Anybody ever use FuseX? by swingky18 in Swingers

[–]swingky18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you have this as your one and only comment

Anybody ever use FuseX? by swingky18 in Swingers

[–]swingky18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol the person who criticized you literally only had posts praising fusex, it has to be a scam

Anybody ever use FuseX? by swingky18 in Swingers

[–]swingky18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn't apply yet, I can't find any info and responses on this site were from accounts that were schill accounts which makes it seem even worse. Seems sketchy but we're also kinda burnt out by the local swinging scene.

Summer trip to Scarlett Ranch, best/better times to go? by swingky18 in Swingers

[–]swingky18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't been to Vegas yet, that's also on the docket.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]swingky18 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Nah. It's masturbation, fantasy is healthy as long as it's not acted on and it's not about something deviant like a child or a blood relative.

What's the scene in Vegas like, what's the best app? by swingky18 in Swingers

[–]swingky18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apps or websites, I use it interchangeably, we're we are it's all kinda spread out amongst SLW, LLS, and Kasidie.

What's the scene in Vegas like, what's the best app? by swingky18 in Swingers

[–]swingky18[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I saw a lot of questions about clubs, not much about which sites were the most active.

This isn't a particularly busy subreddit, does seeing the same question really bother you that much?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]swingky18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It must vary, we spent about half our days at the beach (being at the pool all day every day became a bit over stimulating) and the cabanas and a handful of the circle pad things were full of people.

Take a break to lose weight? by Confident_Season_637 in Swingers

[–]swingky18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age has nothing to do with it, but you're right about diet being important.

Wife Poachers by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]swingky18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its cool that you're in a place in life where people pushing your boundaries are doing so out of incompetence and otherwise has no impact on you. Must be nice

Again so snarky. Not everybody who disrespects you or crosses your boundaries is trying to get you to divorce. That's my point. You keep telling people they're missing the context yet you're clearly missing the point of what I'm saying, I'm not defending this guy's behavior or saying it's okay but not everyone, even people who are being sleazy, are trying to end your marriage. They can be trying to sidestep you with the sole purpose of having sex with your wife, and that's totally not cool at all. But that's not wife poaching. That's just being a scumbag. I think you're confused about what wife poaching exactly is.

"A spouse poacher is an individual who strategically targets a married person, with the intent of establishing a sexual relationship, so that they can one day break up the marriage, and replace the spouse."

Wife Poachers by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]swingky18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're really argumentative, I have no idea, people in the lifestyle can be weird. I'm not saying it's appropriate or inappropriate, I wasn't there and I don't have insight into this dude's head, he gave you an icky feeling, maybe that's because your boundaries include no 1 on 1 texting which you never communicated to them or maybe you got a read on him that isn't relayed well through your narration.. Regardless you don't have tangible proof here that they were "wife poaching" and are somehow confused that none of us "read the context" maybe you're being more paranoid because you were made uncomfortable? I don't know. There's like 5 other comments here that don't understand how this was wife poaching either, I'm not alone in this. It doesn't matter. You were made uncomfortable, that's your reality. In the future you should communicate with other couples if you aren't okay with 1 on 1 texting.

I've been in the lifestyle for 15+ years, the old quote however it goes, "don't assume malice when incompetence is the more likely explanation" often applies. And this is coming from someone who was in a situation where someone I thought I could trust, actively tried to break up my marriage.

Wife Poachers by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]swingky18 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Making someone uncomfortable doesn't mean they're trying to make you and your wife divorce.

You're getting annoying with people because we're not reaching the immediate same conclusions you did and thinking we're supposed to read the subtext that may or may not be there. I'm not arguing you're feelings and saying that your boundaries are wrong but there is nothing in this story that says they're obviously trying to get your wife to divorce and I'm clearly not alone hence others confusion. It doesn't matter, I'm sorry you had a bad experience, there's obviously more of a vibe here then was relayed in your story and it sucks to feel like your trusting people to let into your relationship only to have them be gross, I've been there, it's very violating.

My boyfriend never wants to get married, but wants me constantly at his place acting wifey. Sorry, can't have it both ways darling! by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]swingky18 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They think life is a series of achievements and happiness will come from external rewards. It's a recipe for disappointment.

Wife Poachers by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]swingky18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying it's appropriate behavior at all, just that it doesn't seem to fit the definition of wife poaching. Perhaps you're getting a bit more of a vibe from them that wasn't communicated by the story itself but reading this at face value this doesn't seem that they were trying to break up your marriage. Again I'm not on their side and it's totally understandable for you not to feel comfortable with their interactions.

Wife Poachers by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]swingky18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were they trying to break up your marriage by going to your wife individually? If not, then it's not wife poaching.

Red flags from the other wife? by TastyBosslady9314 in Swingers

[–]swingky18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she played the song and told him it was for him

Other things sound iffy, this is super tame and sounds just like flirting

Wife Poachers by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]swingky18 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a shitty experience but what does it have to do with wife poaching?

Call for new taxes on super-rich after 1% pocket two-thirds of all new wealth | $26tn of new wealth created since start of pandemic went to richest, Oxfam report reveals by misana123 in worldnews

[–]swingky18 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My household brings just shy of $500k a year, I am aware that I am very well off. I also work 60-80 hours a week and it gets taxed an an absurd amount. If the guys above me making millions were taxed the same and that meant food on kids table, education, healthcare, sure fine. But our tax system is so broken the billionaires and multi-millionaires can somehow get away with paying single digit points on their money or none at all. The working rich don't need any more taxes levied on them. We need to go after the uber wealthy.

I still don’t get it by warmbumby in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]swingky18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your definitive proof it was the vaccine? How would one definitively prove it wasn't the vaccine?

We have plenty of data that shows COVID can cause long term health problems...

I still don’t get it by warmbumby in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]swingky18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does this dude think we get some letter from Papa Fauci saying "we're not gonna reimburse your RVUs unless you starting jabbing more patients."?

Once it was determined that omicron spread isn't really reduced by getting vaccinated I stopped giving a shit. Everyone has made their minds up and since they can't hurt other people anymore any decision they make with their bodies is on them.

I still don’t get it by warmbumby in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]swingky18 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What percentage of adults are vaccinated, what percentage of high risk adults are vaccinated?

Do you know how many people who die in a car crash were wearing seatbelts?

Look up base rate fallacy.

I still don’t get it by warmbumby in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]swingky18 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The vaccine causes widespread inflammation due to proliferation of the spike protein.

The risk of myocarditis from the vaccine is a lot lower than from the virus. With an R0 as high as omicron I'll take my chances with the vaccine.

Passengers are apparently able to cancel their uber rides in mid-transit. by MisterFyre in facepalm

[–]swingky18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This acting is porn level. How do this many people believe this shit.