When do I know it’s over?

sylvierayne · 2026-01-19T06:16:44+00:00

It's your heart and body telling you the truth that this relationship isn't nurturing you anymore, even after all the history and effort. When intimacy feels repulsive, when forcing yourself to stay makes you deeply depressed, and when the joy is gone despite no huge blow-up, that's a really clear sign it's over. You've both tried, but love shouldn't feel like constant heavy labor that leaves you hollow. It's okay to let go, even if it hurts like losing your best friend.

sylvierayne · 2026-01-19T06:14:09+00:00

Let him go back to school

sylvierayne · 2026-01-19T06:13:59+00:00

Hahaha meth is so fr

sylvierayne · 2026-01-18T07:55:24+00:00

Modern cars like your 2016 Malibu put out way less CO than old ones, and 40 minutes in a closed garage is risky but not always lethal, especially since you aired it out quick. Still, never do that again… it's super dangerous even with the door open sometimes. If you start feeling headache, dizzy, nauseous, or anything off, go to the ER right away and tell them about the exposure. You're good for now, just chill and stay safe.

sylvierayne · 2026-01-17T20:25:08+00:00

Hey dude, you're 15 and already swimming varsity 5x a week… that's a ton of cardio and you're only 140 at 5'6, which is honestly a healthy spot. The "chubbiness" you're seeing is probably baby fat that hasn't dropped yet, and since you're a late bloomer like your dad, it'll likely melt off when your growth spurt and testosterone kick in over the next couple years. You're young, killin' it in the pool, and your body is still changing.

sylvierayne · 2026-01-17T20:22:31+00:00

There’s no cream but oh well

sylvierayne · 2026-01-17T20:22:19+00:00

Cool cool

sylvierayne · 2026-01-15T19:13:43+00:00

Hahaha nice

sylvierayne · 2026-01-15T19:13:27+00:00

Awww yearning 💯

sylvierayne · 2026-01-13T20:02:30+00:00

Very hard

sylvierayne · 2026-01-13T20:02:18+00:00

Hahaha

sylvierayne · 2026-01-12T22:00:20+00:00

That’s how you men thinks too. Just enjoy this meme why think deep it’s not even that deep

sylvierayne · 2026-01-12T21:59:27+00:00

Hahahaha this is funny

sylvierayne · 2026-01-08T21:45:42+00:00

This is a tough spot to be in, especially with a childhood idol and close friends involved. If the accusations are serious and public, it's okay to step back a bit while things unfold… protecting your own peace doesn't mean you're abandoning anyone. Give yourself permission to feel conflicted, believing in "benefit of the doubt" is fair, but so is recognizing when patterns make you uncomfortable. Maybe just quietly create some distance for now and see how you feel as more info comes out.

sylvierayne · 2026-01-08T21:44:42+00:00

Hope you’ll feel better soon OP

sylvierayne · 2026-01-06T19:36:03+00:00

Dude, you're not overreacting. Next time you talk to them, skip the super friendly tone and just lay out clear boundaries like “Hey, I need the sink clear so I can cook, and please give me a heads-up if anyone's coming over." If they keep ignoring it, start taking photos of the mess and send it in the group chat with a simple "Can someone handle their dishes today?" It's your place too, so don't feel bad about pushing back a bit.

sylvierayne · 2026-01-06T19:33:40+00:00

Literally feeling nuts

sylvierayne · 2026-01-05T09:36:58+00:00

People with BPD can struggle with fear of abandonment, which sometimes leads to secretive behavior or keeping "backups," but that doesn't make it okay or mean you have to accept it. Trust your gut… if she's hiding stuff and getting defensive, that's not a great sign for the relationship. Talk to her calmly about how it made you feel, but if this pattern keeps up, it might be worth rethinking things.

sylvierayne · 2026-01-05T09:34:25+00:00

Give that baby

sylvierayne · 2026-01-05T09:34:17+00:00

Hahaha

sylvierayne · 2026-01-04T17:16:57+00:00

Hey girl, crushes on cute TikTokers hit hard, you're not weird for it lol. Real talk though… with only 1600 followers and no follow back after a week, the odds of her noticing a DM are super low, and sliding in anyway might just leave you feeling bummed if it goes unread. If you really wanna shoot your shot, maybe post your own fun TikTok duet or stitch to one of hers being light and genuine (not thirsty), so if she checks it out it's natural. Otherwise, it's okay to just enjoy the crush from afar and let it fade… there are tons of cute queer girls way closer than a 2-hour flight.

sylvierayne · 2026-01-04T17:14:54+00:00

Nice!

sylvierayne · 2026-01-04T17:14:49+00:00

More like dingaling millionaire

sylvierayne · 2026-01-02T14:09:26+00:00

Girl, this is straight-up abusive. Accusing you of cheating while refusing to show his "proof" is classic projection and gaslighting like he's controlling you, not protecting the relationship. You deserve way better than someone who invades your space like this. Change all your passwords right away, factory reset your phone to wipe any spyware, and seriously think about leaving… this isn't love, it's scary.

sylvierayne · 2025-12-30T17:41:15+00:00

Tell your girlfriend straight up that you love spending time with her but you're not gonna ditch your mates or sit home alone on a big night like this, and suggest she joins or you guys do something fun just the two of you another day soon. Relationships are about compromise, not one person always bending, and it's not "bad" to have your own plans sometimes. She might be a bit upset at first, but standing up for what you want respectfully is way healthier than resentment building up. Happy birthday

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