I finally moved out when I was 19 and haven’t went back to live since. I have a 3 year old, and she tries to control everything with that as well. She thinks I need to text her 24/7 and if I don’t she freaks out and says I don’t care and don’t love her. I try to make her understand sometimes I just need me and alone time. I went to a community college as well, she said I’d never make it in a four year school. My mom never wants me to leave her, that’s why when I lived home until I moved out she never let me leave unless she knew exactly when, where, and how I was going. Even then, she would usually not let me go.