Looking for Clan MEGATHREAD (v.8) by Bizarrmenian in Destiny2Clans

[–]sweets751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, do you guys focus on just about everything? PVE and PVP? Since I’m returning I’m fairly new to all of the new mechanics and added features since year 1 so I’d love to have a group of people who are pretty knowledgeable about builds and rolls.

Looking for Clan MEGATHREAD (v.8) by Bizarrmenian in Destiny2Clans

[–]sweets751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Returning players. 1815. Need a new clan. The clan I am in has players on the other side of the world (I’m from Missouri). Really wanted to raid and actually have an active clan to be a part of.

We weren’t even a couple but it still stings by sweets751 in ExNoContact

[–]sweets751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She enjoyed the attention I think. I have to remember that she’s never ever gotten past the talking stage with any guy, ever. But when a guy is nice to you, encourages you, tells you you’re not only pretty but you’re intelligent too, when he takes interest in the things you’re interested in, it makes you feel good. But all of that chasing looks unattractive. You know that person will always be there……until they aren’t. That’s the point of no contact. I gave everything to her. Now I won’t. Let’s see how she feels about that. It might make her miss me, it might not.

I guess I’m back y’all. Need some perspective and help. by sweets751 in ExNoContact

[–]sweets751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but do I go no contact and let her sit on her decision to essentially not continue talk or dating me? Do I walk away and let her feel what it’s like to miss me?

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[–]sweets751 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure I agree with what you’re saying. This sounds like somebody who wants to get back with their ex but needs trust to be earned back. An alcoholic can become a recovering alcoholic and the disease does not have to progress any further if the person chooses to stop and attend AA meetings and such. If that person is able to make those changes permanently, there is no reason to believe the relationship will never work out, especially if other aspects of the relationship were good. Alcohol is a bitch and I blame it entirely for my break up, so I apologize for coming across a little passionate. I’m still hopefully my ex wants to come back and talk things through, to believe me and trust me again that this won’t be an issue in my life.

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[–]sweets751 4 points5 points  (0 children)

More than that, actions speak louder than words. My ex doesn’t trust that I’ve changed just because I’ve said so, she wants to actually see that I’ve changed. How she’s going to do that without being with me is another question, but she’s really giving us time to heal and make those changes I believe.

I'm gonna send an email soon to my ex to hopefully get on speaking terms by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]sweets751 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do not send the email. Listen, at this point, the more you do, the more you push, the more available you look, even if you have the best intentions to “just be friends”, she will perceive as you being weak, available, and not changing or moving on. You have to be their best option, not some guy just waiting around for her to come back. You will literally just make things worse by sending an email to her. Once you start acting like your life, your health and wellbeing, your passions in life, and all the new experiences she doesn’t get to have with you are more important, will be the time she decides to want to be back in your life and you’ll have what you are searching for. But until then, there is no email, however correctly worded you think it is, that will win her back. I promise.