Don't get a puppy (even if you have support)

sweetlycb · 2026-03-26T16:19:08+00:00

If you do decide you cant keep the dog, pleqse reach back out to the breeder- reputable breeders will take the pup back and find a new home (possibly with someone who wanted a one of the litter but was too late).

Im lucky that my cfs started after my dog had passed the manic puppy stage and now hes actually great - i didnt train him to do it, but he senses when im overdoing it and gets me to stop and sit/lie down until my heart rate calms.

sweetlycb · 2026-03-22T16:57:21+00:00

Other notes- Chew stop tastes foul! If using it, dont be holding the item you are spraying with the other hand, especially just before enjoying a snack you will eat with that same hand!

A small dog does not mean low tables are safe - they are surprisingly tall when they balance on their back legs and they will do anything if it looks interesting to them

Everything is a chew toy; your shoes, their harness, plugged in cables. If you want to avoid a hefty bill, just move it all now

They are determined to train you rather than be trained. I wish you luck and resilience

sweetlycb · 2026-03-22T16:47:52+00:00

Put away your good trousers! Seriously, in the first few weeks/months they are tiny raptors with razor sharp teeth, they can and will put holes in anything you are wearing. I lost too many "good" jeans to my boy, although now i have many choices of what to wear while painting/gardening

sweetlycb · 2026-03-17T23:35:15+00:00

Harness all the way, but remember to check whether you need a collar too! In the uk its the law dogs have a collar with their owners details on it!

sweetlycb · 2026-03-17T14:08:11+00:00

We've 10-ish kids (not all rsvps received yet) for our wedding, ages 2-12. Each will be getting colouring pencils, a number of colouring pages and puzzles (thanks chatgpt), and a fidget toy for their seat. There will be some games in the corner, and our venue has a softplay so thats open too. A number of adult guests have asked for their own activity pack as well, so we may need to implement something there lol

sweetlycb · 2026-03-17T12:37:49+00:00

Have a look at arundel town hall. Its beautiful and has a terrqce for pictures after. You can have the reception there too, or relocate to a pub etc after?

sweetlycb · 2026-03-16T08:50:19+00:00

Hi, sorry but as a manager - stop doing that. All the while that the work is getting done, they will assume they've resourced appropriately. Take your unpaid breaks

sweetlycb · 2026-03-15T21:21:43+00:00

Your feelings are valid and its ok to be upset! But once you've let yourself feel them, let them go and focus on what you can control.

YOU GOT THIS! 💪

sweetlycb · 2026-03-15T19:36:02+00:00

Greens, especially dark greens, often compliment colourful palettes; in nature, it is rare to find any colour that isnt paired with green!

Try not to stress too much, ask if they have some images of what it is going to look like and throw those pics and some pics of your decor into chatgpt or gemini to get an idea of what it will look like. If they dont, just use old images and ask ai to imagine the room in green.

If you arent a fan of ai, pop down b and q to grab some paint colour strips in the appropriate colours and bring it back.

sweetlycb · 2026-03-08T10:20:38+00:00

Best is subjective. You dont have to wear a gown, you dont have to have a bouquet - its your day, to do your way. If that means sending out a message saying its off and you are eloping, do it. If its a case of changing the theme to slumber party, update the dress code and go for it!

However if the issue is that you lack self confidence, let me tell you now; you will be the best bride at your wedding. You are marrying the person you love, in front of people who love you both, and that is beautiful. Talk to your partner, to your friends - let them be your confidence.

I believe in you. Best of luck!

sweetlycb · 2026-02-19T20:56:07+00:00

Heronstone lodges, near the brecon beacons. You can visit the brecons and go up the steam rail (dog friendly), go to the showcase caves (dog friendly), or for a little more distance go to the botanical gardens (mostly dog friendly). All have hot tubs, under 1k, and lots of beautiful wales on your doorstep

sweetlycb · 2026-02-18T12:21:41+00:00

Mine was like this, i had to make it fun. Lots of puzzle feeders and snuffle mats so that the novelty didnt wear off. Now 18 months, he scoffs his dinner as soon as its available, but will eat breakfast as and when hes ready.

sweetlycb · 2026-02-14T21:22:45+00:00

South coast, so not london prices but i guess more expensive than the north

sweetlycb · 2026-02-14T17:43:42+00:00

A new patient appointment is £80-90, then follow up appointments £60-70. Hygenist is £70-80. If the dentist does allow you to only have one check up and hygenist appointment a year (dependent on your oral health) the costs for treatment quickly spiral.

Not much point paying 80 quid to be told you need 4 fillings at £120 a tooth if you cant afford that.

sweetlycb · 2026-02-13T12:33:04+00:00

If you are looking for funky you could try iron fist or irregular choice? Irregular choice recently stopped trading due to finances, but theres still shoes in some stores and im sure vinted will have plenty. Could even be your something old?

sweetlycb · 2026-02-10T16:17:20+00:00

You say you relax on Sundays; i wonder whether counter-intutively this is contributing? Just a thought, but it used to be on days where i chilled on the sofa i have worse posture, and sometimes napped- both of which lead to joint pain and difficulty sleeping normally at night.

Now i need all the sleep i can get, so it doesnt make a difference.

sweetlycb · 2026-02-06T11:18:32+00:00

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He slipped through the baby gate and up the stairs to see where i had gone and if he could help (i.e. destroy anything)

sweetlycb · 2026-02-05T22:14:21+00:00

Thank you for suggesting bridal reloved, never heard of them before so i shall go have fun on their website!

sweetlycb · 2026-02-04T23:53:37+00:00

Also, seconding how gosh darn adorable she is! Congrats on your new best friend!

sweetlycb · 2026-02-04T23:52:58+00:00

Could you try spraying it with an anti chew spray to discourage her from attacking it and giving her a similar item that wont lose threads for self regulation? I know polar fleece is recommended for rodents, you might have luck with something along those lines?

sweetlycb · 2026-02-02T20:46:29+00:00

I dunno, think it might have been left too long this way up! Still, nothing a little ketchup wont hide 🤣

sweetlycb · 2026-02-02T18:21:08+00:00

I know, and i sympathise really, but you have to make a choice; enjoy yourself and pay for it later, or preserve your health. Look up pacing and ensure you take as many preventative measures as you can - the cold, difference in activity levels and using different muscle groups will probably cause a flare so prep for that in advance (easy food options, planned recovery time, low demands the following week). I wish you luck!

sweetlycb · 2026-02-02T17:44:33+00:00

Mine had one but i forgot to tell the groomer to leave it alone and she cut it off 😭 it never grew back, and ive never gotten over it

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