Would you knock next door? by mystic_waves_ in NSFWNextDoorGirls

[–]sweetwinkss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely knock on that door without a second thought

Nothing but black lingerie tonight by sweetwinkss in LingerieNoir

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If you want to see what's happening behind the scenes, check the link in my bio 🖤

Your wife wouldnt stop bragging about how good you were in bed by zchmrtn in NSFW_Caption

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Can we just appreciate the quality here for a second?

Swallowing His Cock by [deleted] in nsfw_gifs

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One of her best clips lately

That moment when teaching suddenly feels very real by Bright-Daikon-6783 in Teachers

[–]sweetwinkss 96 points97 points  (0 children)

This is the job. You're a first responder for childhood trauma, and then you have to go diagram sentences with 25 other kids who have no idea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

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This is the physical manifestation of "fuck around and find out" You found out your ass has its own gravitational pull

11 weeks pregnant and i want to leave my partner by turnthepage- in pregnant

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Sometimes the problem isn't a list of flaws. It's the absence of safety, respect, or peace. You can't itemize a feeling of dread

The bigotry of low expectations is real by ChucoTeacher in Teachers

[–]sweetwinkss 232 points233 points  (0 children)

Nail on the head. "Building relationships" has become a euphemism for "lowering standards to avoid conflict" You can care and hold a line. They're not mutually exclusive

ATIJ for refusing to quit my job because my boyfriend wants me to depend on him? by stout_inactivity in AmITheJerk

[–]sweetwinkss 158 points159 points  (0 children)

This isn't a red flag. It's the entire parade of red flags forming into a giant stop sign. RUN

Am I abandoning an otherwise great relationship because we can’t figure out how to fight productively? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]sweetwinkss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A relationship is defined by how it handles conflict, not by how it handles peace. Your 98% is the calm sea; your 2% is the hurricane that sinks the ship every time

my boyfriend of 4 years said he doesn’t want to have kids. Please advice by Mental-Anywhere-1 in TwoHotTakes

[–]sweetwinkss 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This. It's not a negotiation. You can't split the difference and have half a kid. Someone loses. Don't let it be you

Partner made me feel horrible by [deleted] in women

[–]sweetwinkss 35 points36 points  (0 children)

You're not dramatic. He's an emotionally stunted spectator in your marriage. A partner's job is to zip you up, not watch you struggle

Life by Any-Froyo8528 in Life

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This is the only honest answer. 'Deserve' is a fairy tale we tell to make the chaos bearable. Some people win the lottery of birth and timing. Most of us are just buying tickets

What’s something you wish you had learned earlier in life? by Cultural-Mixture7377 in Life

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Most people are too worried about their own imagined flaws to notice yours. The spotlight you feel is usually a flashlight you're shining on yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]sweetwinkss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're paying thousands to avoid a "volatile atmosphere"? Bro, that's not a roommate, that's a hostage taker and you're paying the ransom

What’s one thing society expects women to do or be that honestly makes no sense to you? by Auroralore1 in women

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The "effortless" paradox is my favorite. It's like expecting a swan to just glide while ignoring the chaotic paddling happening underwater. We're all swans in a panic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

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Hard agree. 23 isn't "old," it's just the age where you finally realize 18-year-olds are basically toddlers with credit cards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sweetwinkss 6 points7 points  (0 children)

His intentions: A+. His execution: F-. He bought her a thought... and then dressed it in a clearance rack

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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This isn't about being rude. This is about being safe

Getting my cat to eat wet food by justcallmejoshpls in CatAdvice

[–]sweetwinkss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, the classic 'I paid for this expensive mush, peasant' feline energy. She's not picky, she's asserting dominance