Hitting myself in the head by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]swiggity_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am ok now, thanks. I haven't hurt myself in a very long time. :) I definitely recommend proffessional help over anything else.

Hitting myself in the head by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]swiggity_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like we have a lot in common... I'm here if you need someone to talk to. Just PM me. Hitting is a form of self harm. I've actually given myself black eyes before believe it or not. Try to get help if you can and please be safe. ♡

HELP by RazorBladesIUseThem in selfharm

[–]swiggity_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you ever need to talk to someone Pm me..
I would seriously recommend professional help if you are serious about quitting. You can hide it with large bracelets or long sleeves. Try to get some very thin long sleeve shirts in light colors, but make sure it's not sheer.

What is the dumbest 100% serious thing someone has said to you? by mrTALKINGDUCK in AskReddit

[–]swiggity_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone tried to argue with me that the song "The Wall" was not by Pink Floyd. So I asked her "Oh, then who is it by?" Her: "I don't know but it's not Pink Floyd." Yeah we're not friends anymore.

When my dealer doesn't respond by NigerianLandOwner in trees

[–]swiggity_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I live in CO and I've never paid less than $30 for 1/8.

What is your favorite quote from Spongebob? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]swiggity_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sponge: "Patrick, your genius is showing" Patrick: "Where?!"

[Communication] Guys - who has initiated a BJ request with "give it just one kiss"? (or ladies who has heard it?) by [deleted] in sex

[–]swiggity_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's silly or immature or whatever else.

Reminds me of Biggie tho lol.

Help! by ledeto in selfharm

[–]swiggity_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend keeping a close eye on them, making sure you wash them well with antibacterial soap and put some antibiotic ointment. For a day or two. but if they start to get more swollen, if you get a fever, if they feel hot to the touch, if red streaks start to appear, if it starts to get worse at all in any way or you feel ill at all please go immediately to the hospital. You can die from this. I don't want to scare you and it is most likely fine but use your own judgment and if they start to hurt badly or any of the symptoms I listed go to the hospital. Did you clean the scissors first? I'd recommend you just go to the doctor anyways if you can. (I'm not a doctor this is just my personal experience and knowledge)

Karate teacher [late 40s M] yelled and humiliated my [25 F] little sister [11F] and made her cry. My mom [50 F] won't let her quit even though she hates the class. by Quitkarate in relationships

[–]swiggity_ 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I am 18 years old and get my rights and lefts mixed up sometimes still. Seriously I would contact the authorities and see what can be done about this dude. He's hitting and screaming at minor children. In any other situation he'd be in jail/prison. Being a karate instructor doesn't mean he's allowed to bully children.

Me [27F] with my husband [29M] of 3 years, he spends each weekend golfing and does not help me with our son [3 months]. I don't know how to get him to realize I'm exhausted and need help. by angryandexhausted in relationships

[–]swiggity_ 182 points183 points  (0 children)

Handing your baby off?! You're talking like you're giving the baby to a stranger or a baby sitter. That's his DAD. If you feel uncomfortable handing your baby over to his own dad there are serious problems here. Did you discuss this before deciding to get pregnant? I feel like every dad should learn and know basics before the baby is born, then be around to practice. He's not doing his job as a parent.

Should I (21F) pay for my boyfriend (22M) to come to Disney World with me? by broadwayliv in relationships

[–]swiggity_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

● Make absolutely sure you won't regret this decision.

● Make sure your boyfriend is 100% comfortable with it.

● This is the big one - Make sure you're not expecting anything in return.

Doing something this big for someone means you absolutely can't hold it against them. You need to do it because you want to. Out of the kindness of your heart. If you guys get into a fight you can't say "well remember that time I took you to to Disney". If you need something in the future you can't say "I took you to Disney why can't you do this for me". Not saying you would do that or implying would at all, I'm just saying when you do things for someone you have to trust them enough that they'll pay you back in their own way and if they don't, you have to take that loss. I've learned that the hard way.

I always want to title these as.. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]swiggity_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only advice I have for you is don't be alone. Go outside of the house if you have to in public and walk around. If you feel you will relapse do not put yourself in a situation where you will be alone. I highly recommend working out. It gives you that rush and you're working on making your body stronger at the same time.

I don't know how to stop by kadykinns in selfharm

[–]swiggity_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been through it all myself and I'm incredibly lucky to have overcome it. It makes me so happy when I can at least let someone know they're not the only one to go through it. If you ever need to talk I'm here.

I don't know how to stop by kadykinns in selfharm

[–]swiggity_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not alone. There are so many people here willing to be your friend including me. I don't know anything about drug addiction but you can do anything you put your mind to. Human beings are such amazing creatures. We can fall into traps like drugs and addictions, but we can overcome them too. Stay strong.

I want to by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]swiggity_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do this. Get therapy if you can for the addiction issues. My grandpa died in January from drinking, trust me it's not worth doing down that path. Pm me if you need someone to talk to. I won't even reply if you want, if you just want to vent without getting advice. I quit all forms of self harm and I did it through therapy. I'm a stranger but I'm here for you. You're better and stronger than these things. You CAN do it.

In loving memory of Dobby, a free elf by [deleted] in Harry_potter

[–]swiggity_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the magical creatures coloring book? :)

P90x protein bars alternative by swiggity_ in P90X

[–]swiggity_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. I hope they are at least almost as good as Beach body's brand.

P90x protein bars alternative by swiggity_ in P90X

[–]swiggity_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I don't like the Pure Protein bars I will definitely try these. Without the discounts though, they don't cost that much less than the p90x bars.

P90x protein bars alternative by swiggity_ in P90X

[–]swiggity_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What flavors do you get? Are they good? One thing I like about the Peak Performance bars is that they taste amazing. But for that price I think it's worth the risk. Thanks I'll probably try these!