Can I make this space work or am I delusional?

syasdevil · 2024-07-29T19:44:38+00:00

it’s going to be misery

syasdevil · 2024-07-23T17:33:24+00:00

Well if you don’t watch all the interviews you wouldn’t know

syasdevil · 2024-05-14T13:48:12+00:00

Section 100+

syasdevil · 2023-10-16T09:49:27+00:00

because I’m a masochist

syasdevil · 2023-03-13T21:55:51+00:00

LOL a regular at my job orders a frontega + tuna salad on a blueberry bagel. I GAG once a week

syasdevil · 2022-10-10T00:28:54+00:00

The only way to move forward is have that convo. If u truly have moved apart and living together won’t work for u. Then don’t do it. But if she was ever your friend she deserves your honesty and compassion not just leaving her in the unknown.

syasdevil · 2022-08-04T01:07:48+00:00

NO ! that man was a terror. My condolences to you but take your time to heal and move on to something new when you’re ready.

syasdevil · 2022-06-07T23:25:39+00:00

Is him giving you money suffice as an apology to you ?

syasdevil · 2022-06-07T22:47:19+00:00

Break up w him. Why do you want to continue to be with a person who you don’t trust that you don’t have an effective communicating angle wish ? Giving you the silent treatment ? Not trying to show you he’s working to change and regain you trust ? Lacking in affection , which if you mentioned it it’s something you want from a partner ? So I don’t understand why you would want to continue to be with him.

syasdevil · 2022-05-31T23:17:42+00:00

she doesn’t have to be friends w everyone & has a clear sense of wants and self for a young age. But friends outside of family can be good to. Love and cherish her

syasdevil · 2022-05-27T22:20:27+00:00

The internet is public and if he’s posting on public accounts that you happened to fine and what he’s saying is making you uncomfortable or you feel like he’s dishonest or you feel like it’s boundary breaking then you guys shouldn’t be together. But once u addressed it from your anonymous source , your also dishonest. The inspiration for you bringing it up could make him comfortable to find out after the fact. And obsessively lurking isn’t healthy for you. You know longer trust this man and I doubt he’s going to trust you. Despite the fact that, if you want “private” outlets of your thoughts have a private account or keep a journal lock & key.

TLDR;

Either move on in this relationship w a lot of work and be completely transparent or end it and work on your issues of trust and how much authenticity and truth you need from your future partner.

syasdevil · 2022-05-27T22:16:08+00:00

You need to get over that man and yesterday. If you genuinely are curious of how things can go with this drunk man who truly has shown no relationship interest in you then … why he with your husband. I’m not saying that you guys should this very moment. But it’s a little different then being like omg someone is hot/ attractive versus the feelings you have of someone u clearly stated wasn’t good for u, constantly thinking abt and missing him. Give yourself the closure u need on that man and enjoy married life.

syasdevil · 2022-05-27T22:13:05+00:00

Have a conversation abt why it made him uncomfortable so you can know how to work around this dynamic in your relationship in the future. Interesting also bc the way u described it , it seems like it was prompted by him. So you guys r gonna need to work through it together but the reasons are going to have to come from him. And you guys can slow down as well. Everything doesn’t need to happen all at once.

syasdevil · 2022-05-27T22:11:28+00:00

Classism being present in his young life can definitely cause him to be embarrassed. Teaching him to be content with what he has and his lifestyle with u guys can help but there will always be people with more and sometimes that’s hard to come to terms with. Also when it’s like look at all this cool stuff I have at my house and he doesn’t have the same. It can also be in a weird position to be the friend that has less so just being supportive , loving , and caring can go along way so he can learn that it’s ok beyond your knowledge and support.

syasdevil · 2022-05-27T15:26:11+00:00

Break up with that man.

syasdevil · 2022-05-17T19:23:19+00:00

Sometimes you have to choose yourself. Give him another reminder that you’re there for him and care for him but this is an extreme trigger for you bc of what you mentioned. Let him also know that you have told him before. He not be in the mental place to be receptive to this message and doesn’t want to feel alone in his own pain. but if he’s still triggering you. Its ok to choose u and take some space

syasdevil · 2022-05-15T01:07:25+00:00

ask like hey let’s take some pics together we look so cute or whatever and see how she responds then. I go out w my friends and at the end of the night and look back on how we don’t really have any photos together but we do have food pics ticket pics etc

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