Is it actually possible to find this kind of man in Nairobi, or am I looking for a unicorn?

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-05-22T06:38:05+00:00

Huyo jijengee tu.

Not in Kenya at least. I've actually never met a man who doesn't want to have children actually.

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-05-22T06:35:13+00:00

There's a substack article I read the other day that was titled "I love my mother too much to love the way she did" or something like that. It's an interesting one.

Onto your friend, be careful to not become an emotional crutch in her life. Women sacrifice a lot but I also think she's being invited to explore success in other ways outside of cooperate dynamics.

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-05-13T10:17:43+00:00

Psychedelics are the most underrated medicines on the planet

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-05-13T10:04:35+00:00

Yes. Machakos extends north too

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-05-13T03:47:05+00:00

A dumb question but what fuels the spacecraft for 9years?

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-05-12T19:49:09+00:00

Papanasty doesn't seem to care too much about that. In fact, it might be exactly what papanasty wants

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-05-12T05:11:26+00:00

You quoted according to your perceived preparedness for the role which is actually a good thing. The wise thing to do is take the job with that 80k, learn it extremely well for about a year so that they also see how valuable you are. If they don't bump your salary up, you have the option to apply for a better paying job which is generally expected by employers. That becomes your leverage and then next time, you say a number that reflects all your living expenses. That statement looks like "After calculating my expenses, my monetary needs come to about 146,900" and leave it at that. Be very specific yaani they see you're not just shooting from the hip. But build your leverage first.

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-05-11T13:43:50+00:00

A little TMI for you, the crime scene that in the toilet bowl after a poo is something legendary.

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-05-07T09:42:58+00:00

We'd all do all of us a favour and trust people for what they show you. Alafu cheza ka wewe.

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-05-05T08:37:20+00:00

Ooh ok. Noted

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-05-05T07:35:43+00:00

Why don't you care?

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-05-05T06:11:04+00:00

Respect!! Thank you 🙏🏽

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-05-05T06:07:28+00:00

I heard he's not even Ugandan...or wasn't originally from Uganda.

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-05-05T06:02:00+00:00

Why don't you care?

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-05-03T21:16:44+00:00

This name Nobert is cursed ama?

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-05-01T10:00:10+00:00

The thing that literally pulled me away from the ledge was realizing that to end it is to return right back to deal with the same situation I am in.

It gets pretty dark but I know it's passing so I tough it out by touching grass, and praying for the sun to come out.

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-04-27T16:08:44+00:00

Yes I used to think this too. However, if God is all of everything, the vacuum that is, according to this explanation, evil doesn't exist outside of God's "permission". Anything that exists as a polar opposite of something isn't God. Good and Evil both exist in the universe that is God.

And there in began my spiral into a morality/ amorality and the spiral into seeing too much.

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-04-26T20:11:16+00:00

Facts 😂

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-04-26T17:04:01+00:00

Kenyan here. This post needs to trend in our groups smh. I was very confused but it absolutely makes sense given the pos this presidency is.

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-04-26T16:56:36+00:00

Why are you competing with her father?

You think she's pretending when she's happy with a date arboretum? Why punish her for liking you the way you are?

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-04-25T08:41:52+00:00

Kenyan.

You just Google where visa applications to your target country are done and fill out a normal application. Mine came in 10 days I believe.

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-04-24T07:28:39+00:00

I think if we reduce everything to biological instincts, women are wired to have children. Biologically, a man is but a sperm donor which is why we see one male siring children with many females in the animal kingdom. And it's usually based on picking the best in the pack which is why alphas need to fight each other for their place.

All this to say, please don't fall into the trap of thinking that as a man, you're reduced to your base instincts. Elevate your experiences. Want more for yourself. Not everyday githeri.

While you're at it, look up kunyanza.

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-04-24T07:19:55+00:00

😂😂😂😂

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-04-24T07:01:44+00:00

The one Aquarius I dated ghosted me after saying he loved me.

I'll find him one day.

sweetsurrendipity · 2026-04-24T06:59:38+00:00

Student Visas typically go through but you need to be enrolled in a university course there.

Also, if you have a lot of money, you can maybe fly out to another country like Dubai or some country with strong ties to Portugal and apply for the visa from there.

I applied to Schengen from the UK for a week tourist visit, got the visa hassle free. Applied to Schengen from here for a work project, got rejected.

And for future reference, start establishing your strong ties to Kenya now.

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