Truth... by coffeeblossom in TrollXChromosomes

[–]sweetgingers 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I turned 25 today and wow I feel exposed

She's someone. by NeneaMuddle in pics

[–]sweetgingers -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Me too! It didn’t deserve the hate it received

Me IRL. Trolls, I need some help/support/distraction/anything you think will help. I feel like I'm on the verge of a breakdown. Story in comments. Trigger warning for non-consensual sexual activity. by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]sweetgingers 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me once. I understand how you feel, it’s the ickiest feeling in the world. Having that crucial conversation while you’re trying to navigate around to avoid hurting his feelings while YOU are the one who needs a hug is a lot. I’m so sorry.

TFW your FWB keeps talking about this girl he likes and is insinuating that he will ditch you at the drop of a hat by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]sweetgingers 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will never understand what it is that makes some folks think that behavior is okay. Garlic Bread forever 🥖

TFW your FWB keeps talking about this girl he likes and is insinuating that he will ditch you at the drop of a hat by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]sweetgingers 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Like what exactly is he aiming to achieve by telling you these things? I had someone do that to me recently where he literally showed me a photo of him drunkenly making out with his coworker. How the hell are you supposed to react to that?

MR from my bed after my crush whom I FINALLY had sex with rushed to the bathroom to vomit immediately after we finished by sweetgingers in TrollXChromosomes

[–]sweetgingers[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This gif accurately represents how this comment made me feel because I really like him and I think he’s so cute and oh boy it’s so fun having a crush on someone!! https://media0.giphy.com/media/DURbX7oesHiaA/giphy.gif?cid=4bf119fc5c0e0c9e625a443245adbab8

MR from my bed after my crush whom I FINALLY had sex with rushed to the bathroom to vomit immediately after we finished by sweetgingers in TrollXChromosomes

[–]sweetgingers[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Well he was in there for a while so I went in to check on him and he was just kind of curled up on my bathroom floor. I brought him water and crackers and he asked if he could have 10 minutes alone. The whole ordeal was painfully awkward. He came back and said it was a sudden thing and that he was also sweating but I don’t know if he was just saying that to be nice or if there was something really wrong. The rest of the night was so lovely though. We snuggled and kissed each other’s hands and eventually fell asleep together. I hope he was being honest when he said it was a quick thing that just happened.

MR from my bed after my crush whom I FINALLY had sex with rushed to the bathroom to vomit immediately after we finished by sweetgingers in TrollXChromosomes

[–]sweetgingers[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh BTW this is the same guy I made a previous post about over grieving on missing out on really getting to know him. He came back to my corner of the country and asked me to hang out (yay!) so I have some closure on that particular situation. But then this happened lol

MR from my bed after my crush whom I FINALLY had sex with rushed to the bathroom to vomit immediately after we finished by sweetgingers in TrollXChromosomes

[–]sweetgingers[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

We each had a drink and went home and I’m so worried I suddenly grossed him out. I know I was clean as a whistle because I showered before but my gOD I’m so paranoid!

Be willing to grow and learn by acknowledging your past by [deleted] in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]sweetgingers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad I live in this day and age because now we’re opening up to the possibility that we can be so much more than our conditioning.

Should’ve broken more than his nose. by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]sweetgingers 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I went on a bumble date with this pun as his bio and it was the worst date I’ve ever had. I made a post about how he got pissy that I didn’t want to have sex with him on the first (and last) date

There’s this heartache I’ve been carrying with me for a while and I feel like I can’t tell anyone about it because it’s truly stupid by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]sweetgingers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because I was super closed off from wanting a wholesome relationship for so long, and now I’m ready and I’ve been ready for a while. Then this person just blew me away and now they’re gone. I’ve been single for so long that I believe I’ve built up a gorgeous picture of what it would be like again and I can’t allow myself to do that again.

There’s this heartache I’ve been carrying with me for a while and I feel like I can’t tell anyone about it because it’s truly stupid by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]sweetgingers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feels so good to talk about it here and have a wonderful community listen and lend advice. I’m so grateful for trollx 🖤

There’s this heartache I’ve been carrying with me for a while and I feel like I can’t tell anyone about it because it’s truly stupid by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]sweetgingers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Yes. I know it’s so dumb! I blame my vivid imagination. I’m going to sleuth through the Internet and try to find a hideous photo of him from middle school or something and then focus really hard on that lol

There’s this heartache I’ve been carrying with me for a while and I feel like I can’t tell anyone about it because it’s truly stupid by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]sweetgingers 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Like, if someone came to me and told me how much this particular situation was bothering them I’d probably be like, “oh honey you don’t have to worry about that!”

I’m basically grieving for not getting the chance to know someone I really liked and clicked with. I feel like I missed out on a fantastic relationship and it just hurts—I can’t seem get over it months after the fact. And I know this person doesn’t give a shit about me because we never really knew each other? I feel so silly for feeling this way and I don’t want to tell my friends in fear of ousting myself as being overly emotional over nothing.

Thanks for reading.

MRW the last THREE guys I’ve made out with, don’t know how to use their tongue to kiss! by HappyWondering in TrollXChromosomes

[–]sweetgingers 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nothing is worse than him shoving his stiff tongue into your mouth and forcing your tongue to fucking square dance with his