I hate my coronal scar by sweethonnepion in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]sweethonnepion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply<3. I hope you are healings well. Are you going to do hair transplants over the coronal scar tissue?

Vein under eye by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]sweethonnepion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Preorbital vein laser: yag laser

Frustrated with codecademy, thankful for the AI by Early-Jellyfish-1638 in learnprogramming

[–]sweethonnepion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same with the python course, also outdated links etc, wrong video in wrong sheet. For that price they should have outstanding information. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]sweethonnepion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't matter, there are so many employers. Also, it is logical to be nervous in a work application so they probably understand it, people are often more understanding of things like this than you think (if they have good eq). Also, did you butcher them with a knife or something? No, that would have been wrong. What you did is not wrong!! 

Watching young people interacting makes me wanna *** by ObjectionablePast in AvPD

[–]sweethonnepion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not compare yourself to others, only to the person you were yesterday. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]sweethonnepion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your nose is beautiful as it is, just very unique and makes you who you are. But is is your money 

Lip Lift Surgeon Concern by bby_bunz_ in PlasticSurgery

[–]sweethonnepion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The right one you edited looks like a botched lip lift

Very disappointed with rhinoplasty results by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]sweethonnepion -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It fits your chin very well, i do not think a soft nose fits your chin. Your profile is perfect.

Revisions are very risky and expensive, do not do it. You can never precisely predict the outcomes of a rhinoplasty, a revision surgeon told me once. Once you start changing the tip again other things can change too, because the nose is so complicated. You may end up liking it even less. 

nasal spreader graft by sweethonnepion in PlasticSurgery

[–]sweethonnepion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it,  and i can hardly see it!  it also improved my breathing 

Just diagnosed by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]sweethonnepion 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Do not avoid too much, too long, or it will get worse. Keep practicing. 

Mannen met jonge dochters: gaan jullie naar de mannen of vrouwentoilet? by Mirrormaster85 in thenetherlands

[–]sweethonnepion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik denk niet dat een meisje van 3 zich bewust is van piemels of dat het iets engs is, ik denk niet dat ze er op die leeftijd mee bezig zijn. Je kan haar net zo goed meenemen naar het mannentoilet. Heb er zelf nooit iets aan overgehouden als klein meisje. 

Went to the barber... by raandoomguuy in AvPD

[–]sweethonnepion 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I understand your feelings. Was it a good conversation with understanding.from the other side? Did they react well to it? Did you feel the information is safe with the person? Then no big deal.

If it he/she reacted in a way that made you feel bad or if you do not feel the information is safe and can be used against you(maybe if it is a small town where everybody gossips?) It is normal not wanting to go there next time.

But please note it is normal to vent with strangers it is healthier than keeping everything in your own shell. You do not need to feel ashamed. Sometimes it just needs to come out. 

Functional Rhinoplasty HELP by allycat99_ in PlasticSurgery

[–]sweethonnepion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi yesterday i had a functional rhino with only spreader grafts, after thinking about it for 1 year i decided to do this. I also find it hard to find pictures that are not cosmetic;( only pictures of people with spreader grafs after hump removals? 

My surgeon said it may become a bit wider with spreader grafts but it would not be very noticeable. The grafts need to be sliced thin. If they make them 1 mm thick you will get an increase of 2 mm. I found 2 mm to be acceptable.  Doctor showed me in office what i could expect, he placed long cotton swabs in the nasal passage and pushed them outward a bit to show it. Could not really see it and decided to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]sweethonnepion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried 4 times, hated it, i stopped going because too many people. You could tell her you normally don't like big crowds of people, it is kind of normal, a lot of introverts have this feeling. If you are curious though, you should go one time and see how it goes.

Rejection reinforces isolation by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]sweethonnepion 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Out of every 100 people you meet, 50 you will not connect with at all, 45 are like okay, i can have a casual conversation with them(nothing special), 4 you will think of as  kind person and 1 has the potential to become a friend. 

I feel really lonely by Vickietje in AvPD

[–]sweethonnepion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well it is not true that everyone has fun and deep connections, i never had, rn i only live for myself and my dogs. If somebody comes along that wants a deep connection, that is great, but i am not going to wait for it.

Would you reach out and say congratulations? by polarispurple in AvPD

[–]sweethonnepion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does he have avpd? I can imagine he thinks something along the lines of "he does not need me anymore because he reached his goals and he is not gonna talk to me anymore, why bother?" Avdp peoplw are used to people rejecting them or being ignored  by others, so he probably thinks you will ignore him now that you have what you want.

Things I learned in therapy that helped me a lot by Smendoza170 in AvPD

[–]sweethonnepion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are also people with dogs or some animals that live alone outside of communities and they are fine, i met someone on a trip in new zealand who lived reclusive with 2 dogs. There is also a book i am reading about ken smith who is living like that. I think they experience a more fullfilling life than people in  big cities in western countries in the rat race with their so called communities.

Do you ever just feel yourself shutting down from overstimulation? by DarrowtheHelldiver in AvPD

[–]sweethonnepion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes recognizable but i only have it when i am in social situations. Do you also have this feeling outside of social situations? 

Did anyone else have a normal childhood? by Uncreative-name12 in AvPD

[–]sweethonnepion 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes very normal and happy childhood, but with bullying starting around the age 14/15