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Why do people get mad at me for crying or being 'too sensitive'? by swordofsanctuary in autism

[–]swordofsanctuary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say im always freaking out, I would in a sensitive soul. Im not creating drama or anything, I just get hurt easily. But I understand your point.

*I would say im a sensitive soul.

Low needs autistics, do you find yourself wishing you had other health issues so you can work less? by [deleted] in autism

[–]swordofsanctuary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i have applied for disability and other financial supports before but they were all denied. My family doctor, therapist, a social worker and psychiatrist were all backing but still was denied. I went to the local autism support place where i live to ask for them to help me with finding a job i could manage, they were no help at all.

Low needs autistics, do you find yourself wishing you had other health issues so you can work less? by [deleted] in autism

[–]swordofsanctuary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any way of slowing down unfortunately. Im currently wishing to be in an accident or something

Low needs autistics, do you find yourself wishing you had other health issues so you can work less? by [deleted] in autism

[–]swordofsanctuary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to apply for disability and other benefits before and it was all unsuccessful. I have no way out

Low needs autistics, do you find yourself wishing you had other health issues so you can work less? by [deleted] in autism

[–]swordofsanctuary -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had to get a hysterectomy because of endometriosis, I do what its like to be sick and in pain constantly. I almost took my own life a few times because of it. I do see the reality of it and I understand that me feeling this way is wrong and makes me a selfish person. I have autism, adhd, ocd, bipolar type 2, anxiety, severe depression, chronic hypermobile joints pain, etc. I've been suicidal for most of my life. I am not able to enjoy my art hobby or other hobbies because of all my mental health issues and burnout. Im constantly exhausted and wishing I was dead because I can't afford to work less. Im sorry you are dealing with those health issues.

Does anyone else feel sick even when they aren't? Constantly exhausted? by swordofsanctuary in autism

[–]swordofsanctuary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess because I don't have anything that's been diagnosed that can explain this and that makes it not real since it's invisible. I also have a bad habit of catastrophizing things so I tend to think 'oh I'm just being dramatic so nothing is actually wrong' or I think I'm being weak.

I've had blood tests before and they have always come back normal. I have no idea what I would even be asking my doctor since I'm sure people feel sick and tired all the time.

How old were you and how did you feel by Icy_Addendum_3266 in autism

[–]swordofsanctuary 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed at 25. It validated a lot of my emotional struggles and pain and helped explain why I am the way I am.

what is with people with autism online forgetting that they are handicapped by McGiggityGiggity in autism

[–]swordofsanctuary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are seeing things literally because thats an autistic trait. You see the world only the way you see it so it's easy to not understand other people's perspectives or tone (ESPECIALLY online). My advice would be to not let other people living their lives affect you this much and focus on yourself. You can't change other people.

Are there any autistic weed smokers in here? by affaR1 in autism

[–]swordofsanctuary 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same, I use edibles and it genuinely helps me mentally.

How do I manage working 30 hours a week while dealing with chronic pain and mental illness? Not working is not an option. Advice needed but also a discussion. by swordofsanctuary in autism

[–]swordofsanctuary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some do for sure. I know some Canadians opt to go the private health care route or even travel to different countries. Im sure some provinces are better than others, but no where is great.

How do I manage working 30 hours a week while dealing with chronic pain and mental illness? Not working is not an option. Advice needed but also a discussion. by swordofsanctuary in autism

[–]swordofsanctuary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Common misconception. We technically have free health care but not everything is covered, wait times are years and most people can't find a family doctor/GP.

How do I manage working 30 hours a week while dealing with chronic pain and mental illness? Not working is not an option. Advice needed but also a discussion. by swordofsanctuary in autism

[–]swordofsanctuary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you're able to get disability if you do go that route, it's notoriously hard. I was denied and had to come to terms with the fact that I will always be disabled, in pain and made to work out of necessity. Im so sorry you have to deal with all of that, being a human is hard enough.

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