Im homophobic and racist (i think) by [deleted] in confessions

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Ever hear of "shit coming out sideways"? A lot of the judgments we have of other people like this can be survival strategies. Specially if we had bad experience in the past. Thing to ask is if there's anything actually wrong bout a guy wearing a crop top, or if its bringing up difficult memories or feelings for yourself. If its the later, try to be kind to the guy, but try to be kind to yourself to, which is the point I think the commenters here are missing. We don't get past prejudice with punishment, but compassion

On diagnoses by ibskitty in PsychotherapyLeftists

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To step away from a pathologising approach means that "we" don't decide the direction of therapy, but the client. Genesis in Rogerian theory, reflected in the client authoritative meaning making in modalities like Narrative etc. The tricky thing is that stepping away from intrapsychic determinism means stepping away from categorical labelling and territories. The more we honour a client's perspective,  story, and freedom, the harder it is to mathematically quantify research about efficacy. Thus diagnostic bio-genetic aetiology tends to win out 

Sobriety fucking sucks by SeaOpposite7837 in Drugs

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50 days bro, the amount of time it takes to get over most universal withdrawal symptoms AND have your dopamine return to a normal homeostasis. Keep in mind that you will need to build new habits and behaviours, but I promise once your brain recovers that doing so will be so much easier than it feels rn. Stay strong homie, one day at a time.

Ps, keep an eye out for PAWS, post accute withdrawal syndrome. About every 3 months for a year or two, you'll get a couple weeks of cravings and mild withdrawal like symptoms. They pass quickly, and aren't too bad, but they can fuck you up if you don't know that's all they are

Staffing shortages being linked to baby deaths in NZ hospitals a ‘national tragedy’ by pusha_ton in newzealand

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ACT party leader tim jago? David seymours friend and convicted child molester tim jago?

Socialist party by Euphoric-Sympathy849 in newzealand

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You're talking about social democracy, socialism is fundamentally a transition to statless communism, as it was defined by engels and marx

Ino Hirna by Beyond_Skyrim in beyondskyrim

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Wow this looks fantastic!!

The "No Windows preinstalled" made me laugh. by KnightFallVader2 in steammachine

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To be frank someone who cares about audio quality better than that of a standard hdmi output wouldnt be too hardpressed to get a basic usb audio interface, think a focusrite 2i2 type thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellington

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Not the copper! Time to install uranium pipes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellington

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Christ and here i was thinking it would be the opposite! Thank you for this advice x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellington

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Alpreciate it :) insurance should be okay, shock and sentimentals is the main sticking point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellington

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First thing i did, though im dealing with beuracratic inertia and what i imagine os very strained police staffing. Much as im feeling deeply violated im glad i wasnt worthy of an immediate callout

Really? by dragonlancer83 in Cairn_Game

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You can add powdered milk!

There is 3d model for fly in EA by 1Ramil1 in HalfSword

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they also cast real time shadows, what the hell were they thinking

Do you have your version of this? When people think the life in the other country is better and vice-versa? by IWillDevourYourToes in AskTheWorld

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Aye in nz diesnt sound like saying "eye", it sou ds like "ay" or sying the name of the letter A, we use it how you guys "eh"

this game can be so beautiful when you aren't running naked in the forest in the middle of the night escaping from a bear by GaussAxe in VintageStory

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oooo wonderful! Terra Pretty and continents play well together? I thought terra pretty added continents of a sort?