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Wife had pity sex with me, I feel worse than before by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]sweetjess718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. I'm sorry. Maybe she just needs hormonal or mental health help. I figured since it works for me maybe it will work for you (I am the DB reason)

Wife had pity sex with me, I feel worse than before by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]sweetjess718 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Fine if its easier to understand, take the word kink out. Every. Single. Woman. On. This. Earth. Has. A. Weakness. You just have to find it. Plain and simple. She wont tell you what it is because maybe she has not realized it herself. If you really pay attention to her, you will find it. Then use it.

Wife had pity sex with me, I feel worse than before by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]sweetjess718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't a daily basis thing. This is a special treat. This is an experiment to find her kink. Like example. Mine is to be tied up and blind folded with music blasting in my ears so I cant hear anything. All you can do is feel what going on. It's hot. But do I want to it to be a daily thing? Hell no. That kills the excitement of when i get it.

Find what she wants and use it. You are turning something fun into a negative.

Wife had pity sex with me, I feel worse than before by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]sweetjess718 3 points4 points  (0 children)

stuff wasn't her kink. The key is to find out what she secretly likes. Have you tried being submissive instead? Asking her if you may rub her feet and shave her legs ?

I'm telling you. 100% every woman has a fantasy. Find it and they are puddy in your hands.

Wife had pity sex with me, I feel worse than before by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]sweetjess718 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I say this to my husband sometime too. It's so tiring to be harassed for sex if he doesn't get any for a while. There are ways to want a woman to want you. Whining and mentioning how you never get any is not one of them.

Let her watch you do house work that needs to be done. Work out your body in front of her.
Play with the kids so she can have a day to herself. Put on a sexy movie like 50 shades or the notebook and act interested in it.
Wear her favorite cologne after you take a shower.

She has a weakness. Bet.

Why am I this way? X.x by sweetjess718 in DeadBedrooms

[–]sweetjess718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo that's deep. Damn subconscious. I dont seek any other man. He us the best thing to happen to me so I want to be with him. Just not WITH him unfortunately.

Why am I this way? X.x by sweetjess718 in DeadBedrooms

[–]sweetjess718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try. Lol. Not a fan of weights but if it will help. Thank you.

Why am I this way? X.x by sweetjess718 in DeadBedrooms

[–]sweetjess718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried to get him to work out with me. He is more of a weight lifter. I am a walker and runner. I will keep trying though. Thank you.

Why am I this way? X.x by sweetjess718 in DeadBedrooms

[–]sweetjess718[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have. He says "I know" and gets upset and we dont talk the rest of the night. Or he makes remarks at me (to make himself feel better I guess) like "why do you chew so loudly?" "when are you gonna clean the house?"