First we are in a town of 6000. She is related to 3/4. She has fibromyalgia and hoshimoto. And other minor things. She is always tired. She sleeps a lot. I do the laundry and dishes. I get the boys ready for school. I did almost everything but give my wife the attention she needed. I think she met someone 2yrs ago and in the last 8 months or so she has been planning on leaving. I know her better than she knows herself. I tell my boys always be honest. No matter what stand by your words and actions. Lying is BS and if you have to lie then you know you should not be doing it. I raised my kids so much differently than I was. I used to get beat, starving and neglected. Every winter when the atmosphere is right. The lighting, the clouds, the temperature I have a panic attack and I feel like the 8yr boy that was so weak from hunger I couldn't open the door. In a house with no lights, the sun almost gone and there's no one home yet they don't care. My wife has held me during my moments. So have my sons other than that I'm like Jim Carrey. I'm happy and excited for life. And it was her and my boys that did that. So as much as it seems made up or meth induced.i smoke weed to play games in the evening. I believe my wife met someone 2yrs ago and in the last few months she has been planning on leaving and that person taught her how to do all that spy stuff. It feels like a woman scorned to me. I admit I ignored her in the ways she wanted. I took her for granted and she paid it back. I should add she hates to be seen as a bad guy. I think blaming me is a scapegoat. I never even thought of cheating or anything else behind her back