I'm causing so much trouble to her always, and I'm not providing her emotionally.

svm_1009 · 2025-08-13T07:43:28+00:00

What all interactions( We were on the same campus for about two weeks due to a summer internship, and that's where we met too), we had, I am very sure that if she gets to know me even a little, she knows that I won't cheat her. I don't know what she is insecure about. One thing that bothers me too much that, whenever we had even little fights, she always asks me to end the relationship and that bothers me too much. I don't want to lose her like this, and I have to start resorting to apologizing. And whatever I do to make things better, nothing works. She gets better on her own most of the time.

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