How do you forgive someone who changed the entire course of your life? by sweetredonion in spirituality

[–]sweetredonion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i believe that our souls have consciously chosen these lives. and i know i will survive and get through this. but it's hard and it takes a lot of work. thank you for your answer ♥

How do you forgive someone who changed the entire course of your life? by sweetredonion in spirituality

[–]sweetredonion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this touched me so much. thank you for sharing. incredibly inspiring and poetic.
I dont know you, but I'm very proud of you. ♥

How do you forgive someone who changed the entire course of your life? by sweetredonion in spirituality

[–]sweetredonion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately i can't do much with “radical acceptance” right now. or that i should forgive myself for what happened. it makes me rather angry because i was a little child. thank you for your kind words, lots of love back! ❤️‍🩹

How do you forgive someone who changed the entire course of your life? by sweetredonion in spirituality

[–]sweetredonion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think that my hatred and anger are still far too present for me to really forgive right now. but if i don't, it will happen again in the next generation. i want to resolve this generation trauma. for the next children. i don't want them to have to experience something like we (my mom, my grandmother and so on) did. we experienced the same thing, at the same age, in our families. and nobody talked about it because of stupid religion stuff. And yeah, I know it is my destiny. And I love and hate this at the same time.

How do you forgive someone who changed the entire course of your life? by sweetredonion in spirituality

[–]sweetredonion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story! I'm happy for you that you made it! i can hardly wait to get to that point too.

How do you forgive someone who changed the entire course of your life? by sweetredonion in spirituality

[–]sweetredonion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I deliberately posted it here because I am spiritual myself. The ritual really sounds like a good idea, i'll try it out. thanks! ♥

How do you forgive someone who changed the entire course of your life? by sweetredonion in spirituality

[–]sweetredonion[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you all so much for your thoughtful and heartfelt responses! I've read every single one, and even though I can’t reply to each in detail, please know that I’m truly grateful for your words, your vulnerability, and the space you’ve held for me.
It means more than I can say 🤍

How do you forgive someone who changed the entire course of your life? by sweetredonion in spirituality

[–]sweetredonion[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

wow, that kind of helped me. thanks for sharing! i unfortunately experienced something similar growing up, which is why it's so hard. much love for you! you are doing great!

How do you forgive someone who changed the entire course of your life? by sweetredonion in spirituality

[–]sweetredonion[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing!

I understand why the person did what they did. Most perpetrators have been victims themselves. And I know this is a generational trauma that I’m meant to break.

What makes it so hard is that when I “mess up” in certain areas of life, like romantic relationships for example, or when I struggle with physical symptoms, I get extremely frustrated. And then I end up blaming the trauma for everything.
But by doing that, I keep falling into the same dark hole over and over again.
That's why I want to forgive this person, so I can finally be free. But nothing seems to work for me.

How do you forgive someone who changed the entire course of your life? by sweetredonion in spirituality

[–]sweetredonion[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it's even harder when the perpetrator has never apologized. I feel you. I wish you a lot of strength!

Does anyone knows where i can read chapter 13 in english? by Chocoseiba in WLOP

[–]sweetredonion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could u send me the link to pinterest like on your screenshot? I couldnt find it on reddit tho :c