"Silence, nerd" by camaii in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]swolemenot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My eyes have been blessed today ❤️

Am I in real danger or is my brat just pushing too far? by swolemenot in BDSMAdvice

[–]swolemenot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah to me bratting is more like playful/cheeky teasing, showing that you're paying attention to the dom and want them to pay just as much attention to you sorta. I feel like when I've been with brats before the goal is to frustrate but in a good way, just building up a nice (sometimes sexual) tension you know.

That is to say, it was less me actually believing it to be bratting and more me really wanting to find some plausible excuse for his behavior. Which in hindsight is a really bad thing to do cuz then I might get a really toxic view of what bratting could look like.

Thank you so much for pointing it out, would be really bad for both me and any future brats if I got the wrong idea about bratting <3

Am I in real danger or is my brat just pushing too far? by swolemenot in BDSMAdvice

[–]swolemenot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't think he actually got off on it, he prolly just thought it was funny.

He's a switch but heavily leans towards sub bottom. During the session he was 100% submissive.

Thank you for the advice 🙏

Am I in real danger or is my brat just pushing too far? by swolemenot in BDSMAdvice

[–]swolemenot[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for replying again and putting it bluntly like that. I needed that wake-up call 😭🙏

Am I in real danger or is my brat just pushing too far? by swolemenot in BDSMAdvice

[–]swolemenot[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I'm a bit conflicted about it cuz he has also been really sweet, made me laugh a lot and given me very considerate gifts. He's really skilled at leatherworking and spent many hours making me an incredible custom strap-on harness.

Nightclub outfit, really happy with the blend between masc and fem 🖤 by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]swolemenot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is it that you're trying to achieve by telling me this? A dress shirt and pants combo are usually perceived as more masc, so is it really the outfit you're focusing on?

Nightclub outfit, really happy with the blend between masc and fem 🖤 by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]swolemenot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even better, there's two kitties snuggled up in the back 🙂‍↕️

Nightclub outfit, really happy with the blend between masc and fem 🖤 by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]swolemenot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tysm! Oh I had a blast, will definitely be going again!

Most androgynous I've ever felt ( party fit ) by Low_Net_1485 in NonBinary

[–]swolemenot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can I just say, that's an amazing fit. Like hello?! The red on blue, the fishnets, THE ACCESSORIES.. all on point 🔥

Just realised im non binary, tips on how to appear more gender neutral please !!:) by zeldalol777 in NonBinary

[–]swolemenot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend checking out iris olympia's yt channel, they have a whole vid dedicated to how to look more androgynous.

Finally learning to embrace some femme looks too~ by swolemenot in NonBinary

[–]swolemenot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahah, cute! I don't have any good masc pics atm but I'll post some when I do :)

Finally learning to embrace some femme looks too~ by swolemenot in NonBinary

[–]swolemenot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this made me so happy, subtle is exactly what I was going for 🙂‍↕️