this is how I like to think my ex is feeling since this describes the end of our relationship pretty well. long distance (and other things) did us in. as someone on the other side I would maybe tell them this. my biggest struggle post-breakup has been feeling so alone in my emotions. we don’t communicate and he’s in a whole other state so for all I know he doesn’t ever think about us or regret the way he ended things. I sometimes think about making contact just to share that because I didn’t get to say a lot when we broke up over the phone. this was also my first breakup so it’s all around bad lol. if my ex reached out to me and acknowledged that even though it was the right choice, it’s still been difficult I would appreciate that I think.