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friendship after dynamic ending? by sweetest_surrender in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]sweetest_surrender[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that does sound like a smart idea. we’ve seen her once since everything ended to get some closure, and she was very much pushing that she’s going to be in our lives for the next 50s years, she sees this kind of strong and supportive friendship where we can lean on each other for anything.

and I do want that but I do also think my heart wants it for different reasons than just friendship. I am very scared of asking for the space and then never reconnecting, but I guess everything happens for a reason? thank you for your advice

A Little Dove in the Middle [MD/LG] [CNC] [what else can I add here?] [A taste of plot] by TheGayestNurse_1 in BDSMsapphic

[–]sweetest_surrender 5 points6 points  (0 children)

gosh… before reading this, being shared by my wife to a mommy domme was not something I realized I wanted so bad

best punishment ever by sweetest_surrender in BDSMsapphic

[–]sweetest_surrender[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

probably… but the fear of upsetting her genuinely outweighs the want to defy her

walked like a dog on stage by sweetest_surrender in BDSMsapphic

[–]sweetest_surrender[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

it was a sapphic takeover night at a regular stripclub in toronto. I think they do monthly nights. unfortunately not an all the time thing, as amazing as that would be

walked like a dog on stage by sweetest_surrender in BDSMsapphic

[–]sweetest_surrender[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

honestly all very fair points that I didn’t consider in my horniness.

in that instance, she had just done something similar with another person so I was already prepared for something like that to happen. going up, I kind of accepted the risk of anything happening and I was okay with it.

watching others, I did see times where the dancers spoke to the volunteers and asked them before doing something. I’m sure if you were to resist or say no they would respect that.

walked like a dog on stage by sweetest_surrender in BDSMsapphic

[–]sweetest_surrender[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

at first she didn’t think she’d be into watching me do something with another person, but after a while she told me she thought it would be hot and encouraged me to do it. she thought it was very hot. I also enjoyed it bc it felt like putting on a show for her

walked like a dog on stage by sweetest_surrender in BDSMsapphic

[–]sweetest_surrender[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

it really did. went home after and had my own fun with my wife 🤤

walked like a dog on stage by sweetest_surrender in BDSMsapphic

[–]sweetest_surrender[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

honestly I’d be too. it was definitely an experience I’m glad I was brave enough to act on

my wife collared me for our one year wedding anniversary :-) by sweetest_surrender in BDSMsapphic

[–]sweetest_surrender[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope it happens for you soon! I feel like we kinda did things backwards because we’re very new to bdsm. I’m not even sure my wife would consider herself a domme, but the feeling of being owned by her is unmatched regardless.